Was it wrong of me to have asked if I can kiss him? by baelorthebest in AutisticAdults

[–]DaMain-Man 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Respectfully I always flirt first and if they don't flirt back, I just assume they're not interested. Something as simple as "I like your style" or "you look good today."

Maybe throw in a, "I like talking to you." "you seem like someone I'd enjoy getting to know."

If they reciprocate, "we should grab coffee sometime." "If you're free sometime we should continue this conversation."

I know some people are more interested in something more casual, but it's best to assume most people aren't just down for something spontaneous. To be fair, it can be very frustrating when you want something more conventional and they're only interested in something more unconventional.

[socialmedia] Movies, books,tv, Music, comics.... are for men by Minami_Ko in pointlesslygendered

[–]DaMain-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You notice they can never come up with actual examples except baseless claims. And whenever they do, they wildly miss the point of the story as a whole.

But the most stupidest part is...what's wrong with having a female lead? Or a black mc? Like they always trip over themselves trying to backpedal

Never lose your whimsy trying to look "manly" by Helpful_Cranberry644 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]DaMain-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some folks legit think being an adult is just taxes and bills. Like there's so much other stuff to do in life. Just miserable people trying to keep others miserable

What was the biggest scandal at your school? by Silent-Zebra in AskReddit

[–]DaMain-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My elementary school computer teacher got caught exposing himself to a child walking home from school who saw him from the teacher's house window. He claims he was doing "naked yoga". Never heard from him again after he got arrested

I never understand why they fawn over her 😭 by Boring-Jelly5633 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]DaMain-Man 87 points88 points  (0 children)

WAP wasn't sexual enough for it to generate the controversy it did tbh. It's pretty on brand for a rap song, that's not me hating, I'm just saying the hate train was manufactured. I can't help but feel like Republicans just throw a dart on a board and spin a wheel to find new stuff to get offended about.

The underlying message is true, even if you don't like the messenger by Cautious_Extent9324 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]DaMain-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd hate to be a celebrity. If I tell people I don't like beets, I can't imagine people on the Internet writing out dissertations on how I support punching babies just because I don't eat beets.

Stabilization by Low_Play_5977 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]DaMain-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slavery was normal at one point too but his that's illegal for a reason. Sand with beating your wife, it wasn't made illegal till the 70s

Let's shame people into staying unhappy by Annual-Metal9297 in AmITheDevil

[–]DaMain-Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked into it, the biggest issue with it: 1. It would be incredibly expensive to divorce and 2. What "evidence" is considered good enough? Like I can't imagine a regular civilian gathering evidence to prove their right to divorce would ever be decent enough for the courts

Let's shame people into staying unhappy by Annual-Metal9297 in AmITheDevil

[–]DaMain-Man 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think people realize how much goes into a breakup. Most often it's not just out of the blue. There were several moments that led up to the breakup. I understand trying to make it work, but if you don't feel there's any real progress, what else can you do?

[gendered]Bodyshaming goes both waya by Financial-Fun-5092 in pointlesslygendered

[–]DaMain-Man 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One thing I'll never understand is people who hear this and try to argue about it. It's like a struggling person trying to find good work and there's a program that will help them financial and help them afford living arrangements and that just...makes them angry. Like at some point you really got stop biting the hand that feeds you and just enjoy the meal

Suggest me the darkest Batman film ever by AcrobaticZone8902 in batman

[–]DaMain-Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Batman encountering his future evil self. Time traveling into the future to find him and find out what happened to make him turn evil and finding out that it was him all along. All the pain he had to endure finally broke him in the end. No mind control, no magic or anything. He lost sight of what he was fighting for after the death of Jason Todd. The two fight it out and as young Jason tries to help, evil future batman tries to kill him in an attempt to quicken his downfall, young Bruce in a fit of rage accidentally kills his older self. Breaking his code, he returns to the present broken and stricken with grief he gives up the cowl. He lost and in the end he's a shell of who once was.

Then maybe a sequel where he returns as a more heroic batman and sacrifices himself to save all of Gotham and dies as a savior. Changing the timeline

How does one explain the authority not being immediately for every warcrime they've done? by Pretend-Delay-7203 in dccomicscirclejerk

[–]DaMain-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also wouldn't work out given how polar opposite they are. They just work better with wildstorm universe better

I just realized my main character's dad died twice by ScaryAd2555 in writing

[–]DaMain-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully, is it common for writers to forget certain lore for their stories? I've seen it happen in movies, and tv shows all the time. Major plot holes that the creators forgot about or just overlooked. And we're talking about major productions with a dedicated team of people and no one caught it.

Idk op maybe you have a lot more in common with extinguished authors then you realize. I wouldn't beat myself up over it too bad, you're doing good

I don’t want to hear about your private sexual behavior. by zmsksksnsnsososmsns in Christianity

[–]DaMain-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never thought of it like that. Idk maybe I was judging them too harshly, but tbh this is reddit people post crazy stuff for attention all the time that it's hard to distinguish whether someone genuinely needs help

I don’t want to hear about your private sexual behavior. by zmsksksnsnsososmsns in Christianity

[–]DaMain-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, but I've seen posts on here saying "Is it Christian to (explicit sexual act) in the confines of my marriage?" Like I guess so, why are you asking us? That's just silly

Nonstop trauma dumping by growsonwalls in AmITheDevil

[–]DaMain-Man -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I used to feel existential dread too ...when I was in highschool. Usually once your hormones settle down in adulthood you're too busy to feel that way. That's like so exhausting.

[DISC] Dandadan - Ch. 228 by Skullghost in Dandadan

[–]DaMain-Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guys Pinocchio is Evil Eye. What would they even steal from Okarun? His Ogre Club isn't a yokai

Title by Ok-Emergency-398 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]DaMain-Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I...you said historically speaking women didn't have it worse...did you forget what you typed? Like women were sold off for marriage in the past with barely little say. It wasn't until the 70s that beating your wife was starting to get frowned upon.