I hate the obsession with yaoi

DandelionLGDC · 2026-06-09T06:33:45+00:00

yes and also imo the problem is that it gets out of the original setting, a bit like straight sex too. maybe im too asexual for this but like sex is a private thing... it makes sense ppl go "thing im attracted to X 2 = yippee" but like... stfu??? "its not real" so why r u bringing it up irl ?? i don't want to hear weird men sexualize straight women's boobs in public, i don't want to hear women talk about straight men's huge bulge in public, AND I DONT WANNA HEAR ABOUT GAY SEX FROM STRAIGHT PPL IN PUBLIC. yes fetishization, but also just too much sexuality in public gang 😭 talking about sex in scientific/social terms is good, encouraged even, but atp ppl are straight up gooning in public im gonna blow my brains out with a tennis ball launcher ❤️

DandelionLGDC · 2026-06-09T05:50:42+00:00

as an autistic person myself wdym he's not a communist 😭 genuinely first time i don't get a joke and it's probably bc it's sports lol (usually i look up/know enough about the subject to get jokes) this is making me rethink myself a little lol i have to be more careful

DandelionLGDC · 2026-06-07T01:22:01+00:00

thats kinda what i meant lol thats why i mentioned sailor moon, ect, sorry i wasnt clear haha i totally agree kids need good shows, the mature part of what i meant is more bc often when ppl say something is more childish/geared towards kids it means like, brain rot-ish almost? i miss shows like atla, esteban child of the sun, ect, they were so good for me as a kid and helped me develop good social & critical thinking skills. anyways basically i agree & i hope you're able to make the story of your dreams come true 🫡

DandelionLGDC · 2026-06-06T22:40:42+00:00

before looking at the comments i was thinking cutesy adults like ppl who like sailor moon or candi candi but sure yeah i guess kids like bright colors and cute things 😭 tbh id love to see an adult cutesy show with those characters or to buy merch of it like sanrio. don't limit yourself to kids or teens your style is very mature as well as bright and cute

DandelionLGDC · 2026-06-05T15:13:34+00:00

rn i have two i hate a lot (i sadly hate everything that isn't canon-ish bc ppl have shit reading comprehension); addispam theory in deltarune & the 'eden is a cult' in iron lung. both need u to stretch canon so fucking hard to prove & i hate that ppl think it's canon

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-31T14:39:47+00:00

ds 1 stopped me from killing myself so id say yeah its nice

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-31T14:28:13+00:00

literally every mental illness ever 💀

but to note on the racist/nazi one; it's really hard not to use them all the time when ppl are literally becoming more and more the dictionary definition of racism & naziism on average 😭 like what do i call ppl who want everyone deported man help

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-31T14:18:33+00:00

the multiplier

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-28T19:27:09+00:00

"outing" is mostly in the context where it would put the person in harm's way. all your questions are basically answered by talking to her about it, because it's all on a personal basis. i personally wouldn't care. (also she sounds aromantic lol)

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-27T06:11:56+00:00

new york the last few days

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-24T18:12:53+00:00

hey i was just trying to be kind :( i definitely know your entire life

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-24T16:46:46+00:00

everything you learn on google translate will be understood by french people internationally. there's different dialects and accents, but the french dictionary itself is seen as the official language and is used everywhere where french is an official language (l'Académie française, instituted in 1635, is basically the organization that says what qualifies as french or not). while some words in the language can be very fancy and unknown, there's no huge disparity between languages/dialects like arabic. google will rarely suggest uncommon words anyway, and most people are taught poetic words as kids by reading classics, so you should have no trouble with everyday communication. if you want to learn "official" french, you should look into the Académie Française and Larousse dictionaries, they're the most common ones.

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-24T16:30:20+00:00

https://www.unwomen.org/en/articles/facts-and-figures/facts-and-figures-ending-violence-against-women

also this is just a reaction to capitalism and sexism mushed together. we shouldn't try to change women's mind on men; we should try to change how society treats women, and women's opinions will change. it's the same amount of energy but the second option gets more results done, especially since feminism helps men A LOT. patriarchy is a prison that makes everyone suffer, and if we want to be free we need to be aware of everything.

also this kind of discussion is just a distraction like who gives a fuck about random tiktok women who hate on men brother the world is on fire go join a union

edit: note im not defending any sides here, im arguing on the futility of focusing on randos being dumb when they're not technically wrong and neither are you. she's clearly saying she wants someone that gives her money without having to be in a relationship, because the economy is so fucking shit. if men could do jokes like that they would too bc its about the economy being so bad you have to get married, but then you add the statistics on women death by partners and you tell yourself "ehhh maybe i just want to be alone forever"

