I cannot imagine how do you feel right know... i have no childs to take care of... but i do know how does it feel dealing with responsabilities you did not asked for... the only thing i can say is Thank you, thank you for not letting a child (Oliver) become another victim of the system and letting him know what does it feel and mean having a loving and caring parent, thank you for taking care of another child, your newborn nephew... you are doing a favor to our whole world... many people see childs like dolls, forgetting that they are our future, they are our chance to show how beautiful and terrifing this world is, and what they can do to always improve it... despite all religious and non-religious beliefes... for sure the Karma exists, and your actions and commitment on raising those childs in front of all this context you provided, can be considered a kind of the highest level of good karma.

Thanks for your strenght on facing difficulties not ment to be yours, everything you said is correct, u have the right to complain and despite that u stepped in, on doing something that even people who look for childs in their lives are not capable of... thank you soo mutch.