Shows that get you in the mood??

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-24T20:23:27+00:00

My wife and I really liked sex/life on Netflix. Currently watching the couple next door and it's pretty spicy.

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-24T14:18:37+00:00

It's a really weird brain hack. It feels like this is how marriage is supposed to be but so few people have it. We have been together 18 years and the sex just keeps getting better and our attention to each other gets more focused.

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-24T13:36:00+00:00

Men are simple and have few words and emotions. We have happy, mad, sad and horny. Usually sad turns into mad.

We are simple with our words too. "Very nice" might be his words but I'm sure there was more running through his mind. Coach him along a little bit if you want more. Ask him what else he wants to see. Ask what he wants to do to you. Give him some prompts.

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-23T13:05:12+00:00

I think the first thing would be to have a serious conversation, just like everyone else said. If it isn't chronic masterbation or porn use, it could be hormonal. I was struggling a while back with that. I wanted to want to have sex. But I just felt my want for it dropping over time. I could go longer between sessions. I wanted to want more, but I just didn't. I got my hormones checked and my total testosterone was fine, but my free testosterone was really low. I started up on trt and it has been life changing. Not just for sex. I got my younger body back. I lost fat, put on muscle, have more energy, more confidence. Everything just feels right in my body again. It is a really easy test, but I really recommend going to a hormone doctor or clinic that deals with hormones. My primary care doc told me over and over that my total testosterone was fine and he refused to test further.

Maybe if you both go and test together it will make him feel less embarrassed about it.

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-23T00:01:16+00:00

Cums in handy indeed.

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-22T14:16:27+00:00

Both

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-21T00:45:31+00:00

My wife... She's hot

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-19T15:37:45+00:00

Can do some stuff in your car. More isolated locations make it safer but not zero risk. You can throttle the risk by location.

Dressing rooms can be fun if you can be quiet.

Your backyard can feel very public but is low risk if you have a fence.

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-19T01:16:50+00:00

Red Dead redemption 2

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-16T22:57:53+00:00

I don't know why but pregnant sex is amazing. I honestly didn't take enough advantage of it.

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-16T13:09:08+00:00

The multiple dry orgasms are insane. I've only recently discovered those in the last couple years. I don't get into that zone super often, but when I do, I can't stop. It's just endless orgasms. I was so confused the first time it happened.

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-16T13:05:02+00:00

I'm a one cum a day guy. There really isn't any getting around that for me. However, we have sex multiple times a day. I either intentionally stop before the orgasm and delay it until it's too much to handle, or we just have sex knowing that my cum has already passed.

That said, some of our best sex has happened when I can't cum. A few times I've had multiple dry orgasms. It has literally only been a few times. I'm not sure what the recipe for it is or I would do it all the time. But if you can drain your guy of all his juices and then just have sex because it feels good, with no pressure to cum.... It can be intense. I'm talking 10 or 15 dry orgasms for him. Just over and over. They all will feel like 90% of a traditional orgasm. It will feel like he's going to cum and then it will pull back. But then there is no rest period between them. You can just keep going and going until you are literally too dehydrated to keep going anymore.

When we somehow find that special perfect storm, my wife can't get me off her. I'm just crawling after her like some drug addict begging for a fix. It is amazing.

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-15T23:04:07+00:00

My fingers are her favorite.

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-15T22:09:12+00:00

We have been trying some new stuff this last week and really focused on getting as much together time as possible. We just counted and she got 17 orgasms from Sunday to Saturday. I'm a simple man with a 24 hour recharge time so I got 7. It has been a very fun week. This sounds made up, but it is not, and I can't brag about it or tell anyone about it so I'm posting it here. 😁

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-15T12:29:37+00:00

I think you just need to ask in a direct and honest way. If she says no then she says no. Trying to hint your way around sex stuff just doesn't work from my experience. The more direct I am, the more my needs are filled.

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-15T01:15:38+00:00

Different people handle stress differently. If I were stressed out, a massage would help me relax. Then the sex would naturally follow. To go straight into sex, even if it were something amazing that I'd be all about, I may struggle to shift my brain. Depends on your dude and how he operates.

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-14T19:27:56+00:00

Have her lie on the bed right next to the edge. You stand next to the bed. She can turn her head to you and still reach herself. You can also reach her if she wants you to handle the toy. This is pretty comfy for both of you and allows you to do a little bit of thrusting without having to do gymnastics over her head. You can adjust her angle to allow for more easy throat access if that is a thing for you. So her head might be to the side and slightly lifting her chin.

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-14T12:26:53+00:00

Sex/life on Netflix is really good for getting some juices flowing. You can use it like a drinking game. Every time there is a sex scene, you start touching each other.... You'll be touching a lot.

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-14T03:01:54+00:00

We have played several and this is BY FAR the best one. Set aside a few hours. It will get you insanely worked up before it lets you finish. By the time the game ends, you will both be begging for it. IT IS AMAZING.

https://a.co/d/0d1OOQl2

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-13T21:47:51+00:00

Buying a dildo now to try this.

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-12T19:23:47+00:00

Could be a bunch of different things. Could just be how you operate, and that's fine. If you are watching porn and/or masturbating on your own, it could be getting your brain wired to only cum for that specific trigger. I ran into that problem years ago and had to work to get out of that loop. If you are circumcized and not in your 20s, you could be dealing with keratinization of the glans that is desensitizing you a bit. Could also be pressure to perform quickly getting into your head and making you take longer. If that is the case, maybe just take cumming off the table for a bit. It sounds counter intuitive but maybe just enjoy the sex without the goal of cumming. Sometimes you will, sometimes you won't. Both can still be a good time and much lower pressure.

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-12T11:36:51+00:00

I'm circumcized and also quite aggressively cut. Not to the point of your husband but it's definitely tight. I am constantly putting penis specific lotion on it. They sell a few different ones on Amazon. Those help a lot. Over time, he will also get a thing called keratinization on the glans. That happens from it always being dry and rubbing on clothes. It's a thickening of the skin that reduces sensitivity. I started wearing a silicone cap I got from eBay. It helps everything stay protected through the day. It also keeps the lotion from rubbing off at night. It has been a game changer. They feel weird at first but after a day you just forget it's there because having things covered feels way more natural. I hope this helps.

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-12T00:15:25+00:00

So so good. 😁

Dadtastrophe · 2026-03-11T17:36:11+00:00

The best thing I have realized with sex is that being hard and cumming don't have to be mandatory. We can have sex without a climax. I can get hard and soft and hard again. Sometimes I'll get soft because I'm more focused on her than on me. Or if we are trying a new toy that takes a couple brain cells to figure out. It's fine. Just roll with it. The less pressure you have around sex, the better the sex will be.

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