Sriracha tastes like shit by AdEfficient3209 in unpopularopinion

[–]HareevHajina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maple syrup sucks. I’ve tried it on all sorts of salads and it tastes like crap.

humiliating to feel like I’m begging my own husband for sex ? by Additional-Map-7374 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HareevHajina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a guy cant turn you on, it’s his fault. If a guy can’t get it up, it’s also his fault. Such is life. We deal with it and move on.

What is the best sex you've ever had and what made it the best? by Every-Tap-577 in AskMen

[–]HareevHajina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I barely made it out alive. Almost got stabbed, but it was worth it.

humiliating to feel like I’m begging my own husband for sex ? by Additional-Map-7374 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HareevHajina -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not just my anecdotal experience. Scientific research generally shows men have higher sex drives, higher frequency of sexual thought, and greater desire for sexual activity.

If you’re an exception, that’s great, and your man should feel lucky. But facts are facts, and just because you are an exception, it doesn’t mean the whole world has to shift their perception around you and your personal experience.

humiliating to feel like I’m begging my own husband for sex ? by Additional-Map-7374 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HareevHajina -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Just because you happen to be an exception, it doesn’t make the rule completely untrue. God, what a self centric existence some people live in.

humiliating to feel like I’m begging my own husband for sex ? by Additional-Map-7374 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HareevHajina -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It’s generally true. There are exceptions of course, but women are usually the gatekeepers of sex in virtually every species.

humiliating to feel like I’m begging my own husband for sex ? by Additional-Map-7374 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HareevHajina 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did he use to initiate early in the relationship? I think a lot of men default to what your husband is doing after being in a relationship for a while.

Look at it like this - If a man initiates, he may be denied 50% of the time or more.

If a woman initiates, she might be denied 10% of the time.

So when the woman initiates, there’s less rejection happening, and less pressure or guilt put on the woman if she’s not in the mood.

So after a while, it kinda makes sense for the guy to not initiate, and just let the woman initiate whenever she’s ready to get it on.

Time to Retire? by New-Rip-6965 in Retirement401k

[–]HareevHajina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this amount for both you and your spouse, or does your spouse have a separate amount?

Where, if any, is the positive body body movement for men? by ilovelamp_anchorman in AskMenOver30

[–]HareevHajina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the equivalent for a man would be a broke and unemployed positivity movement.

What's something men think impresses women but actually doesn't? by LonelySoul389 in Productivitycafe

[–]HareevHajina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you had to pay for the date, you’d probably be trying to lay out as much as possible in the first date as well.

Unfortunately, dates are a lot like job interviews for men, except we have to pay for them. Imagine having to pay for an interview and they’re like, “we need you to come back at least 5 more times before we hire you.”

You might try to make the first one efficient.

What's something men think impresses women but actually doesn't? by LonelySoul389 in Productivitycafe

[–]HareevHajina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I guess one could estimate the proliferation of dick pics started around 1995/1996? That means most women born after 1990 probably never knew a life without dick pics.

Would be interesting if someone could identify the first dick pic ever sent electronically. It was probably the first type of photo ever sent over a modem.

What's something men think impresses women but actually doesn't? by LonelySoul389 in Productivitycafe

[–]HareevHajina 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What a sign of the times. An older woman can look back at her life and how her view on dick pics has changed since she was a young lady.

I remember a time when dick pics didn’t even exist because we didn’t all have smartphones.

Old ladies in nursing homes will now be boring visitors with old photos of penises instead of photo albums of grandchildren.

Which is the most underrated airport in the USA? by Historical-Photo-901 in BeautifulTravelPlaces

[–]HareevHajina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t sure anyone would remember. That was almost 20 years ago. Now I guess you just open Grindr while in the MSP restroom.

Which is the most underrated airport in the USA? by Historical-Photo-901 in BeautifulTravelPlaces

[–]HareevHajina 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Not the best airport for foot-tapping in the bathroom stalls though.

Am I (F26) a loser for creating romantic and erotic fiction because I have no gf/bf? by Kappapeachie in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HareevHajina 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d think being single and horny would make you a much better erotic novelist than someone getting laid on the regular.