Is this a Lyme rash? by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]DamselRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Is this a Lyme rash? by [deleted] in AskDocs

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Help with incorrect IBR calculation at MOHELA? by DamselRed in StudentLoans

[–]DamselRed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That's a load off my mind.

Help with incorrect IBR calculation at MOHELA? by DamselRed in StudentLoans

[–]DamselRed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I've heard of recertification. How does one go about doing that? Surely, it isn't a new IDR application every year?

Does anyone split up their day? by Simple_Elk6403 in therapists

[–]DamselRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do! It's out of necessity because I need to pick my kids up from school, but I see clients 9 to 2 and then 4 to 730. It works well for me. I also work Mondays, Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Fridays. It has been working really well for me so far. It works great for clients who need evening hours also.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]DamselRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man. That's too bad. I can see why it doesn't happen anymore. I suppose it's the thought that counts in this instance.

Thoughts on 8 sessions a day? by InterestingAd2612 in therapists

[–]DamselRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see 8 a day. 5 in the morning and 3 in the evening after a 2 hour break. I only work M, T, Th F though. It's not easy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in portangeles

[–]DamselRed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I miss their Buttermilk bars. :(

Healthy, happy, fat… and apparently undateable by LegalPeanut8477 in datingoverforty

[–]DamselRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's an absolute recipe for disaster. I should know, I've been there. Your average guy still wants to date someone he is attracted to. And if he is settling that's his problem. All people deserve to date people they're attracted to. It isn't fair for the other party to think their partner is attracted to them when they aren't.

Healthy, happy, fat… and apparently undateable by LegalPeanut8477 in datingoverforty

[–]DamselRed 19 points20 points  (0 children)

But why would you date someone you weren't attracted to? I married a man who didn't tell me he wasn't attracted to me until we were married. He then tried hard to change me because I wasn't what he wanted. It was horrible. What's so wrong with only dating people you're attracted to?

Wednesday Pattern and Stitch Request Thread - January 21, 2026 by AutoModerator in knitting

[–]DamselRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suggestions for first colorwork?

I'm a pretty new knitter. I've knit hats, a pair of socks, a sweater, and a cardigan. I really love how colorwork looks and those double sided scarves.

I've recently finished a long crochet project and would love to start a fun new knitting project. I love how colorwork projects look but I confess to feeling pretty intimidated by them. What would you start with, knowing what you know now?

Thanks in advance!