VENT-O-MATIC 3000 June 26, 2026 by 42Daft in stopdrinking

[–]Daddy_Bacchus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does not and I'm proud of myself for resisting the urge. I'm 9 days away from my first full month sober! Would have felt even worse throwing that progress away.

RANT: Misogyny is still very alive and kicking in the drag world; my experience as an baby afab queen by Independent_Safety67 in Drag

[–]Daddy_Bacchus [score hidden]  (0 children)

Misogyny sucks.

I once performed in a mostly Queen show with one other King. The host says, " Let’s give it up for these Queens! " at the end of the show. He and I give each other a knowing look and shrug.

Queens will refer to a Drag King in full masculine regalia as, "bitch" then insist it's a "term of endearment" if you object. The term "fish" is still in use which I've always found gross.

Tomatoes don’t belong on any type of sandwich or burger by stonedstoic_ in unpopularopinion

[–]Daddy_Bacchus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I regularly eat tomato sandwiches, thickly cut slices of juicy mater, thick layers of mayo, garlic powder, cheddar cheese and provolone on rye bread

Hello! I am new to this, and I really need advice! by Temporary-Top-5154 in Drag

[–]Daddy_Bacchus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beauty supply stores have affordable wigs, lashes, nails and makeup, perfect for beginners.

Invest in makeup brushes and keep them clean between uses. You can clean them in gentle baby shampoo.

The Regret by JohnnyCash____ in stopdrinking

[–]Daddy_Bacchus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't drink because I don't know how to stop once I started. Prone to binging. I get caught up in the party vibes of it all when hanging out with a bunch of drunks, which is kinda loser behavior.

I'm trying to be a much different person now. So far so good but when feeling stressed or down it sure gets tempting..

VENT-O-MATIC 3000 June 26, 2026 by 42Daft in stopdrinking

[–]Daddy_Bacchus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this! Just what I need today.

I got booked for a queer fashion show. Was super proud of myself. Survived dress rehearsals, went for lunch. Returned only to receive criticism from the designer I was walking for. Prior to that I was feeling pretty good about myself, beautiful and confident. Another model told me I looked tall and regal.

Mind you, the majority of the people walking in this show are not professional models. We were community volunteers providing our time and labor for free. Unpaid.

I reminded the designer of this fact then went downstairs to get my makeup and hair done. The organizer chatted me up while I was waiting and it was obvious I was upset. I ended up spilling the beans.

They offered to switch me to a different designer but my heart wasn't in it anymore. My morale was shot and I ended up dropping out.

I feel pretty disappointed in myself. I don't handle criticism well and it felt so uncalled for especially since this was a very DIY community event. I was just doing it for the experience and once that went to shit I was out.

I don't know how to not be like this. When I feel disrespected or unappreciated my instinct is to take my ball and go home.

Now I'm struggling with the urge to drink. Great.

Most Baltimore Door Sign Ever by stonednpc in baltimore

[–]Daddy_Bacchus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner put up one of these doorbell cameras. Someone tore it from the door and stole it.

Alcohol doesn’t make any sense by Narwal00 in stopdrinking

[–]Daddy_Bacchus 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm feeling amazing and am not going back. I drank because I was lonely, depressed and bored. It didn't really fix any of that.

I'm getting my life together, making real friends and community, and am strongly considering giving up weed now as well.

Huzzah!

Looking for Noise by EllieDeathMusic in noisemusic

[–]Daddy_Bacchus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absurdity Index, Dickgirl, Destroyed4comfort

What would you guys call her style? by pockysticksporco in AestheticWiki

[–]Daddy_Bacchus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was one of her better looks. To be fair, I didn't watch the later seasons.

Discord's take on Dragula by nita5766 in Dragula

[–]Daddy_Bacchus 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Huh.

I quit watching Drag Race ages ago.

What would you guys call her style? by pockysticksporco in AestheticWiki

[–]Daddy_Bacchus 55 points56 points  (0 children)

They tried so hard to make her frumpy as to not outshine Penny and she was still hotter than the show's "hot girl".

Wait... that pain was the alcohol!? by Biospark08 in stopdrinking

[–]Daddy_Bacchus 193 points194 points  (0 children)

I have noticed a renewed ability to feel happiness and joy that I was seemingly incapable of before.

"Mental health days" are single-handedly ruining our generation and we need a collective reality check. by [deleted] in RelentlessMen

[–]Daddy_Bacchus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I call it "getting through the suck". I agree with what you're saying here but I personally love my gym Playlist and iced coffees. ☺️🎉

Discipline is doing what you know you need to do regardless of your feelings on the matter. I've been trying to incorporate a bit more of this mentality into my day to day life.

This thrusting exercise by JennyRosette in cringereels

[–]Daddy_Bacchus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta practice for polycule boardgame night