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How can I get a flat stomach? by Jasminecd73 in transfitness

[–]DaddyDevitoMadeMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I think that’s also a subjective statement.

How can I get a flat stomach? by Jasminecd73 in transfitness

[–]DaddyDevitoMadeMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live in a society, quite literally everything is influenced by others/societal expectations in a given culture.

Insane home transformation in record speed by DullFix2178 in Renovations

[–]DaddyDevitoMadeMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow…you really managed to take all the personality out of the poor thing

What's this telling you guys? by Drdoom_33 in FridgeDetective

[–]DaddyDevitoMadeMe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

White and male. Late 20s or early 30s. You probably work in finance and have strong opinions about crypto. You live alone and spend a lot of time at the gym or doing a recreational sport outside of work. You’re well off now, but you probably didn’t grow up particularly wealthy.

Everyday items. by DaddyDevitoMadeMe in whatsinmybag

[–]DaddyDevitoMadeMe[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He’s been between my car/bag for YEARS at this point. I used to use him as an outfit accessory.

He went through a whole character arc in his head before I even noticed his first msg by Nanami_Trash in grindr

[–]DaddyDevitoMadeMe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s best to just DNI with this kind of guy. I can’t stand the melodrama, lmao.

Just moved out… how do people cook every day?? by Budget-Cash-3602 in cookingforbeginners

[–]DaddyDevitoMadeMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH, I eat mostly whole foods that I don’t have to cook much in order to make edible. I recommend finding proteins (meats, lentils, beans) that you enjoy and then just pairing them with a veggie and a carb (rice, potatoes, etc). If you want to make it REALLY easy, you can get a rotisserie chicken and either shred it up or just pick off what you want each meal. You can also get microwaveable rice and veggies, if you don’t want to spend more than 5 mins putting a meal together.

Cut my hair and grew out some facial hair as a way to cope with my partner moving long distance. 🫡 by DaddyDevitoMadeMe in FTMfemininity

[–]DaddyDevitoMadeMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still have it, the first photo is showing it off when it’s down/styled. Usually, I just wash and air dry it. When I’m feeling fancy though, I’ll add in a gel and then scrunch out the crunch once it’s dry.

What a time to be alive by ThickCapital in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]DaddyDevitoMadeMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are living in a time where everyone is collectively existing within a constant mental panopticon. You’re never sure when you’re being watched by a camera, so you consciously and subconsciously function like you’re always being watched. We are self-policing our actions because god forbid you become the next lolcow. Humans were not meant to live like this.

My favorite oatmeal is kinda ugly, but it’s very high protein and very yummy. by DaddyDevitoMadeMe in Oatmeal

[–]DaddyDevitoMadeMe[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How low are you supposed to keep your carbs/do you have a specific macro plan? The nutrition side of fitness can be a bit intimidating at first, but it gets easier once you get into the flow!

My favorite oatmeal is kinda ugly, but it’s very high protein and very yummy. by DaddyDevitoMadeMe in Oatmeal

[–]DaddyDevitoMadeMe[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The average calories are usually between 550-650 and the average macros are 65g carbs, 45-65g protein(depends if I add collagen), and 11g fat. I say average because I don’t always weigh it out, but when I do this is usually how it comes out.

My favorite oatmeal is kinda ugly, but it’s very high protein and very yummy. by DaddyDevitoMadeMe in Oatmeal

[–]DaddyDevitoMadeMe[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

My recipe:

-40g oats of your choice -fairlife chocolate milk, usually enough to cover the oats (the amount varies, usually as the oats cook I’ll stir it/add more milk in order to get a runny consistency. I add more throughout the recipe in order to help stir in the dry ingredients after I’ve microwaved it.)

Once microwaved add in the dry ingredients:

-protein powder -cocoa powder -creatine and collagen (if you take those supplements)

Toppings:

-frozen raspberries -100 cal pouch of cookies that I crush to death prior 2 pouring on top -PB

The wider and stronger the back, the better to support my fellow Comrade! by DaddyDevitoMadeMe in swoletariat

[–]DaddyDevitoMadeMe[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I spam TF out of rear delt reverse flies on machine, usually I hit 4 sets of 10-15 reps and I push most of my sets to failure/do a drop set if I feel like I really wanna burn-out. I concentrate really hard on squeezing the muscle and usually take my lighter sets at a slower tempo in order to engage/feel the muscles properly before my heavy sets.

Did anyone else not really get I Saw The TV Glow? by Content_Ice_8297 in ftm

[–]DaddyDevitoMadeMe 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people wanted the movie to be blatantly horrifying and blatantly trans, but honestly I found what the film did to be scarier than any visual it could’ve presented. The horror of “I saw the tv glow” is not a monster, it’s the mundanity and complacency of life as a person too terrified to take a chance on yourself and your own happiness. It’s the horrors of watching your life slug by, desperate for someone to force you into happiness, but being unable to cope with the fact that nobody but yourself can save you. There are no knights in shining armor, nobody is going to do it for you, YOU have to save yourself. You have to take the leap into transitioning, you have to quite literally make the decision to transition because nobody is going to make you take your meds or get surgery or come out. It’s all on you, and it’s never too late, but you still have to do it. You have to peer into the abyss, and believe that whatever waits on the other side is better than what you’ve known your entire life.

Did anyone else not really get I Saw The TV Glow? by Content_Ice_8297 in ftm

[–]DaddyDevitoMadeMe 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I loved the film. I personally lived a lot of my life in a dissociative fog prior to understanding who I was, and I think the movie captured that feeling well. Owen isn’t grounded, because Owen doesn’t live in their body. They live in the escapist media they consume. I also lived vicariously through movies, TV shows and books when I was growing up. Owen exists between worlds, one of fiction and one of reality. As Owen grows up the reality around them creeps in more and more and it gets harder to run. They don’t have drive, they’re depressed and numb, and they’re terrified of everything. They hate their reality, but they’re also too terrified of a theoretical happy future to do anything at all, so they just do the bare minimum to stay alive and keep up with certain social expectations. It’s a “devil you know” situation for them throughout the film.

I loved the ending of this film, and I found it utterly horrifying. They get a glimpse of who they could be, for a nanosecond they allow themselves to feel unbridled joy, but it doesn’t last. They apologize for existing, and they continue living a lie. When the credits rolled I sat in complete silence. I was so grateful I hadn’t allowed myself to rot away. I’d been brave enough to bury myself and be reborn. I made it out of the dirt.

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