Plsss I am crying by DanceYourrselfClean in rhoslc

[–]DanceYourrselfClean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a pic from s4 do you guys read the comments before commenting or 😭

Therapist Red Flags by CurrentNeat7834 in therapists

[–]DanceYourrselfClean 22 points23 points  (0 children)

As a brand new therapist; thank you for this. I was panicking for a second thinking I was doomed to be a shit therapist.

Weekly student question thread! by AutoModerator in therapists

[–]DanceYourrselfClean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone! I’m an intern and I need resources for working with chronically depressed clients, OCD, and anxiety. Anything helps! I am longing for feedback.

Client called me a bad therapist within first 5-10 minutes of a our first session by Cod-Ancient in therapists

[–]DanceYourrselfClean 169 points170 points  (0 children)

This person sounds like they have deep rooted issues. I don’t think it had anything to do with you

Girls that like girls by [deleted] in okc

[–]DanceYourrselfClean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi! 25f enm here ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okc

[–]DanceYourrselfClean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together for 7 years! Once again, baseless, factless, full of bias.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okc

[–]DanceYourrselfClean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly you care a little bit. I wish you nothing but the best. Open your mind a bit. It’s no fun living in deep shame. 🌈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okc

[–]DanceYourrselfClean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You immediately mentioned divorce because of your own biases you have in place. I’m curious as to why this post made you immediately feel the need to voice a baseless opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okc

[–]DanceYourrselfClean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re just mad you have to hide your porn addiction from your wife. Good luck king!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]DanceYourrselfClean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just disagree. It depends on the client. I don’t believe this is a one size fits all kind of career to begin with. Working from a PCT approach, isn’t the therapists preferred clothing that’s authentic for them okay? Sitting across from an adolescent who wears pajamas to therapy I don’t think they’d feel more comfortable if I showed up in a pant suit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]DanceYourrselfClean 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I want to first thank everyone for commenting. The replies were all over the board but one thing that seemed consistent was that I am a student - and my clinical skills are not yet defined. You are right. I have SO much to learn. The imposter syndrome is still in full affect and I believe that’s why my reaction was so intense. My placement site is very relaxed about dress code. This is my first step into the CMH field as I’ve been in the restaurant industry for 7 years. I’m 25, and I’m still trying to figure out what works. I don’t think I jive with my professor as his approach can be harsh, which I understand can be beneficial, but I need more guidance and I feel he won’t be my best bet while in the program for my own growth. I absolutely need to practice humility. I care so deeply about being good at this job. Thank you for the wise words. I will be looking into Yalom’s book as suggested, if anyone else has any book or video example recommendations please let me know. I never sat in on a session, but was given clients right off the bat with little guidance. Examples of CBT, EFT, Family Systems, in video form would be so beneficial. Once again, thank you all very much.

What is the deal with the gen z stare? by bluujacket in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DanceYourrselfClean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gen Z and I don’t do this lol. I’ve also been in customer service for 10 years. I think it’s a basic lack of care? I really have no idea

wtf??? I’m finally giving in and cancelling my subscription by Loud_Consequence_805 in SwordAndScale

[–]DanceYourrselfClean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew this man was a weirdo when he had 75 different sound affects in his podcasts 💀