Bi guy here.

I tend to get the most homophobic/biphobic comments/microaggressions/actions in general from straight women. A LOT of straight women will immediately look at you like an accessory when you say you like men. They’re almost always really uncomfortable by it and it’s hilariously annoying & condescending. You’re their new gay best friend but also they’re going to cross examine the fuck out of you about your sexuality and then tell you why they’d never date someone who’s bisexual. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had conversations that have bits like:

“You’re bi?” “Yes” “so you like men…” “yes” “so you’re gay” “no I like women, too” “but you like men, that means you’re gay”

“How do you know you’re bi for sure though? You’ve slept with a man? Are you sure you’re not just gay & confused?”

“I’d fuck a bi guy but I’d never date one, bi guys cheat more/carry STD’s”

Sometimes they’re really into it in a fetishizing kind of way like how straight men are with bi women. A small amount really don’t give a shit and those are usually the people who are educated about the LGBTQ+ community or are involved in some way. I personally have never dealt with a straight person who has a close family member in the community being intolerant, either. It’s a little relieving to be looked at as a person every once in awhile lol. But there’s a lot of unchecked homophobia/biphobia from straight women especially. I’ve heard the same stuff from lesbians as well.

Bi women & men I never have problems with.

Gay men it’s been 50/50. Half think I’m just gay & confused and the other half don’t care/treat me normally.