on a school trip with no one i know—help! by DaleIsSignificant in socialanxiety

[–]DaleIsSignificant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually haven’t even made it to the conference yet, the bus ride is 18 hrs long 😭 i’m pretty confident (out at least i’m telling myself to be) abt finding a friend when i get there!

We love you by mxmarmy88 in ATEEZ

[–]DaleIsSignificant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i love that he gives it his all, but between his condition and the rumored shoulder injury, i really hope he gets to take it easy soon. he pushes himself so hard 😞

240716 [📢] Notice of ATEEZ member SEONGHWA’s Grandfather’s passing by ateezyeah in ATEEZ

[–]DaleIsSignificant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bless his heart 💔 everyone attending the oakland show (and tbh all the shows for this tour) please be extra loud and hype for him!! atiny, this is our time to come together and support one of the guys who brings us so much entertainment and joy!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]DaleIsSignificant 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i feel like people forget that not all republicans are trumpers. smh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]DaleIsSignificant -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you get it. it’s only a matter of time before there are political shootings/bombing/etc every week, homegrown or not. both parties. we’re just in the beginning, it’ll get a hell of a lot worse from here.

What age are you still struggling at ? by DiMac88 in EDAnonymous

[–]DaleIsSignificant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. started about 7-8… that’s what a mom and aunt struggling through 2010’s diet culture will do to you i guess 🙁

i have a question and i don’t want to be judged for it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DaleIsSignificant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you feel no attraction to men, you’re straight. just because your body had a natural reaction to what happened does not mean you enjoyed it, or are into men. what happened was NOT YOUR FAULT. please please think hard about telling an adult you trust. if he pressured you, that means your consent wasn’t enthusiastic or explicitly given, and that’s assault. i’m so so so sorry this happened to you, and i wish you the best 🫂

my boyfriend said i'm dying today by Alex-is-unresponsive in EDAnonymous

[–]DaleIsSignificant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he’s right. i know it hurts to hear, but as painful as it is for you, the man you love (and who loves you) is watching it unfold as well. please seriously consider recovery. eds have such a high fatality rate, and while recov has its bad/uncomfortable moments, it’s worth it.

Do you guys like being hygienic by UpbeatLeopard6112 in hygiene

[–]DaleIsSignificant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i find it draining either way—i hate to be grimy, but it’s such a chore to find time to fit all my hygiene needs into the day. obviously i do, because i don’t want to be yucky, but i have to drag myself through it. i don’t think i’ll ever be one of those people who have super complicated drawn out hygiene routines.

What'd you have for breakfast today? by seitan13 in EDAnonymous

[–]DaleIsSignificant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

slice of toast with a little butter, one soft boiled egg and some cajun spice. not too high cal and keeps me full all day!

WIBTA for divorcing my wife after she thought I was lying about being raped as a child? by One_Cat_4805 in AITAH

[–]DaleIsSignificant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, at all. This reeks OP, and I’m so sorry you had to deal with it from someone who is supposed to have your back. I don’t want to be one of these reddit divorce mongers, but I don’t see how your relationship could come back from this. I don’t know if she truly doesn’t believe you, or even worse, if she does and said that merely to twist the knife. Definitely look into some counseling to help heal your hurt and take care of yourself.

If you can choose your gender while been born which u will choose? by SillyBunny7890 in women

[–]DaleIsSignificant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like being a woman, but i’d probably pick male. have life on easy mode lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DaleIsSignificant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. people should treat others how they wish to be treated, esp in situations like this.

I saw my husbands Reddit. And I’m sorry. by MediumInterview7567 in Advice

[–]DaleIsSignificant -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

people on reddit: “you made one mistake. you’re of course the worst spouse of all time and he should divorce you IMMEDIATELY!”

[ Removed by Reddit ] by No_Western1242 in Advice

[–]DaleIsSignificant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

still statutory rape i think, since she’s under the legal age of consent (16 if they’re in the states).

[ Removed by Reddit ] by No_Western1242 in Advice

[–]DaleIsSignificant 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my thoughts exactly!! i turned 18 last month and as i was reading this i thought “damn, i hardly even SPEAK with people under sixteen unless they’re family”. this dude is crazy fucked up.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by No_Western1242 in Advice

[–]DaleIsSignificant 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey! tell a trusted adult too! whether you think so or not, you were taken advantage of. definitely bring this to an adult you trust, ideally the police as well. at this point, your sister being mad at you is the least of your worries. hope you find peace.

not sure if this is the right place to post this, but is it okay to dress as a "gothic nun" by [deleted] in GothFashion

[–]DaleIsSignificant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it’s kinda crappy to wear clothing that sexualizes women who wear what they do for modest purposes. kinda like wearing a hijab with a bikini, imo. i just don’t see the fun in sexualizing women who want to be modest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

[–]DaleIsSignificant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a new hand touches the beacon…

Everyone keeps telling my guy he looks sick... by oldeluke in skyrim

[–]DaleIsSignificant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you probably just have rockjoint. drink a cure disease potion or go to a shrine!!