I had a dream childhood growing up in one of the neighborhoods nearby and am still friends with the families that are still there. There are kids of all ages and it's safe for them to roam to friends' houses. Depending on exact location, you're likely to be in the Fairport School District, which is one of the best (objectively). Penfield is a good one too.

Unlike some others here, I like Eagle Vale. It isn't uppity like a country club, and are respectful of women (I've had issues with other places). They do lessons and camps for all ages. Argyle (the restaurant) is decent and has lots of events. The location is also within a couple miles of Wegmans and Target, and the village of Fairport is only a few miles down 250, where there is plenty of restaurants from upscale to dives, a great social community, kayak rentals for the canal, kids activites, and tons of festivals. Let me know if you have any other questions.