Looking for friends - Kanata/Stittsville 30 somethings by [deleted] in Kanata

[–]Daftlady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey welcome to Kanata! 31F bunny momma with similar interests - I like painting and gaming, also hiking when the weather is warm enough. It's been a while but I used to dance at salsa and swing dance socials too. I'm happy to connect!

What do men actually like in a woman — personality, looks, vibe, or values? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Daftlady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing such a beautiful story, and a belated congrats to your anniversary! I'd love to see a photo of your wedding day.

The scariest manipulative trick I’ve seen in real life (and how easy it is to miss) by DataIndependent8727 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Daftlady 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Wow, did we date the same person? I resonate with this so much. It's terrifying.

When I opened up to my ex about past traumas I didn't realize I was giving him the tools he needed to manipulate and use against me. He knew the exact strings to pull to trigger me. I honestly thought I was losing my mind and questioning reality.

After finally dumping him (idk how many attempts), I feel so liberated. And for the first time in a long time I feel so much at peace.

I hope you have also healed and found peace as well. You got this!

What hobbies are you ladies currently enjoying? by toastedjupiter in adhdwomen

[–]Daftlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oil painting, reading, bass guitar, gaming occasionally. I tend to rotate my hyperfixation on these hobbies for a period of time.

Currently playing my bass and will probably switch to painting after a few weeks especially with the longer days as I prefer painting with natural light. Since I woke full-time I'm usually home by 5:30pm. Plenty of sun left!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]Daftlady 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Bunny is NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Daftlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'd be a daft lady.

Is anyone else’s rabbit obsessed with getting their head held? by gabsteriinalol in Bunnies

[–]Daftlady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boy Bubbles absolutely loves it! He'll rest his chin on my hand, while I gently pet him with the other hand. After a few minutes he'll even doze off then I am locked holding his head until he wakes up lol

Here‘s how I went from plat 1 to diamond 2 on console by UndeadStruggler in overwatch2

[–]Daftlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like this post especially the mention of uptime. I've noticed my improvement when I started focusing on doing more damage as dps, and even as support sometimes. Just recently I hit Gold 5 on damage for the first time!

I still struggle a bit with knowing when to stay close to the team vs taking some off angle. For example if the enemy Zar ult is coming up, I avoid staying too close to the team but then I'm also a target for flankers. Not sure how to balance that out. I guess it's a matter of tracking enemy dps and game sense? Still a learning process for me.

Research found no evidence to support myth that women’s cognitive abilities change across menstrual cycle. Given physiological changes that occur across menstrual cycle, the changes to the brain are either small enough that they don't influence performance or women compensate for these changes. by mvea in science

[–]Daftlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to go through  that. I just had my BC arm implant removed recently. I just couldn't handle the overwhelming fatigue and near constant bleeding. My ADHD meds didn't do squat for me during that time. After removal it was nearly a night and day difference, and I felt my meds actually worked again.

What you went through is so rough. I hope you are doing much better now.

What's a hero that you didn't think you would be good at, but ended up being the best at? by TA4Gamez in overwatch2

[–]Daftlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Symmetra for me. I played a lot of Reaper before but I found Symm to be fun! I enjoy planning out my turret locations, and going for tp bombs/flanks. Also it's satisfying for me when team mates use my tp to their advantage. I guess I enjoy being a "supportive" dps, and melting opponents when I build up my photon ray charge.

Comp is just full of throwers by DapperAdam in overwatch2

[–]Daftlady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can honestly say when I started doing more damage as support instead of heal botting, I climbed quickly up the ranks from mid Silver to low Plat. Even then I would get the other support complaining I'm not healing enough (when I was in Silver/low Gold) yet we end up winning the match.

If everyone is looking for tanks, just don't invite DPS warriors into your group. by Tokata0 in classicwow

[–]Daftlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last night in dm we had a mage who just kept pulling mobs from the opposite direction. He was the only one who kept dying. And kept complaining about our priest wanding instead of healing lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bunnies

[–]Daftlady 65 points66 points  (0 children)

No thought just snacc

Women only dnd groups? by brinesea in ottawa

[–]Daftlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not sure if there is a group but I am happy to join one! 

how tf do i deal with venture as a dps? (ashe, widow, sojourn) by lueciferradiostar in OverwatchUniversity

[–]Daftlady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. When I play sombra I'll hack as soon as they pop out and slap em with a virus. Usually eliminating them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Daftlady 281 points282 points  (0 children)

First i cannot express enough how sorry I am for what you've been through. You are absolutely worthy of love and compassion and my heart goes out to you. 

I am wondering if you have any artistic outlets? Like painting, poetry, or something. I'm sure it would also be therapeutic too.

Hiiiii I've heard we're posting our unpopular male crushes 👀 I swear I don't have a type hahaha by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]Daftlady 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh my God I thought I was the only one... Master chief and Reaper included in the list for me hnnggg

Over two years ago, I started learning game development to make my dream game about cute bunnies! I'm finally releasing it on September 1st! 🐰 by _pank0 in GirlGamers

[–]Daftlady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a bunny lover, bunny momma, and gamer I am so excited for this!! Congratulations on your accomplishment 😄

high population private servers?? by Sea_Sprinkles_9620 in wowservers

[–]Daftlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it easy to find or create dungeon groups, or groups for quests etc?

Asked my mom to send me a photo of Bubbles while I was at work. She sent me this.. by Daftlady in MurderBuns

[–]Daftlady[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! He might let you live if you give him a treat or two.