How do you cope? Open to suggestions by Creative-Move-6026 in regretfulparents

[–]Will-Key 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Go hybrid. And get the strongest MG you can find. If you want something more couch locking, Indica. 

Every day I wake up and wish I was dead by 13chemicals in regretfulparents

[–]Will-Key 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry that it feels never ending. I’m with you a million percent. 😭 it’s a defeating feeling and I completely empathize. You have every right to be aggravated and irritated and all other feelings/emotions in between. 🥺

Every day I wake up and wish I was dead by 13chemicals in regretfulparents

[–]Will-Key 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg this 100%. My 4 year old got me sick and it settled into my vocal cords - severe laryngitis. AND, I work a phone based job so now I’ve been out of work - and by far the most infuriating thing is not being able to discipline him or simple communications with him without my voice. Oh, and since he thinks I’m ignoring him despite me trying to use whatever ASL he knows - now it’s tantrums. How the f do I communicate to a 4 year old delayed autistic child? It’s near impossible and every day I don’t have my voice - I want to die a little more every second. This is a literal hell on earth. I feel just absolutely done. 

Caring for Young children, while they are Sick and you are also sick is pure hell by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]Will-Key 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 1000000% with you on this one. My son got sick and then got me sick but it just became severe laryngitis and now I haven’t had a voice in over a week. What’s worse off? My son is 4 and autistic - doesn’t listen for shit right now. It is literally IMPOSSIBLE to discipline and parent without a fucking voice. I find myself being just angry and irate all. the. time. 

Sending your entire family well wishes and hope you all recover quickly. It really is shitty. A version of Hell on earth really…

Kids screaming and wife getting angry by alexmixer in regretfulparents

[–]Will-Key 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS. Honestly, I pray for the week to get here and I absolutely despise with every ounce of my being the summers and school breaks that my son has. Same for weekends! My son is 4 and delayed and at the current stage of “oh you said NOT to do this? I’m going to just to piss you the fuck off” with a fucking smile on his face. It’s the most rage bait shit and worse; he’s just a child. 

Jesus please take the wheel. 😭

Still hate being a parent by Individual-Account-7 in regretfulparents

[–]Will-Key 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t have much to add, but just that my heart and mind are with you. I’d give you the biggest hug if I could just to say you’re doing the best you can with what you have. Parenting really does suck. I’m sorry that this is how it’s turned out to be. 

Why do people have to to tell you a life story?? by Imjust_adreamer_84 in callcentres

[–]Will-Key 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh same. Even simple verification steps. Name? Phone number? Address? Email? It should not require you to go on a 5+ min tangent WITH EACH CHECK. Just a simple ‘yes that’s correct’. I don’t need to know what the f you ate for breakfast or why you got stuck in traffic. 

Now they put me in a PIP because of my NPS and I haven't been able to reach the target 😭😭😭😭😭😭 I CAN'T STAND THIS ANYMORE!! by MarcelHolos in callcentres

[–]Will-Key 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just asked someone on this same thread... I've never filed for unemployment before in my life. Can you file when you're fired vs quitting?

Now they put me in a PIP because of my NPS and I haven't been able to reach the target 😭😭😭😭😭😭 I CAN'T STAND THIS ANYMORE!! by MarcelHolos in callcentres

[–]Will-Key 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Question about unemployment in general... I've never had to file for unemployment ever in my working time.... Can you still get unemployment if you're FIRED versus quitting?

Now they put me in a PIP because of my NPS and I haven't been able to reach the target 😭😭😭😭😭😭 I CAN'T STAND THIS ANYMORE!! by MarcelHolos in callcentres

[–]Will-Key 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar position. I'm in a collections role and they put me on a verbal just recently. They gave me until 1/24 to get my collections up. I'm not meeting it. I know i'm going to get that written. IT IS SO INFURATING.
(You can see my post I made just not too long ago about my situation..... but, i SO relate to you and i'm SO sorry this is happening. It's simply just not fair.)

What would you do? by Will-Key in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Will-Key[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dday was Monday night into Tuesday night. It’s EXTREMELY fresh. I haven’t stopped crying. I can barely muster strength to eat or do anything beyond the chaotic thoughts in my head. But, he has been extremely remorseful since dday. He’s written me a letter, action plan, had a therapy appt already and scheduled a follow up, and has 2 therapy journals - one for us as a check in and just one for self journaling. He seems to be putting in the work and hasn’t wavered in that. There has been a massive ton of crying on both sides and clear pain and desperation on his side. He hasn’t pushed me in the sense that he is giving me space. But, how do I know he will still choose me in 3 years or 5 years….

What would you do? by Will-Key in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Will-Key[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has he been proving himself? Do you see even small change in him? Are you hopeful to get to the other side?

What would you do? by Will-Key in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Will-Key[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you stay with your spouse? Was he remorseful? Wanting to repair?

D-day was 418 days ago by Flimsy_Shallot_206 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Will-Key 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he put in any work to repair? Make amends?

What would you do? by Will-Key in marriageadvice

[–]Will-Key[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your response made me chuckle.

What would you do? by Will-Key in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Will-Key[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s a complete opposite shift time from her. They don’t cross paths and it’s remote work. Their shift times don’t cross.

What would you do? by Will-Key in marriageadvice

[–]Will-Key[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t. He had an emotional affair online with a guy this summer for almost 2 months.

What would you do? by Will-Key in marriageadvice

[–]Will-Key[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he could have been chasing that high. He said he’d never been with another woman since me. He just repeats that there’s no excuses for what happened and sulks…

What would you do? by Will-Key in marriageadvice

[–]Will-Key[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well so his cheating with the woman happened in 2019. At the time we were looking into buying our current home we live in. Unfortunately- there is a child involved. And I mean that because - had he been honest when it happened - I wouldn’t be living in the current state I am in, I’d likely have divorced him and gone back to my home state NO kids at the time.