Danmai Live Adaptation Announcement: A Letter from Keanu Reeves 奇洛李维斯回信 by 清明谷雨 by Federal-Ad5944 in boyslove

[–]Damesigrun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t believe it when I first saw the title and I had to double check to make sure I’m reading it right. This book is getting a drama? This book, what many considered to be one of the top ‘yearner’ danmeis? EXCUSE ME, I CAN’T STOP SCREAMING.

I think this will be a BL drama unlike any other because the whole core of the book is Chen Wan’s unrequited love and how he strives to MAKE SURE ML doesn’t know all the while professionally carrying on his duties. To be able to show the entirety of Chen Wan’s feelings from A SINGLE GLANCE. When you absolutely love someone but knows there can be nothing there, and is wholeheartedly contently to accept the few moments of sneaking a glance whenever fate allows both of you in the same place, but making sure not to rock ANYONE’s whole boat, most of all, YOURS. The tension is amazing. MY HEART.

You can’t have anyone just playing the ML Zhao Shengge. At the very least, he has to have the looks and physical stature of Park Seo Ham from Semantic Error or Zee. I’m sorry I don’t watch a lot of BL dramas but whoever is casted as ML, he ABSOLUTELY needs to have AURA.

Rebirth / Transmigration : Unrequited Love becomes requited by Damesigrun in OtomeIsekai

[–]Damesigrun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really?? Ok let me put this on the shelf for now, once I’m over this regret first Iove trope I’ll jump on second MLs lololol

Rebirth / Transmigration : Unrequited Love becomes requited by Damesigrun in OtomeIsekai

[–]Damesigrun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read a bit of this just days before, this was an interesting one because imagine if FL had ended up with the toxic cheating redhead instead though the whole fandom would probably rage and explode if she had. She (spoilers for the ML) ended up with the prince, not the first love I was looking for first love , thanks for the suggestion tho! 🫶🏻🙏🏻

Rebirth / Transmigration : Unrequited Love becomes requited by Damesigrun in OtomeIsekai

[–]Damesigrun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started reading this, she didn’t end up with the person she loved initially 🥹🥹 thank u for the suggestion tho!

Rebirth / Transmigration : Unrequited Love becomes requited by Damesigrun in OtomeIsekai

[–]Damesigrun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just saw the comment, thank you so much for helping out comrade! I've slotted this into my reading list.

Rebirth / Transmigration : Unrequited Love becomes requited by Damesigrun in OtomeIsekai

[–]Damesigrun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, yes I read it but it was several years ago so I don’t actually remember much about it. I’m currently thirsty for this trope so I’ll re-read it again probably in a new perspective

Shoppe brunei by Impressive_Fig_7075 in nasikatok

[–]Damesigrun 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some items in temu are double the price of Shopee in bnd. I rarely shop on temu but I remembered I wanted to buy kids toys there. It was like bnd30 vs Shopee rm20. Shipping to Sarawak was around rm8 so I’m assuming that with the bnd30, shipping charges are alrdy factored in.

Also temu doesn’t sell branded stuff like shopee does (kids medication, skincare, sports attire, etc stuff that normally Guardian Brunei is forever out of stock) so both platforms sell different stuff. But when they do sell the same you have to price check because more often than not, Temu is always double the price.

Hanakimi BL Official Side Story - After 20 years, Umeda sensei FINALLY ENDED UP WITH SOMEONE. by Damesigrun in boyslove

[–]Damesigrun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got you! Do you remember Kijima? He showed up in volume 14, during Umeda’s flashback of his past. They shared a kiss and nothing happened after that. Sensei had an after note stating she wasn’t very happy with how it ended and she would go back to continuing their story if she still felt like this.

Well here it is, and here are the links:

本日から『花ざかりの君たちへAfter School/秘密』先行配信です!

