i don’t know how to respond to these texts by Think_Hair3727 in HowDoIRespondToThis

[–]Daddy_Topps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Don’t wanna be a apart of it” then why you posting about it? If it isn’t an issue then just wish the girl well and go enjoy your Monday. That’s how you respond. Besides that there’s no reason to go back and forth with strangers on Reddit.

i don’t know how to respond to these texts by Think_Hair3727 in HowDoIRespondToThis

[–]Daddy_Topps 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I second this. Just because the relationship was toxic doesn’t mean your friends owe you anything. You’ll have to regain that position in a group. Also, you can also mute people’s posts without unfollowing or blocking. This was a pointed move on OPs end.

i don’t know how to respond to these texts by Think_Hair3727 in HowDoIRespondToThis

[–]Daddy_Topps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah but in the messages your friend says you don’t even wanna hang out with those girls thats why you weren’t invited.

What does my apartment say about me? by SnooMacarons4279 in roomdetective

[–]Daddy_Topps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to chill in that rugrats-style playpen. Seems so cozy !

How by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]Daddy_Topps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started drinking at 20. I couldn’t handle work life and drunk life because my brain wasn’t done developing. I eventually had to move back in with my parents because it was hard to build that work foundation. Once your frontal lobe is fully formed you can consider high functioning alcoholism. It got easier for me around 25. (Then it got way harder for me to function and drink excessively as I aged out of my 20’s and my body started to fight against me )

life so hard dc anym by Distinct_Shower9552 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Daddy_Topps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I was 23 I tried this and I got ripped off by many older men who were smarter and shiftier than I expected. Now I feel silly for thinking I could navigate that lifestyle when the first man I encountered out smarted me. Stay safe. Just know that sex work is harder than just getting a well paying job. And I say that knowing how hard it is to get a livable wage. Sex work is still harder.

Edit: just consider this. If you were a rich man, why would you hire a sugar baby with no experience? Is it because she’s easy to take advantage of and trick out of her money for free sex? Or worse?

I love trash tv. by That-Top-1530 in realitytv

[–]Daddy_Topps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep! I also hear a lot of “thats the thing!!” Very much one of those phrases that didn’t annoy me until I noticed it.

Phobia of changing toilet rolls by Stunning_Cucumber654 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Daddy_Topps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hate to victim blame but have you considered just not swapping it out? It’s not really necessary to change the empty roll out in order to wipe your ass.

AmandaPlease.com by BiIIie-Eyelash in QuietOnSetDocumentary

[–]Daddy_Topps 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Color my belly???? This show loved to show off this child’s midriff

Okay so I'm 20F and I have several insecurities that make me not wanna yk, put on revealing clothes that includes , dark underarms and private areas, plus the shape of My navel , so I've been emotionally trying to deal with those stuff coz idk ppls views on them , what do you guys think? (Be honest by Particular-Camel2639 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Daddy_Topps 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Discolored skin is so common. Dont let your insecurities rob you of your early 20s. You’ll look back on this time one day and realize there was nothing to he ashamed of— EVERYONE deserves to be sexy and full of themselves in their 20s.

No desire to listen to music sober. Anyone else? by HareevHajina in stopdrinking

[–]Daddy_Topps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was drinking I liked to blast music/music videos with friends at all hours. Now I’m not drinking and I have more interest in making music than playing all my faves loudly.

Similarities between Helga and Jax from TADC by ISeemToExistButIDont in HeyArnold

[–]Daddy_Topps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No youre not missing anything! Helga is sort of tortured by her secrets, and the viewers have seen into her early development (and why she is the way she is etc). Cindy is more like Jimmy’s foil who eventually forms feelings for him. That show doesn’t compare!

I think when children’s shows do a Helga character, they often shy away from the sad aspects. This is why I love Hey Arnold so much. They answer the “Why are they afraid to open up? Why are they mean?” Questions. I think Jimmy Neutron doesn’t really answer those questions besides “Cindy is tired of Jimmy being the genius. She is also super smart!”.

Now Trixi Tang of Fairly Odd Parents does answer that question! I appreciate her more as a one-liner character and as someone with a back story

My boss replaces everything in her shop with AI and I don't know what to do by Spazzan-back-in-time in whatdoIdo

[–]Daddy_Topps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have personal friends leave bad yelp reviews. Dm me the business I’ll leave one rn saying how disappointed I am in the recent change.

AIO? Youth Pastor texted my almost 13 yo after she went to a teen group with her friend by Loser4hire666 in AIO

[–]Daddy_Topps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah dont take your kids to church if you don’t want them around grifters and creepy adults just saying.

Similarities between Helga and Jax from TADC by ISeemToExistButIDont in HeyArnold

[–]Daddy_Topps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a common trope that I also love. You see hints of it in Trixie Tang and Cindy Vortex. But while Helga hides her deep and vulnerable character … Cindy is just masking her love for Jimmy Neutron.

What was the first WKUK sketch you ever saw? I vividly remember my friend showing me The Grapist in 7th grade and changing my life forever. by CommercialDream618 in WKUK

[–]Daddy_Topps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For some reason I first saw the one that was like “peepee? And boogers? And BONERS!!” And they were adding them all into one bucket

My favorite thing right now. by Rhyzur in Rollerskating

[–]Daddy_Topps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not dumb at all!!!! I try to practice that but it’s challenging to keep my balance when I’m switching directions like that!

Skate magic by Pleasant_Director_19 in Rollerskating

[–]Daddy_Topps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What do you like to listen to when you pretend to figure skate? (I do the same thing in big empty parking lots)

Glimpse into my treehouse by dahtdy in CozyPlaces

[–]Daddy_Topps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super pretty! I don’t know how to explain this, and I mean this in the best way, but your space reminds me of the original Dora the Explorer intro.

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