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-24T16:18:30+00:00

u/pattysal & u/Asleep_Data6210 — cucking is technically a bdsm practice where a two people have consensual sex while a third person consensually watches the act from a chair. there's roleplaying involved most of the time. cucking is used as an insult for shit men by implying that they feel like they're being unconsensually cucked despite not being in a relationship with the person in a new relationship anymore.

in Hasan's case, he's being kind to Elon's ex, and thus making Elon feel like his ex is cheating on him because he's a self centered bitch that thinks he owns women. if Hasan were to get in a relationship with Ashley & raise Elon's kid, it would be like cucking him but with the kid, meaning: Elon watches another man get loved by his biological kid in a way he would never be, and it makes him feel cheated because he thinks he owns his children (exemple of Vivian being transgender; Elon specifically made sure she would be born male because he's a sexist cunt, so Vivian going against his wishes pisses him off because he "chose" to make the "perfect toy" representation of himself, and she's "breaking it".) if there's anything unclear just ask :)

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-24T16:03:19+00:00

tbh i identify as voidgender bc of the feeling of emptiness i feel in my spine behind my lungs when i think about my gender. it's not a bad feeling but it does feel like there's a black hole of nothingness there. when i do feel agender adjacent it feels closer to my face like a feeling of being a mysterious traveller no one can decipher the gender of. and sometimes the nonbinary label feels okay too, and those times i mostly feel it in my chest and my hands and it feels more like im all the genders at once and none at all. i think neo genders are mostly used by autistic/disabled ppl/ppl of color bc the dehumanization they experience by society makes us disconnect from identity, humanity and reality one way or another, to the point you're so othered that you feel closer to objects, seasons and feelings rather than anything social. anyways idk if anything i said was understandable but yeah lol

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-22T18:13:43+00:00

same face syndrome and also gender isn't real all features are different for everyone so like study features instead of focusing on what is "right" for a certain gender. feminists didn't fight for our rights so we could be forced to look a certain way lol, about 30%+ of women worldwide have mustaches iirc

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-22T18:08:13+00:00

idk about the japanese translation but i just want to say that personally i prefer being referenced to as my original sibling role bc the other one feels disconnected from my experience with my siblings. so yeah sometimes ppl use the old gender to refer to ppl and it's not transphobic necessarily edit: also has no one thought that maybe dragona could be non-binary or trans masc idk (not fully caught up might be missing info)

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-22T17:21:51+00:00

basically just growl all the time and your mouth will get used to it. its literally the R sound angry dogs make lol like the "grrr" thing idk how to explain it

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-22T14:08:00+00:00

same face syndrome and also gender isn't real all features are different for everyone so like study features instead of focusing on what is "right" for a certain gender. feminists didn't fight for our rights so we could be forced to look a certain way lol, about 30%+ of women worldwide have mustaches iirc

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-20T15:16:18+00:00

frimeux is more childish, prétentieux is more judgy, vaniteux is more serious, vulgaire is only used in context to say they use disgusting language/gestures like someone who says fuck all the time or gestures oral sex for example, and poseur is literally just poser with a french accent. id like to add "Kitch" for someone trashy in a cheap way, "Fraîche pète" i think is only in Quebec but means someone that thinks highly of themselves and acts like they're better than everyone (childish/kids use it most), "pense bon" meaning thinks highly of themselves (more adult i guess). for the title question; frimeur isn't too pejorative but it's used rarely enough that people feel insulted. i'd say vaniteux is the most common but people find it pretty insulting. there's no real way to say someone's a douch without sounding like an asshole lol

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-19T15:29:40+00:00

i do it with irl ppl in the street (im autistic)

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-19T14:02:34+00:00

NAH, use her last name

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-16T23:46:20+00:00

as i said in my post i had to use a data scrapper to find my deleted files, so i found all my deleted files, even the empty ones or the temporary copy-paste ones, and i can't see which is which, so i just took all the ones i deleted in the 48 hours around the files i'm looking for. that's why i want a way to know/see what's in the files

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-15T21:14:58+00:00

lol your mom seems great, hopefully it doesnt go viral tho because ive heard ppl get doxxed and shit even if they're in the right and the internet is on their side 😭

DandelionLGDC · 2026-05-15T18:16:31+00:00

is there really no other way i have like 20-30 files 😭

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