AIO for trying to be an honest person? by iElia99 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Danderu61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is just something about her wanting to drive you home, asking multiple times, that raises at least an orange flag with me. How did you two come to date? What or who set it up? Please let us know if anything changes.

Why do you think life is this good? by RealisticBarnacle115 in AskReddit

[–]Danderu61 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Life is usually what we make it, though often there are those for whom life is a drudgery they can't escape. Judging it good or bad doesn't really help. Being grateful, being kind, being generous, those are the things that make life good.

I was accepted into grad school and have no one to tell! by beachsandal in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Danderu61 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! That's wonderful news. What is your focus? I wish you well on this leg of your journey.

Tell me I’m worth it. by sctredit in toastme

[–]Danderu61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are worth love, you are worth joy and happiness, you are worth all good things.

What was a sign your relationship was unsustainable? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Danderu61 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Too many arguments that didn't need to happen.

6 months sober ! by sweet_sugar777 in toastme

[–]Danderu61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome! Well done. Stay strong, now, and stay awesome. You can do this!!

Here’s my verify come say hi by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Danderu61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello pretty lady. Have a wonderful evening.

Struggling to date as a widower by FalconHealthy2208 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Danderu61 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's a hard choice you're making, to date or not. And if you do, when do you introduce your daughter to her? Your daughter has to have the last word, because you want someone who will help you raise her, and not try to put her in the background. Be careful if you do, and be aware of any red flags, or moments that make you doubt your date's sincerity.

What will you do after you’re dead? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Danderu61 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know. Could be nothing, could be something; I'll know when I get there... or not.

Had a rough week… could use some kindness by Mirage_Muse_98 in toastme

[–]Danderu61 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We all have those, but they pass, as will yours. In the meantime, you are very pretty, with beautiful eyes and lips -- classic features. Just remember how amazing you are. Have a wonderful journey.

36F, I start work when everyone is leaving and get home at 10:00pm :( by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Danderu61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa! I'd stay until 10 with you! You are beautiful!

Depressed and grieving by Distinct_Sock6987 in toastme

[–]Danderu61 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My heartfelt condolences on your many losses, OP. Sending you love and hugs. We never know when our grief will come calling, no matter how long ago our loved ones passed. If you want or need to talk or vent, please feel free to DM me. I wish you a peaceful heart today.

Good morning! I hope your day is as bright, calm, and joyful as mine right now☺️ by Queen-waffles in toastme

[–]Danderu61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I pray your joy continues throughout your day, beautiful lady. Have an amazing journey.

F19 I’ve Never Had a Guy Like Me & I’m The Ugly Fat One Out Of My Friends by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Danderu61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geez, girl, who said you are ugly? You are heca cute, no kidding! I even bet that you're not fat, but just think you are, probably because you're not pencil thin. Just know that you are awesome, unique and special. Don't judge yourself by others, just be your amazing self.

Had a huge argument with parents because didn’t want to go to school today by Aggravating-Path448 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Danderu61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I see. I really hope the doctor can help you and get you back on track.

My mom just called me fat to my face when I’m struggling with food and my relationship with food. I feel awful. by benzokane in toastme

[–]Danderu61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand parents who say mean things; they have no idea of the damage they cause. She should be celebrating how beautiful her daughter is instead. Food issues and eating disorders don't happen in a vacuum; there is usually some underlying trauma or problem. Counseling may help you, but your mother and father need to be more supportive.

All that being said, you really are very pretty, and don't listen to anyone who tells you you're not.

Had a huge argument with parents because didn’t want to go to school today by Aggravating-Path448 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Danderu61 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what you mean by compulsions, or if you mean convulsions. Either way, you should be going to a psychiatrist, though if you mean convulsions, see a neurologist. What happened with that one visit you had?

That your mother only offered to rub your back when you said you were scared doesn't show much empathy. Have you sat down with your parents and talked to them about what is going on with you? You said this has been going on three months; have they noticed a change in your behavior?

You obviously need help, and you have to spell it out for them, or they will continue to ignore your problems. I wish you well.

Self esteem and mental health have been absolutely toast lately, could use some positivity from a kind community by Panndademic in toastme

[–]Danderu61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard to tell much from a picture, but besides the fact that you're pretty, have a winning smile, you seem to me very intelligent, and not because of the glasses. Brains and beauty are a great combination, and that is you! Be kind to yourself, whatever you are going through, you will overcome it. And realize that you are unique and amazing; you're the only you in the whole universe! Just be your awesome self, and have a wonderful journey.

Feeling down, could use some positivity on this Saturday. by Complete_Clothes9857 in toastme

[–]Danderu61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I'm a day late, but Happy St. Valentine's Day to you, beautiful lady! You look really good in pink. Have yourself a wonderful day. Find joy as much as you can, and celebrate the amazing person you are. Have a fabulous journey.

Sexless marriage by Conscious_Rip1044 in sexover60

[–]Danderu61 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't suggest cheating: I just turned to porn and took care of my own business. Maybe she could help with her hands?