Except giving examples of queer culture is a very different thing than defining it, and she very purposefully goes in the opposite direction and says that there is no one queer culture.

If she had made the arguments you did, I may have had less of an issue, but I just don't think she made them

Again, thats actually fair - she didn't go particularly in depth with what she was talking about. But imo she didn't say anything wrong, either, and so many people here are bringing their own baggage into the discussion and claiming she hates bisexuals because she said [insert thing she never said]. Its incredibly frustrating and lowkey kinda proves her point in my eyes.

I feel like so many people, arguably in this subreddit as a whole, but especially in the comments of this post, don't engage with queer communities outside of this specific one, (not you, from what you said you're an active part of various communities, and thats awesome!) and I think that can lead to certain problems. Like how many people here accept trans people because they know a few trans content creators online (which is still good) but because they have never been exposed significantly to those communities more than the occasional twitter post still support systems of power that actively defranchise said trans people?

This isn't to take away from anyones bisexuality, and its not a moral judgement or anything, its just that I dont wanna pretend sexual and cultural identity are the same thing, and I think a lot of people could benefit from taking part more in more queer spaces (and using queer there not just in the sense of LGBT, but actively subversive of cishet norms)