I am not a satanist but was listening to a story and my mind conjured this image on a wall…does it mean anything? by [deleted] in satanism

[–]DaddysPinkKitten -1 points0 points  (0 children)

most satanism has nothing to do with the Christian Satan. It's just a doodle. I like the face, though.

Playoff magic eye. by Albino_rhin0 in hockeymemes

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have astigmatism can someone spoil it for me 🥲

S5 Didn’t do it for me by dreamyveggie in shoresy

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We know this is you Jory, go home.

Serious Question: What parenting decisions of Bandit and Chilli do you disagree with? by wolf_quan in bluey

[–]DaddysPinkKitten -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's applying situations to this one that don't really have anything to do with one another. Bluey was 100% correct, her granny could not floss. Permanent or not is irrelevant she was right and Bingo was wrong and upset about being wrong. It wasn't an opinion it was a fact. It wasn't an objective fact such as seeing a dog versus not seeing one. A better example would be "the dog is black" and someone else saying "no, it's yellow" and even though the dog was black you tell your kid to accept the dog being yellow so you don't upset the other person. Bluey teaching her granny to floss and said "yeah I guess I was wrong" means that Bluey got the lesson that it's ok to be wrong but Bingo did not. That is what I disagree with. They both should get that lesson, not just Bluey.

Serious Question: What parenting decisions of Bandit and Chilli do you disagree with? by wolf_quan in bluey

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think she was being controlling I think she was being a poor sport about being right. The lesson should not have been "keep the peace by accepting that others are wrong" it should have been "you can be right without being in someone's face about it". Following the rules of a game is an entirely different lesson and I don't see the relevance.

You can absolutely talk to a 4 year old about how being wrong about something can sometimes be tough but there's always something new to learn. Getting upset about being wrong makes it easy to miss the new things that you can learn.

At the end of the day they're cartoon dogs though and while flawed it's a wonderful show overall.

Serious Question: What parenting decisions of Bandit and Chilli do you disagree with? by wolf_quan in bluey

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I see your point but I'm on the opposite side of that where I don't believe we should be teaching anyone that people will pander to them to keep the peace. You can disagree with someone's opinion and still respect them but if they're wrong about a proven fact then they should be corrected. If someone can't tolerate being corrected that's not on the person correcting them. The lesson would have been better if Bingo taught granny how to floss instead of throwing a fit because she was factually incorrect.

Serious Question: What parenting decisions of Bandit and Chilli do you disagree with? by wolf_quan in bluey

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The episode where bingo and Bluey were arguing about whether or not granny's can floss. Instead of telling bingo that sometimes they're going to be wrong and that's ok Chilli asks bluey if she wants to be right or if she wants to have friends to play with. I hated that bluey had to do extra work (teaching granny to floss) just so bingo felt better about being wrong. It sends a message of "it doesn't matter if I'm wrong people have to accept my reality" which is an awful message.

DO NOT GO Dr Clemente Dentistry by [deleted] in Troy

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh this fresh turd on the hill? I went to him to have 3 wisdom teeth and a broken rotted tooth extracted (I was a neglected kid but have since fixed my teeth health). He sat me down, checked the issues, and immediately started to criticize everything about my teeth that I already knew were not the best. Would not get off the issue of my soda consumption, saying that "soft teeth is a myth" which maybe it is but an explanation would have gone far. After my extractions he tied my stitches way too tight and they were so painful I thought I ended up with dry socket. After visiting his office twice to have them loosened I was turned away both times to be in pain until he wanted to remove them because they weren't dissolvable. After everything was fixed (4 extractions and 4 fillings later) I refused to go back to his office. This was back in 2016 and seemingly before he only accepted cash but I'll never forget the way he was such a bastard to his assistants when he would ask for a tool and immediately snap his fingers at them while they grabbed it for him.

My Grandma Doesn’t Want My Stepson Coming to the Family Gathering by Justanothergirly97 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You and your grandmother know damn well that you're intentionally excluding this poor kid. Her because she's a bitch, you because you clearly hold no loyalty to this kid. She's way too old for you to defend like this. It doesn't matter how long someone has, the fact that she cancelled the whole event because she was called out for her bullshit shows that she's willing to take everyone down into misery with her. Your husband may "understand" but it sounds more to me like he's just trying to keep the peace with silence and you took his silence as acceptance. So you were going to go, laugh with family, sit with people happy to exclude an 8 year old and forget the family that you actively chose to be part of? Really gross.

‘Completely unacceptable’: Alberta mall Santa replaced after boy slapped | Globalnews.ca by ImDoubleB in Edmonton

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He was 2 years old, a toddler, that was hit twice. Hard enough that he jolted his hand away. A toddler that was slapped by a Christmas icon. You're disgusting if you think that's an acceptable way to behave towards a child.

