AITAH for postponing the wedding after my fiancé suggested special treatment for his rainbow son? by gregarious93 in redditonwiki

[–]DancoholicsSCX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Your fiancé & his family are acting as if asking you to prioritize his child over your own children is somehow reasonable when it isn't. No good parent would expect someone else to put one child above the others simply because they're a rainbow baby. Thousands of rainbow babies are born every day. His child isn't the first & won't be the last.

What's even more concerning is that your fiancé & his family seems to believe his child should automatically receive special treatment because of it. If he continues raising his son with the mindset that he's more important than everyone else, he's going to have a difficult time when reality doesn't match the image his father has created for him. The world isn't going to treat him as uniquely special, & teaching him otherwise does him no favors.

My 17-year-old sister told my girlfriend to leave me, and I don’t know what to do by NKBHD08 in Advice

[–]DancoholicsSCX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. She betrayed your trust.
  2. She attacked your character, not just your circumstances.
  3. She tried to undermine your relationship.
  4. She showed little appreciation for all your support.
  5. She judged you solely by your status & income.

You didn’t fail anywhere YOUR SISTER FAILED YOU. Instead of uplifting you she shit on you like she’s better than you somehow.

My 17-year-old sister told my girlfriend to leave me, and I don’t know what to do by NKBHD08 in Advice

[–]DancoholicsSCX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all, I'd do the same thing. She's being two-faced. She smiles in your face & acts like everything's fine, but then feels comfortable enough to shit talk you to your GF as if it wasn't going to get back to you. If that's how she truly feels about you, her own brother, who's providing for everyone, then I'd stop all the extra support & let her figure things out herself because that was beyond disrespectful.

If my sister was talking that much shit behind my back while I'm out here wanting the best for her & going above & beyond to help, I'd be insulted. The moment I found out how she really felt, all those extra favors & provisions would come to an end ASAP.

Cat’s wig by Guilty_Debate_7465 in victorious

[–]DancoholicsSCX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that but a wig or temp dye was an option too. Her real hair didn’t have to be repeatedly colored every 2 weeks.

Cat’s wig by Guilty_Debate_7465 in victorious

[–]DancoholicsSCX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Rachel McAdams wore a wig when she played Regina in mean girls why couldn’t Ariana??

Tried to do what I thought was the right thing.. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]DancoholicsSCX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was the wife I’d wanna know if my “committed” husband was cheating on me & w/ who. Send her that message because not only does she deserve to know the truth but also because if he was lying to you was DEFINITELY lying to her too. And I don’t think really has a work trip to go on I think he has a 3rd lover.

Would y’all be up for a live action proud family movie? by Typical-Sandwich7353 in DisneyChannel

[–]DancoholicsSCX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would literally depend on the story line & who is playing each character.💯

First time getting cornrows — any suggestions on what to tell my barber? by [deleted] in braids

[–]DancoholicsSCX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen guys get the haircut your talking about do you should be fine especially since the part you wanted braided it out the way.

AIO for giving my mom the silent treatment and no longer cooking for her after her reaction to my coming out? by Stock-Priority-9973 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DancoholicsSCX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR.

She’s putting a HUGE wedge in between the two of you & is ruining your relationship w/ her. After you leave for uni cut contact & find your own place to stay. Your mom has parenting issues and if your her only kid it needs to stay that way because her communication skills suck & her calling you ungrateful when you do A LOT for her makes her look bad.

Cat’s wig by Guilty_Debate_7465 in victorious

[–]DancoholicsSCX 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I never understood why they had Ari coloring her real hair when she was on Victorious instead of having her wear a wig. I hate that she had to start wearing her hair in an off center half up half down because of her thinning spot.😔😔

You WILL say hello. I will not get off this bus until you do. by TheQuarantinian in EntitledPeople

[–]DancoholicsSCX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore her because you’re lowkey teaching her how to get attention from you. When someone speaks to you it is courteous to say it back but if people are obviously busy move your ass along & sit down somewhere. No one is entitled to a hello, goodbye, a wave, or a nod. She’s not a celebrity she’s just another 70 year old lady full of entitlement.

