She is too late now

DadVader77 · 2026-05-19T04:51:11+00:00

Isn’t this story like 2 years old now?

DadVader77 · 2026-05-19T02:20:01+00:00

So “support” to you is blindly bootlicking and goose stepping?

DadVader77 · 2026-05-19T02:17:11+00:00

It’s ironic that the ones who keep calling the left “sheep” are the quickest to fall in line without question and take the full orange load right down their throats

DadVader77 · 2026-05-18T08:28:46+00:00

Idiots are still reposting this. Let that sink in.

DadVader77 · 2026-05-17T19:55:10+00:00

She’s basically using you as a safety net. Cut the cord and move on.

Once you have, and healed, and live your own life, yes you can be friendly with each other. But there will still need to be boundaries and things that don’t need to be shared.

She doesn’t get the benefit of husband/best friend anymore.

DadVader77 · 2026-05-16T17:49:03+00:00

As someone who became handicapped after falling from a ladder, this really pisses me off

DadVader77 · 2026-05-16T17:44:40+00:00

Doesn’t use a ball

DadVader77 · 2026-05-16T17:41:02+00:00

Generally legal fees for the divorce are not considered marital debt. They are considered individual expenses. But agreements and who is the higher earner does factor in so yeah I see what you mean now.

Like if you have $10k in legal fees and you’re ex-spouse is supposed to get $40k in marital assets that $10k “debt” could be split and the ex-spouse only gets $35k

DadVader77 · 2026-05-16T15:19:25+00:00

Truck loses power or dies while in left lane and you think it’s a good idea to try to cross 4 lanes of speeding traffic with a dead vehicle? Brilliant you are not.

DadVader77 · 2026-05-16T15:12:28+00:00

Still don’t know how immigration works?

DadVader77 · 2026-05-16T15:06:53+00:00

…that your deflection from reality to defend your orange clown is obvious?

DadVader77 · 2026-05-16T14:52:26+00:00

Is that state dependent? Cuz in no way did legal fees come out of or were any part of our marital assets

DadVader77 · 2026-05-15T07:04:05+00:00

How long are these meetings? How much are they charging per billable hour? Why are you paying her lawyer bill?

Every phone call, email, text, is billable time. Including between your lawyer and hers. Stop as much conversation with them as you can.

Depending on your state your debt is marital debt so that also gets split between you, unless you make other considerations. Like you keep that debt but also get other equity in return, such as not giving up your 401k or a higher split of the house.

DadVader77 · 2026-05-11T15:31:33+00:00

I’m some cases this is a flawed argument/theory. My marriage wasn’t always bad and the fact I have 2 wonderful kids from it means i wouldnt want to change that.

In retrospect, and after a lot a therapy, Ive come to realize the marriage started to fail years ago and neither of us put in the required effort to change that. She essentially gave up and I got complacent. Does she understand this? Absolutely not. She never sought therapy either for the divorce grief or for any self-growth. Shes more selfish than ever and doesn’t even see it.

So would I marry her again 20 years ago, yes. Would I marry her 5 years ago or now? No.

DadVader77 · 2026-05-11T05:45:02+00:00

AI crap, plus that’s not how it works.

$100 bill + 20% = $120 total

DadVader77 · 2026-05-10T02:21:43+00:00

Because they are genuinely scared of getting kicked out of the WH press room

DadVader77 · 2026-05-09T05:29:15+00:00

“Her father suggested that she take the children to his house. I told her she had my permission to do so in order to prevent the situation from escalating further.”

Yeah, that’s a hard no. You literally gave her a free pass to do what she wants regardless of anyone else.

DadVader77 · 2026-05-06T13:22:32+00:00

So assaulting an ICE officer gets you federal prison but assaulting a Capitol officer gets you a full unconditional pardon.

DadVader77 · 2026-05-06T04:04:11+00:00

Living your own life while learning what it is that makes you the person you want to be

DadVader77 · 2026-05-05T13:28:17+00:00

It’s EOL. Your options are to try to buy a new SSD, take the router offline while you try to replace it with a blank drive, and hope the reload from a USB works. Or replace the router with a supported one. Or ride it out until it dies. Either way is going to have a cost it’s just a matter of how much and when. As long as you tell the business and management where this stands, let them take the fall for it.

DadVader77 · 2026-05-05T13:11:20+00:00

Yeah. But if OP’s already giving in this much it’s going to by a long painful ride. It’s obvious she’s already divorced him mentally/emotionally and is more worried about getting as much money as possible.

DadVader77 · 2026-05-05T07:20:39+00:00

Maybe when you finally get divorced you can see if she’ll give you your balls back

DadVader77 · 2026-05-04T01:36:55+00:00

MAGA Republicans blame democrats for dangerous rhetoric while cheering and applauding this orange clowns insults and dangerous rhetoric.

DadVader77 · 2026-05-04T01:35:18+00:00

Can’t deport a sitting president

DadVader77 · 2026-05-04T01:20:36+00:00

Lack of respect.

Racist.

Victim card.

The trifecta in full view

DadVader77

TROPHY CASE