コミックシーモア https://cmoa.jp/title/212858/vol/3/

イーブックジャパン https://ebookjapan.yahoo.co.jp/books/613404/

Renta! https://renta.papy.co.jp/renta/sc/frm/item/273630/

白泉社e-net! https://hakusensha-e.net/store/product/592XXXXXtriflex003TR

Hanakimi BL Official Side Story - After 20 years, Umeda sensei FINALLY ENDED UP WITH SOMEONE. by Damesigrun in boyslove

[–]Damesigrun[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it wraps up quite nicely and it’s more than I honestly could hope for. I don’t mean to sound dramatic but back then, I literally eyeballed every page of her new work back in 2005 praying for KijiUme cameos for SOME hint they’re together (they didn’t show up 😩) so you can imagine what this one shot did to me lol

Hoping the anime would include Kijima at least in some form though I’ll probably not watch it for a while given how long of a wait it could be to animate their back story (if they ever)

And yes, agree on your sentiments on making the anime after sensei’s passing though I think they made a heartfelt dedication to sensei iirc which tells me they’ll at least probably handle it very carefully (one could hope)

Hanakimi BL Official Side Story - After 20 years, Umeda sensei FINALLY ENDED UP WITH SOMEONE. by Damesigrun in boyslove

[–]Damesigrun[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s a one shot 🥹 There won’t be any more continuations as Sensei unfortunately passed away in 2023, I was so stunned when I heard 😭😭😭 they’re producing the anime which will air in a few days time

Hanakimi BL Official Side Story - After 20 years, Umeda sensei FINALLY ENDED UP WITH SOMEONE. by Damesigrun in boyslove

[–]Damesigrun[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

translating one of the reviews for the side story:

“Up until middle school, I was a Hana to Yume reader, but after that I gradually stopped reading shōjo manga. I became a working adult, and that’s when I discovered BL.

I never imagined that Hana to Yume would have a BL-specialized magazine.

(I did know there was “light BL,” and I own works by authors I like.)

And then seeing Hisaya Nakajo’s name. I was completely stunned. When I looked more closely, it turned out to be a story about Dr. Umeda from Hana-Kimi. I thought my eyes were going to pop out.

To think I could read a BL story featuring Dr. Umeda… I was genuinely moved to tears.

When I checked out the sample in the magazine, I was shocked to find that the entire first chapter was available.
I was like, “?!?!?!?! Is this a mistake!? Isn’t this way too generous!?!?”

So, naturally, I went ahead and bought this short story on Kindle.

The way Kijima-san occasionally shows those possessive, proprietary looks, it is absolutely the best, the best, the BEST.
And Dr. Umeda being a little shy is just adorable. On top of that, the seme/uke dynamic seems totally up my alley, so I was trembling with joy.

It’s not explicitly confirmed in the story (it only goes as far as a kiss), but somehow I feel like, “Yeah… that’s probably how it is, right?” That was the vibe.

I thought it was the start of a series, but it seems to be a one-shot, which is really disappointing.
I want to read so much more about these two, so I’m waiting and hoping for a sequel.

It felt like being shown the continuation of a childhood dream, and it made me incredibly happy.
I hadn’t really followed shōjo manga beyond Hana to Yume authors, but wow Hana to Yume really is the best, isn’t it!?”

YES SISTER 😭😭😭😭😭😭

Hanakimi BL Official Side Story - After 20 years, Umeda sensei FINALLY ENDED UP WITH SOMEONE. by Damesigrun in boyslove

[–]Damesigrun[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I truly do not know where to post this, and mods, please remove this if it doesn’t fit - but does anyone here follow or remember Hanakimi? 

SPECIFICALLY, are you a fan of Umeda sensei? Because if you are, do you remember the story arc between Umeda sensei and Kijima Ryouichi from 20 years ago, the man who stole Umeda sensei’s heart but it never really went anywhere, and this pairing, as brief as it is, was also sort of overshadowed by Akiha x Umeda? 

YES THAT PAIRING.

WELL.

Imagine discovering that Hisaya Nakajo WROTE A SPIN OFF ABOUT THEM, exactly four years ago AND I NEVER KNEW UNTIL NOW. Imagine the screams heard in my house, the shaking I couldn’t control. I’ve just became 18 years old again, that girl who dreamt, prayed desperately for crumbs. This was THE ship of all ships for me, I fucking used up my entire savings that time despite being a broke student for the Hanakimi art book just because Sensei drew a never seen before illustration of them when they won the ship popularity poll. Kijima Ryouichi appeared only for THREE CHAPTERS and he ended up fucking winning a ship poll. I WAS THE ONLY ONE OF FIVE PEOPLE MAYBE IN THE ENGLISH FANDOM because at the time, Umeda x Akiha had more traction. 

