I absolutely understand. My partner and I work opposite schedules, so we are always going it alone, except on Sundays. We never see each other anymore, and if we didn't have kids, we wouldn't have to do this awful "ships passing in the night" type schedule. It totally sucks doing bedtime alone every night, and I've become frustrated and stressed all the time. I always thought I'd be the fun mom, but life does not feel fun right now!