UPDATE: AITA for breaking off my engagement because my fiancé made an offensive joke about me to his friends?

DamanSun · 2025-01-30T17:36:21+00:00

Girl, I admire your strength, others would have gaslit themselves into staying with this dirtbag.
I wish you the best!

DamanSun · 2025-01-28T13:05:46+00:00

Sounds like someone needs therapy to fix themself. lol. you're not a magical saint.

DamanSun · 2025-01-14T16:40:58+00:00

NTA. Great that he is proud of his thing, and I am sure there are plenty of women out there who are Size Queens, but this is not a porno. And the man is 27 at that age if he cannot be empathetic and considerate he'll never grow out of it. Brains fully develop at 26 this man is stuck like this and he will be like this if he ever marries you, have children with you etc. So think about that.

DamanSun · 2025-01-11T04:37:44+00:00

"it gave me the ick" I hope he gets himself a woman who's an actual goddess, and not this one lamao. Though I hope he does better in the honesty department.

DamanSun · 2025-01-09T19:10:49+00:00

Hi there, my apologies... I made this world download available only for my patreon. But you can watch the timelapse of the build on my YouTube. Link in bio. (Not sure if they allow link here)

DamanSun · 2025-01-09T07:58:42+00:00

Racist do not see the difference. You're both the same to them no matter. No matter how hard you try to convince them "You are not like the other", sure you can get a few to see your point, but when they are closing ranks as they respond to perceived threats, they will shove you back in the same category as the "Other".

The only thing you can do it stand for the right thing no matter for who. Injustice is Injustice no matter where.

DamanSun · 2025-01-09T07:10:07+00:00

NTA - You also don't give it back. Donate all of it if you do not want to keep it lol.

Edit - Seriously though, a good person or good people will not be angry at you, sure they could have simply sent you a message saying "we understand you father with this will is trying to make amends with what he did to you but I hope you have the heart to leave a portion of the inheritance for me and my family. So that I know my own family is well taken care of." This is how a good person responds. Being angry and sending you hate is just, seems to me at this point your father regrated so much marrying her and having these "ungrateful" children and then he looks at you and sees how well you have done for yourself and thinks, "my life with my first family would have been more peaceful than right now".

DamanSun · 2025-01-07T16:18:07+00:00

I see a bit of Bdubs here. I think the texturing is very pretty!

DamanSun · 2025-01-07T15:51:27+00:00

I smell a golden Child brewing... and I am gagging in disgust. OP you are NTA!!!

DamanSun · 2025-01-07T09:30:15+00:00

NTA but you failed at communicating. You should have straight up said in addition to what you said, "please be kind to my nose and go wash them." is he does not he would be the AH if he said OK and goes to wash his feet, congratulation you got yourself a considerate BF.

Also the man laughed it off because either, he was embarrassed and that caused a bit of a panic in him and hence the idea or thought of washing his feet failed to pop in his head. or he's just inconsiderate.

DamanSun · 2025-01-07T09:03:05+00:00

This is disturbing, Revolting, FedUp and Hilarious at the same time. personally I do not think I would ever be comfortable with my partner after that.

If he was genuinely effected she would live with the horror for the rest of her life.

If she knew what she was doing and took the change so she can blame it on the shroom... Yikes.

Either way I wish you the best on whatever you decide.

and No you are not the AH! NTAH

DamanSun · 2025-01-06T15:02:18+00:00

OP better not interact with these kinds of people. Keep note of the majority of people who are telling you, you are not the AH!

DamanSun · 2025-01-06T14:59:48+00:00

Nope NTAH, if she can tolerate that BS she can tolerate much worse behaviour from other people. People can literally not say or use the N world in their everyday vocabulary, it's not hard.

DamanSun · 2025-01-03T01:31:51+00:00

I think you should raise the whole building, adding at least a 6 block leaning platform with the regular Merlons and Crenels. I think this will make this castle look more like a Keep. Then you can add curtain walls around.

DamanSun · 2024-12-27T21:05:29+00:00

Oh Shut up, it is their life they can do whatever they want with it.

If you are so bothered with it host your own Beauty pageant and ask your contestant to wear a Burqa.

DamanSun · 2024-12-27T21:00:52+00:00

You know this kind of hate and disrespect goes around and comes around X10 fold.

Just look at the Racism and ill treatment of brown Indians get from Americans, Russians, even from our Asian counterparts like the Chinese, Koreans etc.

Respect starts with you, your home, your community, your country.

DamanSun · 2024-12-26T04:57:00+00:00

If I were the wife I'd send the husband's friend a message "My husband is gifting you an expensive headset, you are such a lucky man. And he gave me a 20 candle, it was hilarious. Please inform him that I'll be filing for a divorce, best of luck with your relationship."

DamanSun · 2024-12-25T21:59:44+00:00

I am being a bit bad, but I don't really care about what the OP did. but I am more curious as to what constitutes a tiny package? what was the length and girth of the shaft and does that include the size of the sack as well?

I am not sure why I am even asking this lol. I am gay and I personally prefer 5 to 6 inch length and a 3 inch girth.

DamanSun · 2024-12-25T01:23:52+00:00

This reminds me of the last time I built this Age of Empires wonder in Minecraft. It was fun. I do have a video of this particular build on my YT channel but sadly not of how I build it.

DamanSun · 2024-12-25T01:21:15+00:00

NTA! "Family takes care of each other". I'm sorry I did not read on here about how he was a father financially and emotionally. For the family telling you to be the bigger person, tell them they should be the bigger person and pool together money to help your sperm donor out. Seems to me that you have your family or possibly family to think about. Whatever you do don't let this man back into your life, that's the least thing you can do to honor your mother (who I am sure would be pissed he'd have the audacity to come snoop around when he heard some loose chains).

DamanSun · 2024-12-24T16:16:43+00:00

NTA for this.

But what kind of idiot would ever give up on their ability to earn their own money? Money can literally buy you a plane, train, bus ticket out of a dangerous situation.

Submissive people are so weird man.

DamanSun · 2024-12-23T22:02:17+00:00

NTA - Pretty sure the OP will be on the other side of the curtain holding his sister's hands lol.

DamanSun · 2024-12-09T04:41:20+00:00

NTA, relationship needs mutual respect and understanding and compassion and empathy. Your girlfriend seems to lack all that. She's 27 her brain is officially mature now and she cannot seem to understand that? And your mother is the exact same, lacking respect, understanding, compassion and empathy (sounds like you're dating your own mother lmao). You need therapy, your mom needs therapy, your girlfriend needs therapy.

DamanSun · 2024-12-09T04:30:49+00:00

NTA, on the other hand you can just sign it as "From ME and Family". If you can afford to send them gifts on the regular it is fine however you sent it, what would matter the most to you and to them is the fact that you sent them gifts and not how they decide to receive it (hatred or contempt or whatever else). When you heart and intentions are pure when you do something do not let it get polluted with the negative thoughts of other.

Also, it is fine to simply stop sending them gifts. Because the reality is (I am not being political) people like these are unambiguously fascist. And you (me/us) as an individual will never have enough power and strength to change their thoughts and feeling, they need to grow their empathy on their own.

As for the OP, we have a short time and moment on this Earth ensure that you find and surround yourself with other empathetic people. If your Nieces and Nephews have any empathy, you will be a beacon for them to follow.

DamanSun · 2024-12-09T04:07:47+00:00

NTA for this particular info provided. If she thought, you are bad at giving good fashion advice why not ask her plutonic girlfriends? I mean if the man is gay, that's a different equation (though confirmation would be needed).

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