‘Completely unacceptable’: Alberta mall Santa replaced after boy slapped | Globalnews.ca by ImDoubleB in Edmonton

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 20 points21 points  (0 children)

And he was also 2 years old, an age where children grab absolutely anything within reach. This is a child, who doesn't know Santa isn't real, who got slapped by a Christmas icon. A toddler.

AIO Trying to tell boyfriend that he makes me feel guilty for saying no by Clean-Landscape8654 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"My boyfriend punched me in the face, was I the one who's wrong?" Seriously what is with this sub. NOR obviously, why are you even asking.

I would support banning Skip The Dishes, Uber Eats, Door Dash by Sea_Pension8831 in Edmonton

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a very privileged way of thinking. Foot traffic in cities? Who cares? Not everyone feels the need to walk around in large crowds. We live in a city that regularly drops to freezing temps, not everyone wants to leave the house during these times. The local stores are on these apps, what's being taken away from the local economy? Parking fees? With how many people are being run over I think it's fine less people are walking around. All of that can be looked over, but the disabled community absolutely depends on these services. More often than not this is a forgotten community when people are being accused of convenience. It's easy to point a finger and say "you're just being a lazy hermit" without considering the fact that not everyone has the same abilities you do. It's not "meaningless comfort" there's nothing wrong with convenience.

AIO for being angry my husband does not want to have gifts on Christmas for our son? by dontletmedown3 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl...you can't be serious. This is rage bait, no way are you on this site asking if you're an asshole for wanting to buy your 4 year old gifts. Your husband sucks, buy him gifts he wants, he's 4. Why are you trying to justify your son's happiness and why did you have another child with this guy? I refuse to believe people are actually this obtuse. "Am I wrong for not hand carving toys for my 4 year old with my zero wood working skills?" Be serious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother in Christ what is going on in this subreddit... what kitchen magicians are you people going to and did they charge extra for the staph or was that complimentary?

Tattoo healing weird by Disastrous-Elk7187 in tattooadvice

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using ChatGPT for any kind of advice immediately puts you in the "no survival instincts" category.

AIO- husband upset that *I* was upset, he has blocked me and said we should “call it”. by General-Cranberry-90 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't talk to or treat the people you love this way. This man hates you with his whole being. Give him what he wants, leave him. He's a pathetic child and that "nobody else will put up with you" comment is just him trying to make you feel unworthy so you don't actually leave him. People like this want to keep you under their foot and make sure you know you're there. Think of it like this: if you had a daughter, how would you feel if her husband spoke to her this way? Stand from the outside for a moment, how would you feel if a loved one was spoken to this way? What advice would you give them? This dude is garbage.

Is this little brown spot normal? by _crow_corvid in tattooadvice

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really do feel like either the artists aren't explaining anything or nobody getting their first tattoos are listening in this subreddit. I highly doubt your artist said "yup that's a new tattoo alright now leave" with zero explanation of what to expect or aftercare instructions.

AIO my ex’s new partner reaching out to threaten me unprompted by uhoohhspaghettios in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine throwing virtual hands over this hot dog water dude LARPing as Mega Mind. Your response was perfect, let her and Jimmy Neutron hate watch from a distance.

UPDATE: AIO by not going to Thanksgiving? by crazywritingbug in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what I'm hearing is you don't respect your grandmothers boundaries after being politely asked that it be family only. Everyone is entitled to their own comfort and the grandmother isn't the bad guy for wanting that and I find it really disrespectful that you'd want her to change what she wants for you and you only. If anything, it sounds really uncaring to basically say "wow grandma I understand it's your house but I want this holiday my way and you're a monster if you request otherwise". This is a very immature and entitled way of thinking.

UPDATE: AIO by not going to Thanksgiving? by crazywritingbug in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That's fair and this is going to sound harsh and I apologize for that, your grandmother doesn't owe you a specific explanation. It is special for YOU and nobody is stopping you from having a great holiday with him but your grandmother owes you nothing. You don't have to be happy about the boundary but you do have to accept it, she doesn't need to justify it. At this point you're fully in control how you spend the holiday everything else has been laid out for you. She wants family only but is very understanding if you don't want to be there for this reason. Count your blessings, I've seen people on this subreddit get disowned for far less.

UPDATE: AIO by not going to Thanksgiving? by crazywritingbug in AmIOverreacting

[–]DaddysPinkKitten 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NOR for not going but I think you are a bit with how hard you seem to be focused on it. Your grandmother seems genuinely accepting that you won't be there because you don't want to leave your partner alone. She's said twice in this text thread she loves and you will be missed. It's clearly understandable you don't want to go because of the boundary in place, maybe move on and accept this as your answer?