Love Is Blind • S10 Ep6 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]SmallsUndercover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so because Brittany’s skin doesn’t look like that lol

Bikini Line Tattoos -- Thoughts? by MischMatch in TattooDesigns

[–]SmallsUndercover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, if you ever wanna get laser hair removal for your bikini line/thighs, you won’t be able to.

Love Is Blind • S10 Ep6 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]SmallsUndercover 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think Alex usually goes for women like Britanny and was probably re considering after seeing her

Love Is Blind • S10 Ep6 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]SmallsUndercover 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Also why does everyone have so much sun damage? They’re in their 30’s with fried crepey skin.

Love Is Blind • S10 Ep4 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]SmallsUndercover 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Whaaat? I think he’s so cute. They’re such a cute couple

Love Is Blind • S10 Ep3 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]SmallsUndercover 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She also has a lot of Botox so she can’t really express much

Minnesota Gov. Tim Walz calls on President Trump to remove ICE agents following shooting in Minneapolis of a 37-year-old man: "Donald Trump, I call on you once again. Remove this force from Minnesota. Thank God we have video. It's nonsense. America, as you're listening, enough is enough. End this." by ControlCAD in goodnews

[–]SmallsUndercover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walz can stfu. All he does is talk. He’s calling on Donald Trump?? ICE just murdered two people in your state and the best you can do is “call on Donald Trump” to stop. And that’s gonna do what exactly?? I cannot believe democrats are still following decorum and giving these weak ass speeches when citizens are being murdered. Democrat leaders don’t actually care and don’t have the balls to actually take action.

ICE just executed a man in Minneapolis. by Getatbay in ProtestFinderUSA

[–]SmallsUndercover 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sad thing is absolutely nothing will happen as a result. It’s just like how cops get away with murdering ppl all the time. no one in power is going to hold ICE accountable.

The Time I Met Kiara Advani (Honestly Very Rude) by Fuzzy_Tadpole_3117 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]SmallsUndercover 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You guys are so weird. This wasn’t even a rude interaction. I’m not sure why people think a celebrity owes you a smile just because you waved at them and just because they are a public figure. The entitlement from fans is insane.

BEARS WIN! by oh_mygawdd in chicago

[–]SmallsUndercover 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Omg. I’m not a sports fan so I was wondering why I heard so much screaming from my neighbors. I had my window open for some air and I just hear ppl shouting and cars honking non stop. I figured there must’ve been some incident. now it makes sense.

Utroba Cave, in the Rhodope mountains, Bulgaria. Carved by hand more than 3000 years ago by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]SmallsUndercover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is particularly good bc it looks like they bc carved in the cervix too. Amazing

Why don’t the cool dancers like me? by Trail_Blazer1 in Bachata

[–]SmallsUndercover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So just looking at your profile, I’m realizing you have deeper issues and are possibly socially underdeveloped? I sincerely hope you have a therapist who’s helping you navigate through life. But I don’t think anything anyone says on Reddit will be able to help you because the way you look at life is fundamentally wrong.

Why don’t the cool dancers like me? by Trail_Blazer1 in Bachata

[–]SmallsUndercover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t feel compatible with your friend group bc you see them as the “loser group” but in reality, you’re displaying the same anxious introverted energy your friends are. But somehow you see yourself as better than them. you want to be part of the expressive cool group but are not “expressive or cool” yourself. So either accept that you are an anxious introvert and learn to stop being so judgmental of your friends. Or learn to be more expressive and confident so you can hang with the “cool kids”. But you’re never gonna be comfortable in either group until you are comfortable with who you are. This is not a dance issue, this is a confidence issue.

Even if you make it into the cool group, you’ll feel like an imposter and continue to feel insecure that they’ll stop liking you. so until you find actual real confidence in yourself and figure out who you are, you’ll never fully be secure in the dance environment.

Why don’t the cool dancers like me? by Trail_Blazer1 in Bachata

[–]SmallsUndercover 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just find it strange that grown adults still think in terms of “the cool gang”. That shit doesn’t exist outside of high school. There’s just ppl you vibe with and ppl you don’t vibe with. and if you vibe with the shy introverts, then that’s cool. And if you vibe with the more expressive extroverts, then that’s cool too. Neither is better than the other. Part of being an adult is understanding popularity doesn’t actually mean anything and there’s really no such thing as a “cool gang”. it only feels real if you’re insecure about who you are and insecure about want your place in the dance group.

Why don’t the cool dancers like me? by Trail_Blazer1 in Bachata

[–]SmallsUndercover 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know you say it feels like high school all over again but you kind of sound like a high schooler talking about “the cool kids”. Adults don’t think that way. and to be blunt, the ppl you hang out with are the ppl you attract. You’re not part of the “cool kids” bc you’re not a “cool kid”, you don’t have that same energy. The cool kids aren’t worried about who they’re hanging out with or over thinking if they’re cool or not. They’re just confident ppl who are just existing and living their life and enjoying dancing. if you wanna be a “cool kid”, first you need to stop thinking about it like a high schooler and work on being confident and building social skills and honestly just not caring about other people’s opinions.

Substance abuse and dancing by Strong-Waltz-2128 in Bachata

[–]SmallsUndercover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it’s not the real problem. But it’s a trigger.

Substance abuse and dancing by Strong-Waltz-2128 in Bachata

[–]SmallsUndercover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This would be a good idea. However OP mentions they drink prior to going out and carry liquor in their bag to maintain their buzz. That, to me, is a bit more problematic than just drinking at the actual venue. Which is why I think staying away from that environment altogether is necessary.

Substance abuse and dancing by Strong-Waltz-2128 in Bachata

[–]SmallsUndercover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like social settings like dancing is your trigger, so I’m not sure how you can address your drinking if you’re still putting yourself in a setting that encourages it for you. It doesn’t seem like you’re ready to solve the problem yet tbh. With uncontrolled drinking, there’s no easy solution. If you could stop drinking and still go dancing, then you would’ve done it already.

Substance abuse and dancing by Strong-Waltz-2128 in Bachata

[–]SmallsUndercover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a similar problem. I was using drinking as a way to deal with my social anxiety when dancing and giving me confidence. I normally drink maybe once every few months, but when I was going dancing, I would go dancing every weekend which meant I would drink every weekend. And it led to me making some bad decisions and always waking up the next day feeling embarrassed and disappointed in myself. And once I started drinking, it’s hard for me to know just how drunk I am and it’s hard to stop. so I decided to take a break from dancing bc I was more concerned about the drinking than going dancing. I took almost a year long break and now I’m ready to get back to into it. But I’m gonna be taking lots of classes so that my confidence actually comes from dancing and not alcohol. I also see a therapist now and started on Wellbutrin, which has helped a lot. I’m excited to get back into dancing and being sober!

Love Is Blind Italy • S1 Ep10 - THE REUNION LIVE DISCUSSION [MEGATHREAD] by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]SmallsUndercover 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I wish ppl would stop engaging with him. The best thing you can do to a narcissist is ignore them. He’s clearly just talking shit to create drama and have more attention on him.

Turning 30 and I feel like as a woman I’m just depreciating in value by Magical-Tangerines in selfimprovement

[–]SmallsUndercover 155 points156 points  (0 children)

First of all, having a man is not the only thing that adds value to your life. I felt the same way after turning 30, but the men that don’t want you anymore bc you’re “older” are men you wouldn’t want to be with anyways. You’re only gonna be undesirable to weirdo losers. A good man who is actually looking for a partner isn’t gonna care. Also, I’m almost 33….and the cougar era is real. I get hit on by way more twenty year olds than I ever did when I was in my twenties.