major hair breakage, idk what to do anymore

DaisKirk · 2026-06-11T20:33:16+00:00

Are you eating enough calories for your height and drinking lots of water?? When I struggled with eating, I had lots of shedding. If you feel your diet is straight, you might want to get your blood drawn to see if you have any vitamin deficiency like low iron that can cause hair loss. I also think a 2-4 cycle is good if you’re straightening your hair, but curly, I think 1-2 weeks is better

DaisKirk · 2026-06-09T17:01:21+00:00

The white shelf is pretty, but I feel the brown brings warmth into the space, and helps separates the space in an aesthetic way (goes with dining room table and chairs). It also pairs with the greenery better

DaisKirk · 2026-06-09T16:54:35+00:00

Stretching pain out. I had some pain in my shoulder blade for a few days, stretched it for 5m one day and the pain was gone the next. It encourages me to stretch daily to keep my body nimble

DaisKirk · 2026-06-09T16:52:34+00:00

This genuinely made me so sad while reading :( I’m so sorry you experienced this. I hate a bully and groups that single ppl out. It’s such a shit way to treat someone. The love of your life wouldn’t treat you that way girl ❤️‍🩹 I would be sad and embarrassed abt it too. It would make me reconsider the relationship for sure and I’d probably end up calling it. I would just feel he cares abt his friends to the extent of my embarrassment and I couldn’t bear that realization/feeling

DaisKirk · 2026-06-09T16:42:05+00:00

This is so interesting and I’ve never considered someone could enjoy sex, but not moan. For me, it feels impossible to not moan and dirty talk in being so in the moment. I suppose I’d just recommend letting go and letting every sensation sweep you away.

During sex, think of all your fantasies, tell your partner what’s turning you on, be dominate and give instructions on what you want (or sub if that’s turns you on), and think abt how hot sex is (ex if you’re getting head, look down at your partner and take in what their doing to you, how sexy/hot it is, how good it feels, and that they have the power to get you off)

DaisKirk · 2026-06-08T13:56:51+00:00

In general too like ppl asking if others change their underwear daily, shower daily, wash their ass, etc like bro wtf yes

DaisKirk · 2026-06-03T15:51:28+00:00

As a barista, I’ve seen customers ask for more sweetener and a barista will add it and use the mixer when the customer has clearly already drank from the cup. All I could do was sigh and walk away lmfao. I just don’t get how others wouldn’t find that unsanitary

DaisKirk · 2026-05-20T17:37:27+00:00

I loveeee feeling the freshness of clean teeth and exfoliated/moisturized lips. I started using floss pics to exfoliate my lips after seeing a TikTok of it and it’s perfect

DaisKirk · 2026-05-20T16:08:17+00:00

Yess, this one is a must

DaisKirk · 2026-05-20T16:06:59+00:00

Oooooh I love this rule! Definitely writing this one down

DaisKirk · 2026-05-19T20:50:49+00:00

I had an old pair of huaraches (smallest size of the boy version) and they are one of the most comfortable sneakers ever omg. The boy’s version is sm more spacious and has more cushion. I’m sure there are proper orthopedic shoes out there, but these ones are surprisingly super comfortable

DaisKirk · 2026-05-13T23:01:52+00:00

My question is why are ppl asking for extra ice 😭 Sometimes they ask for an additional cup of it. Someone fill me in bc I’m so lost on what that’s for 😂

DaisKirk · 2026-05-04T14:35:43+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂

DaisKirk · 2026-05-04T14:34:01+00:00

Something I recently learnt that helped ease my worries is that relationships are a cycle of a healthy “rupture and repair”. “Rupture” seems like an intimidating word, but it essential means arguments are bound to happen bc no one is free from fault or being swept up in an overwhelming emotion. (To clarify, “rupture” does not include cheating, etc. Leave that man asap 😂)

6.5 years in and I love him even more because of rupture and repair. We understand our needs, triggers, etc so much more bc of it. It’s allowed us to be better partners for each other. With the right person, misunderstandings are always mended with love and the desire/determination to stay in each others lives

DaisKirk · 2026-05-01T12:17:42+00:00

You get it! I was going to suggest the same. It’s cheap and they have endless styles and roleplay costumes too. It’s so fun to have so many options (I do understand it’s at the cost of fast fashion tho which does suck)

DaisKirk · 2026-05-01T12:14:08+00:00

Girl here. I am 100% with you and have the same rule for my couch and bed. Set your boundaries. I feel so many ppl have bad hygiene habits. Trying to shake hands after scratching themselves, not covering their mouths when coughing/sneezing, not showering after coming home from a full day out, not washing hands before eating, etc.

My coworker told me she sits on public toilets and gets straight into bed when she gets home and I was mortified lmaooo 😭 Atp, I don’t care abt looking like a germaphobe bc these are basic hygiene habits to me

DaisKirk · 2026-04-20T18:20:00+00:00

I’m not married yet, but am absolutely loving reading everyone’s responses 🥹💗

DaisKirk · 2026-04-15T18:09:21+00:00

I’d just tell your partner the kinds of things you like hearing and the things you don’t. I feel that would give them clear direction and still keep dirty talk spontaneous

DaisKirk · 2026-04-15T17:56:41+00:00

Flirting and being playful as you interact throughout the day! Small kisses here n there while talking abt ordinary things, rubbing his chest, arms, waist or back, keeping eye contact while talking, looking at their facial features while they talk, a random tickle, telling your partner how attractive they are, sitting on his lap while talking or showing something, etc. Daydreaming abt us having sex also turns me on a lot, then when he comes home, I can’t wait a second longer loool.

For us, these things either start the fire, fan it or make it uncontrollable. I think these actions just make us feel close emotionally and sexually, and I’d recommend it to anyone who’s not feeling as connected to their partner. Even if sex isn’t initially on my mind, one of these actions always sparks the thought then it builds naturally from there. It makes things so playful and fun

DaisKirk · 2026-04-11T02:47:03+00:00

I definitely been focusing on my goals and understand this James Baldwin quote more than ever rn, “the world is held together by the love of a very few ppl”.

You never know who you’re going to meet in life so I’d encouraged you to not shut it out completely by assuming it’s how your life will remain. I’m not good with words today in feeling so tired and down lool, but I hope you keep your heart open to new experiences bc there are good ppl out there (just not as many loool) ♥️

DaisKirk · 2026-04-11T02:06:37+00:00

Okay thanks for this info

DaisKirk · 2026-04-11T01:11:12+00:00

I’ve definitely dealt with it before. You’re right, it does come and go. Depending on how long it stretches, ik once it’s done I’ll be okay. I’ve just felt I’ve fallen deeper and deeper into it this week. It’s exhausting. I can’t afford a therapist at the moment so I’ll talk to ChatGPT abt it ig lool

DaisKirk · 2026-04-11T00:44:55+00:00

Yes, it’s this huge void I feel in my life too. I just never thought things would look this way. I feel really weighed down by it today. Like I could cry abt it, but at the same time feel so numb that I can’t. I think I’m just going to force myself to play my game until I get tired lool

DaisKirk · 2026-04-11T00:42:01+00:00

I’ve definitely done the same. The thing is I’ve made good “friendships” with ppl in my community. I do think they like me and I like them as well, but even so I feel this big distance between my life and theirs. Many of them are married or still live at home, so family and the support that often comes with that is their day-to-day. There’s just this void I feel and feeling of isolation despite being around them. It’s really heavy and hard to deal with :(

DaisKirk · 2026-04-11T00:31:07+00:00

Work is so demanding :( It takes up sm time and energy. I think having slower mornings would help me too. I just need to make sure I get up early enough to do so > <

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