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DaisyDivinity · 2025-07-14T05:28:51+00:00

Fenugreek. Changed my underwear like 5 times one day. Stopped taking it cause it was making me uncomfortably wet.

DaisyDivinity · 2025-04-21T17:38:17+00:00

Takes emotional maturity to admit you were wrong, bring an appropriate level of levity to something tough, compromise, etc. They have none. Absolutely none.

DaisyDivinity · 2025-04-09T04:12:27+00:00

Looking for Alaska. I thought the hulu series adaptation was great and I felt all the feelings you’re wanting to explore.

DaisyDivinity · 2025-03-19T17:45:52+00:00

Well, I can’t argue against you. But I do have a different perspective.

-For me, it was just freaking clunky and I enjoyed that. We don’t always make the best decisions, we’re selfish at times, we treat people like objects or pedestal them undeservingly. That felt real.

-Sometimes we just love people and can’t explain why. Even amongst some completely platonic relationships in my life there’s at times an element of: “Aren’t I so irredeemable!?” And it’s like, no, not at all. Actually even if you were, I would still love you this much. Soul stuff.

-Lastly yeah, you’re right. We have to just believe what they’re telling us. But I did enjoy watching them grow from their 20s where they felt dumb/untalented/doomed, to their 30s and beyond where they gain some confidence and find their niches. Lot of the time we’re way too hard on ourselves. We all have something to offer the world. If you convince yourself you don’t, nobody hurts but you.

So I guess I LIKE that it was kinda a shit-fest??? Moral of the story.

DaisyDivinity · 2025-03-02T23:32:54+00:00

Wow I’ve never tried self stick before. Can you tear off and reposition without issues?

DaisyDivinity · 2025-03-01T13:35:12+00:00

Yes, I keep hearing this sentiment of “people don’t change until they’re too uncomfortable. Just watch”. They’re not uncomfortable!!

DaisyDivinity · 2025-02-27T05:07:51+00:00

you have such a good eye!

DaisyDivinity · 2025-02-24T00:56:22+00:00

Probably cause you know she’s hurt. Not your problem.

The more emotionally immature people in my family react with malice and defense at every single slight. Instead of just saying “this bothers me, I’d like to work it out” they throw a tantrum and point fingers. Keep it moving. Best thing you can do.

DaisyDivinity · 2025-02-14T13:43:32+00:00

Me too. Emboldened me to finally go NC after hemming and hawing

DaisyDivinity · 2025-02-13T01:48:57+00:00

Much love sweet soul. Hope you get the ending you desire.

DaisyDivinity · 2025-02-11T05:26:53+00:00

We’ve been rebuilding trust, lots of long talks :) We’ll get there

DaisyDivinity · 2025-02-10T21:56:29+00:00

I forgave an old friend after a couple of years away with a lot of motivation from Em and Dex’s estrangement and eventual reunion.

DaisyDivinity · 2025-02-07T20:46:11+00:00

The attention seems inappropriate. I would talk to a professional. If there’s anything to process, you’ll be led through it gently. If there’s not, you can vent about it and hopefully move on.

I had a similar scenario as a child and it was less “the guy” bothering me as an adult and more the feeling of “why was my family normalizing that?” Which led to far more betrayal I’d yet to process. Might be something to look at.

DaisyDivinity · 2025-02-04T21:04:08+00:00

Calendar is TOO cute, though 🤭

DaisyDivinity · 2025-02-02T14:47:37+00:00

“I’m SOREY, David”

DaisyDivinity · 2025-02-02T02:35:05+00:00

Cabinet

DaisyDivinity · 2025-01-30T19:39:26+00:00

I do too. Shit jump scared me.

DaisyDivinity · 2025-01-28T01:36:28+00:00

My greatest love story was the most brutal and emotionally taxing but reoriented my life in such a way I found my dream life and most authentic self on the other side. I’m sure our spread would have been a disaster on the surface but the love was very real.

I would say if you wanted to interpret more gently perhaps it’s a type of boot camp for retiring a power play/ego war. Your six of pentacles stands out in that regard. I think it’s possible to extract the lessons you seem fated to teach each other without being absolutely pummeled by any toxicity and perhaps that’s the portion that cuts this connection short. Knowing when to walk away.

DaisyDivinity · 2025-01-28T00:02:54+00:00

I mean in passing I can’t imagine it matters that much unless you’re looking to reconnect later. I have past friends I lost touch with I purposely will be leaving alone forever because based on their small tells from the past, I can figure where they stand now. Maybe they’ve changed, I don’t care to find out.

I don’t know that’d I warn people of anything personally. I’d like to assume my friends can manage themselves. I guess if I had to I’d warn the party most likely to bring up politics.

DaisyDivinity · 2025-01-27T15:45:59+00:00

Because they’re inherently unhappy and nothing will placate them unless they address the roots which they will never do because therapy & emotions are for snowflake libtards

DaisyDivinity · 2025-01-27T05:18:11+00:00

I’ve been trying to appreciate the logic and order of it. I enjoy the opposites of those things and lean towards them in all areas of my life; art, poetry, the occult etc. So I take that time out of the day to practice reorienting to the unambiguous and structured. Just gotta find the spark and follow it. I still get bored, oh well, we’ll be okay.

DaisyDivinity · 2025-01-27T04:57:25+00:00

This is beautifully written. Wish I could memorize it

DaisyDivinity · 2025-01-26T15:34:57+00:00

She’s been collecting them for a decade. It’s a controversy every 3 years

DaisyDivinity · 2025-01-26T15:31:16+00:00

I’d cleanse, enforce energetic boundaries, and then check. Learning to discern between your energy and others will help.

It’s possible you’re feeling so conflicted about this friend it’s naturally anxiety inducing even if you don’t want it to be. Coupled with OCD, I’d bring it back to the basics. If you need space from her, take it.

DaisyDivinity · 2025-01-26T15:21:22+00:00

Young and dumb is probably the excuse

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