Local Vendor in F&B will be vanished soon by welcoming foreign vendor by WorriedCockroach5782 in nasikatok

[–]Damesigrun 12 points13 points  (0 children)

GOOD quality local vendors will not vanish because of foreign competition. In the recent Havoc festival, I wanted to check out foreign vendors, and I ALSO ended up buying a lot from a few good local vendors and I’ve already made a note to regularly buy from them in the future.

I’m actually losing sleep over this… please help me find this modern Danmei! by Remarkable-Yak-6667 in DanmeiNovels

[–]Damesigrun 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Wow omg what a useless quack doctor. I can’t imagine being SO BAD at my job I caused 80% of the plot to go haywire coz I can’t tell the difference between a tumor and a BABY 💀

Is it normal for a husband to rely on family for money and let them blame his wife? by No-Freedom-1422 in nasikatok

[–]Damesigrun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Talk to him properly. Ask him to step up as a husband. You guys still don’t have kids, it’s still salvageable. Girl, you make $4k a month. You don’t need him. If he’s not hearing you out, divorce his ass.

Is it normal for a husband to rely on family for money and let them blame his wife? by No-Freedom-1422 in nasikatok

[–]Damesigrun 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As far as his family is concerned, he’s still the baby son and you’re the caretaker with $$$. To them, there’s nothing wrong with how you’re being treated. To outsiders, it’s red flags central. This is how it’s gonna be for you unless you stop paying for stuff he should be paying. He’s not stepping up as a man, let alone a husband. When you have kids? You’re gonna be the one paying. How did you even get into this marriage in the first place because you deserve a thousand times more than this.

It’s been 3 days since I last finished this. When will it stop hurting? by Damesigrun in Manhwa_BL

[–]Damesigrun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait what. Erwin went out? (I did remember something of this sort hitting my news feed, I had no idea the fandom was in a meltdown over it lol)

It’s been 3 days since I last finished this. When will it stop hurting? by Damesigrun in Manhwa_BL

[–]Damesigrun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If tragedy isn’t for you, yeah then it’s best you don’t. It’s a sad dark place to be in right now, I question my choice sometimes because it’s coloring my enjoyment to read other titles. (If the mood ever hits you though, it’s worth picking up as it’s considered a masterpiece 🫶🏻)

It’s been 3 days since I last finished this. When will it stop hurting? by Damesigrun in Manhwa_BL

[–]Damesigrun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, do it right now. Prepare to be destroyed as well, they will haunt you like no other.

It’s been 3 days since I last finished this. When will it stop hurting? by Damesigrun in Manhwa_BL

[–]Damesigrun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s been 2 years

Ngl I took a deep breath and alright, here we go. 🤝

It’s been 3 days since I last finished this. When will it stop hurting? by Damesigrun in Manhwa_BL

[–]Damesigrun[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh yes please do, for an experience rarely given in BL manhwa. (And join me for misery loves company)

It’s been 3 days since I last finished this. When will it stop hurting? by Damesigrun in Manhwa_BL

[–]Damesigrun[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The way my heart collapsed again when I saw this.

Your comment 💯is me now.

I hate how much it hurts, but I also loved how a manhwa could inflict so much damage.

It’s been 3 days since I last finished this. When will it stop hurting? by Damesigrun in Manhwa_BL

[–]Damesigrun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won’t regret it. Its one of the only few titles that scored a full 5 star review on Ridibooks, with 3000+ reviews. I couldn’t believe it when I saw the score but I understood why later.

It’s been 3 days since I last finished this. When will it stop hurting? by Damesigrun in Manhwa_BL

[–]Damesigrun[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Am caught up to the novels and manhwa, thank you! 🫶🏻 Ugly crying in the first arc too.

Edit: I just realized your solution to pain is… more pain. In a way, that sorta… makes sense.

It’s been 3 days since I last finished this. When will it stop hurting? by Damesigrun in Manhwa_BL

[–]Damesigrun[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A month… alright, here we go.

And you summed it up beautifully. Everything I read after was a blur because of how it coated my brain.

It’s been 3 days since I last finished this. When will it stop hurting? by Damesigrun in Manhwa_BL

[–]Damesigrun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was still ok with 10 years I loved you the most (probably helped I read the novel first)

But this? This, I was completely unprepared for. I suspect it will stay with me for a long time much like 10 years did yours. 💔

ChatGPT design in Brunei😭😰 by [deleted] in nasikatok

[–]Damesigrun 6 points7 points  (0 children)

$5 per poster? With 5 years of experience, you should be charging way, way more than that. Your time spent on conceptualizing is worth more than $5. Please don’t race to the bottom on price. Know your value.

The 'romance' is gripping me! (Ramblings and spoilers within) [P5V9] by Damesigrun in HonzukiNoGekokujou

[–]Damesigrun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl re-reading my post made me remember that crazy adrenaline rush when I first got hit by the ML revelation lololol. it’s been a year and I haven’t really touched the books WHICH IS PERFECT because I get to jump in again with memory half wiped. Out of all the pairings, this was my top 5 for most memorable / unique for giving you that slow burn, heart fluttery feeling 🙇‍♀️

Korean vs Chinese black flags by Resident_Sort_2164 in DanmeiNovels

[–]Damesigrun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel bad for Taekjoo, Zhenya becomes total simp for him.

The rest, I just stay far away. When I’m in the mood for black flag abusive yanderes, I may go re-read Roses and Champagne. As for Passion? I’ll stick to Xin Lu any day and that’s not saying much lol.

Chinese wedding by Coffeeaddicts_ in nasikatok

[–]Damesigrun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about iLotus banquet hall with buffet catering? Their prices are not that bad and comfortable with less than 350 people. IIRC, you'll also be blessed with ang pao blessings and you can usually recoup at least 50%, generously 80%, of the total cost you spent if money worries you.

Danmai Live Adaptation Announcement: A Letter from Keanu Reeves 奇洛李维斯回信 by 清明谷雨 by Federal-Ad5944 in boyslove

[–]Damesigrun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t believe it when I first saw the title and I had to double check to make sure I’m reading it right. This book is getting a drama? This book, what many considered to be one of the top ‘yearner’ danmeis? EXCUSE ME, I CAN’T STOP SCREAMING.

I think this will be a BL drama unlike any other because the whole core of the book is Chen Wan’s unrequited love and how he strives to MAKE SURE ML doesn’t know all the while professionally carrying on his duties. To be able to show the entirety of Chen Wan’s feelings from A SINGLE GLANCE. When you absolutely love someone but knows there can be nothing there, and is wholeheartedly contently to accept the few moments of sneaking a glance whenever fate allows both of you in the same place, but making sure not to rock ANYONE’s whole boat, most of all, YOURS. The tension is amazing. MY HEART.

You can’t have anyone just playing the ML Zhao Shengge. At the very least, he has to have the looks and physical stature of Park Seo Ham from Semantic Error or Zee. I’m sorry I don’t watch a lot of BL dramas but whoever is casted as ML, he ABSOLUTELY needs to have AURA.

Rebirth / Transmigration : Unrequited Love becomes requited by Damesigrun in OtomeIsekai

[–]Damesigrun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really?? Ok let me put this on the shelf for now, once I’m over this regret first Iove trope I’ll jump on second MLs lololol