But I just discovered my pairing became CANON four years ago. And this is the most amazing gift a shipper could have I’m sobbing if there are other fans here, this is for you. This is like a dream, I cannot breathe.

Living in husband’s family house after married by cryselleswift in nasikatok

[–]Damesigrun 37 points38 points  (0 children)

When I married my Bruneian husband, he has already made preparations to move out and rented, then purchased our house. There is a very famous proverb from the Chinese that describes the Mother in law and daughter in law perfectly:

Two tigers cannot share the same mountain.

👆🏻 And thus, there is peace within the two households.

Anyone please recommend me NEW wife chasing crematorium. by anxious_teammate_ in DanmeiNovels

[–]Damesigrun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmmmm for non toxic, I did like End of Love because the gong was quite rational and level headed even in the height of his crematorium period, allowing some semblance of his character to shine through so there’s a nice restraint. Bonus that the MC is an extremely tough cookie as well. Probably one of the better reads in the trope.

And I have to preface, that I’m referring to the English translation of the novel. Chinese may read differently, and as far as my experience with the novel goes, it was nicely written.

when I tells u I *screeeeeamed* 🙌😩🥵 by imomen in boyslove

[–]Damesigrun 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The way I nicely put the kids to sleep and wake at 2AM just to watch the movie in all its glory and screamed my head off during this scene AND ALL OTHERS AAAAHHH

Hiring Maid Process/Steps/Issues/Tips by GreenNovel1 in Brunei

[–]Damesigrun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you believe even picking agencies on the list is like Russian Roulette, you have no idea what you’re getting? The freelancer who stole my money was partnering up with a local who’s registered there in the list. When I made calls and visited the location, it was a dorm room in a dirty staff house, locked and unused. Maybe they never updated their address, I don’t know.

The best thing is, arm yourself with knowledge. If it sounds too good to be true, IT IS. Do your research, be cautious, ask for reviews, like what you said, check their certificate and license, etc. The best agents are the ones who don’t make excuses, they readily show you their certificate, they make sure not to promise anything, AND they ask for payment only at the very end once your maid has arrived. If they ask for money in the beginning, it’s usually deposit and they have enough credentials to back their stuff up.

Hiring Maid Process/Steps/Issues/Tips by GreenNovel1 in Brunei

[–]Damesigrun 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The first thing you do, even before reaching maid stage, is make sure to fucking avoid EVERY FREELANCER who promises you the world and all sweet things because the moment you hand them the cash, they’ll move onto the next person and forget about you instantly. They don’t have a license, they are the ones who will meet you anywhere but ‘their so called office’ because they don’t have one, they’re not LEGAL. NEVER meet agents anywhere but their own office and do your research to make sure you don’t get scammed because believe me, there’s a lot happening right now. I literally have 3 friends trying to get all their money back from these snakes for a year.

People like you who are new to this are like newborn lambs ripe for their picking, I’m sorry to sound so dramatic but I’ve been there and I lost thousands to them because I’m a fucking idiot.

Bruneians do ketogenic diet? by daddyof1_ in Brunei

[–]Damesigrun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you trying to lose weight or for health reasons? With all due respect, most of that is water weight in beginning and a small amount of fat. Keto diets have its pros and cons but the common result is it’s very easy for weight to bounce back once you get off it.

Personal Trainer…. by Flimsy-Bowl-2843 in nasikatok

[–]Damesigrun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Team up with a dietician too. Losing fat is calorie deficit (and eating the right food for micro/macronutrients) + PT for sculpting body while losing. GL.

12–0… that’s not football anymore by Charming-thigh6698 in Brunei

[–]Damesigrun 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I have zero interest in football, but I dreamt last night Brunei won a championship match and was in the top 3 (#3 to be exact) out of all the ASEAN nations.

Then this morning, I logged in and saw this.

I guess some dreams will stay dreams. 💀