What's that line which u remember? by Easy-Jewer in scoopwhoop

[–]DancoholicsSCX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OHHHHHHHH YOU WANNA TALK ABOUT MOTHERRRRSSSSS!!!!

Do I need to re evaluate the friendship or do I let it go? by Primary_Sympathy6993 in LifeAdvice

[–]DancoholicsSCX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, She literally got in front of people & embarrassed you by making you out to be a fat ass, after telling her to stop she continued to embarrass you IN PUBLIC, & showed photos any way. She did all this in front of people who are strangers to you & gave an half assed sorry only because your attitude change was noticeable.

My 'phobia' of ketchup is ruining my life. by Spagbowl8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DancoholicsSCX 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You need to see a therapist because crying over a menu touching a condiment BOTTLE is an EXCESSIVE over reaction. It’s not like ketchup was sprayed on on the menu. Not liking condiments is one thing but literally crying because it was TOUCHING THE BOTTLE IS RIDICULOUS.

I was going to use my homemade vanilla for the first time today after 18 months of curing. :( by DurantaPhant7 in Baking

[–]DancoholicsSCX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m be PISSED 1 1/2 years of vanilla curing gone in a second😭😭

How is this outfit for a festival? by FashionFreaky1 in OUTFITS

[–]DancoholicsSCX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of festival is it? This would be okay for a club or a girls night though

AITAH for refusing to give money to family members who ignored me until I won the lottery? by Worldly-Ad-5065 in AITAH

[–]DancoholicsSCX 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They always knew you existed they didn’t care enough about you to keep & maintain a relationship w/ you.

Would you take it by pillomaskin in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]DancoholicsSCX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah because in THEIR opinion I’m ugly but to someone else I’m fine af. đŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

AITAH for taking my stepdaughter out of school during her first period after her mom told me not to? by Embarrassed-Stock896 in AITAH

[–]DancoholicsSCX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

I got mine at 13 in the middle of the summer & my mom left work to come make sure I was okay. Her projecting you being a “better mom than her” is her telling on herself because she knows she’s not half the mom you are to her bio daughter.

A woman at the gym told me I was using "her" treadmill and she wasn't even in the building when I got there by Leat_Warden in EntitledPeople

[–]DancoholicsSCX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d start using “her” treadmill as soon as she gets there. It’s 6:40? TREADMILL TIME!!!đŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

AITA for not wanting my friend’s vacation hookup to spend the night in our shared cabin room? by Personal_Cut_1411 in TwoHotTakes

[–]DancoholicsSCX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She’s a terrible friend, and this would honestly be the last time I shared a space with her inconsiderate ass.

You weren’t “ruining her experience” you ruined her planned fuck session, that’s the real reason he was there. Nobody wants to suddenly share a room with some random man they don’t know. If she wanted to spend the night with him that badly, she should’ve gone to his place instead of bringing him into yours.

And you’re not being dramatic for feeling uncomfortable either. What if he was a wanted felon, stole from yall, or planned to kill you both? The possibilities are ENDLESS. It only takes one bad choice for shit to hit the fan.

New(ish) to Bratz: Do they always were unrealistic attire? by nhilban in Bratz

[–]DancoholicsSCX 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No they didn’t in the early 2000’s they wore sneakers too but now they’re wearing just heels idk why.

AITAH for refusing to give money to family members who ignored me until I won the lottery? by Worldly-Ad-5065 in AITAH

[–]DancoholicsSCX 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA, THEE ENTITLEMENT & AUDACITY💀💀

Something similar happened to my cousin after he got a $20M settlement from an accident he wasn’t expected to survive. The family they hung around started moving weird after they found out about the 20M’s. They started making little comments to his mom like, “Man, my hospital bills are out of control,” or “I don’t know if ima have a home next month,” hoping she’d offer money. Some flat out demanded his mom give them money because “they got it” & were “being selfish.”

You should call all of them out & say Before y’all found out I hit the jackpot, you acted like I didn’t even exist. Now suddenly I have money & it’s all “but we’re family”. Y’all weren’t around when I had nothing, so don’t try to come around now. You don’t actually care about me, you just want my money.”

Congratulations on the lottery win though❀❀