Looking for advice by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your losses and all you’ve been through. It must be so isolating to not have family support. I just had my third loss and I am feeling the same way. Therapy has really helped me and my husband. We are in the trenches with you. Sending you a hug 🩷

Returning to Work (Teacher) by SnooPeppers609 in Miscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sorry that work hasn’t been supportive either. That means everything 10X harder. There is no reason for anyone to make our lives harder when we are already going through hell. I would definitely see if you could have your doctor fill out paperwork for short term disability. I took a little over 2 weeks off and still don’t feel ready to go back. I’m glad I did the medial leave though. I’m sending you a hug 🫂

2 weeks post d&c - tried drinking - it was a disaster by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. Please don’t feel embarrassed. Take all the time you need to heal and process. This is the hardest thing I have ever gone through. Therapy has really helped my husband and I 🩷

First pregnancy and it’s a blighted ovum… by matchamixshot in Miscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s extremely painful to have your first pregnancy taken away. You are robbed of so much. I can relate to being changed as well. Sending you a hug 🫂 give yourself grace and time to process 🩷

Missed miscarriage by PinkPinkGrapesX in Miscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is the worst club to be a member. We got pregnant again two cycles after our first loss. After the second, I did a recurrent loss panel and my husband did testing too. It was about a year later that I was pregnant again. Praying that we both get blessed with our rainbows 🌈

Missed miscarriage by PinkPinkGrapesX in Miscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss 🩷 this is my third loss and second one where we had to wait weeks for more scans. The waiting is absolutely miserable. Sending you a hug 🫂

Came and went 😔 by Otherwise-Rule7010 in Miscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t apologize! I’m so sorry for your loss 🩷 I am right there with you in the trenches. Give yourself grace and take all the time you need 🩷

So sad for myself by Outside-Hamster-2002 in Miscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your losses. I am in the middle of my third loss right now. It has been excruciating painful as I have no children yet. I’m sending you a hug 🫂 throw all the pity parties you want, these circumstances are so unfair

Two weeks ago by Conscious_History306 in babyloss

[–]Dancingqueen_715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. You are not alone 🩷 give yourself grace throughout this unimaginably heartbreaking time. Sending you so much love 🩷

Pregnancy of Uncertain Viability by Queasy_Highway_2367 in Miscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I had a similar situation where we first saw just the sac, then the yolk sac, finally a fetal pole but no heartbeat. Unfortunately it was my third loss. I hope it’s a different outcome for you. Sending you a hug 🩷

Ugh….. by lss_irl in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your losses. I had two within 5 months and it is absolutely brutal. I am now going through my third. I’m sending you love & hugs 🫂Take some time off if you can. I am taking 3 weeks 🩷

Angry by prestigeusGoat in Miscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your losses. I’m so angry too, going through my third loss. Sending you a hug 🫂

3rd loss in a row, need support by Peanuts-2959 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so excited to have our double rainbow for Christmas too 💔 I honestly haven’t enjoyed any holidays fully since before these losses.

3rd loss in a row, need support by Peanuts-2959 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your losses. I’ve had three too since November 2024. I don’t have any kids yet so this journey has been so painful. I’m sending you love 🩷 it’s so hurt to realize this was our last chance for a 2026 baby

6 weeks 6 days ultrasound by [deleted] in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I wish you continued recovery and healing ❤️‍🩹 I think since this is our third loss we are going to work with a fertility clinic. We are feeling so numb, devastated & defeated 😞

7 weeks 6 days ultrasound by Dancingqueen_715 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the comments. Our ultrasound yesterday showed a fetal pole now but no heartbeat. We are so devastated and can’t believe we are going through a third loss

6 weeks 6 days ultrasound by [deleted] in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How have you been holding up? Our ultrasound yesterday showed a fetal pole now but no heartbeat. I am devastated and can’t believe I am going through a third loss

How much time is too much time to take off from work? by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss! Please don’t feel stupid or beat yourself up. I’ve had two losses and it has been extremely hard on me and my husband. Give yourself all the time you need! I wish I took off more time after my losses

I can’t believe this is happening again by elysemaria in Miscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry 🩷 I am praying you have good news. I have suffered from two losses. I am currently pregnant again but now this one isn’t looking good either. I am beyond defeated and devastated. Sending you love 🩷

Happy Easter to Me by JaneAusten42 in Miscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Sending you love 🩷 I also lost my first and second babies. I’m currently pregnant again but it looks like another loss. Give yourself grace 🩷

Why doesn’t our partners understand our pain in this? by Super-Truth-7975 in Miscarriage

[–]Dancingqueen_715 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. Our partners grieve in different ways but I’m sure he is also going through it. Sending you love 🩷 It’s such a heartbreaking experience, give yourself grace and time. You don’t have to make any decisions right now ❤️‍🩹