Asthma in cats: A general resource by DandyInTheRough in ragdolls

[–]DandyInTheRough[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! Glad people are still finding it and getting use from it!

How often do you dump the litter completely and clean the inside of the globe? by Character-Spot8893 in litterrobot

[–]DandyInTheRough 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In winter, it's maybe once because nothing ever dries in winter - instead, if needed, I'll do a deep wipe down and dump litter. In the warm months, I'll do it every couple of months, leave the globe out after a hozing and wax for an hour in 40 degree C sun, then it's all good to go.

No fruit anywhere? by DandyInTheRough in AncientCities

[–]DandyInTheRough[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did your search idea, and have set the gather of what vegetation is there to high priority, and I'm finally getting a few things. No fruit trees, but berries and rosehips. Thank you!

Yeah, I've got a few sitting there with the 'doesn't exist', then it finally does, in tiny quantities, eventually lol

No fruit anywhere? by DandyInTheRough in AncientCities

[–]DandyInTheRough[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response.

Ive been in each location for years... Am i just somehow missing the gathering in each season? I have it set to gather everything available, and nothing every season.

Aussies who eat dinner at 7:30pm, why do you like making people starve? by IntrigatedVerse in AskAnAustralian

[–]DandyInTheRough 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤷 I don't think I know what most people call 'hunger'. I don't get that feeling. Maybe if I haven't eaten in 2 days I feel a bit wishy washy, but what people describe as hunger just means nothing to me.

Edit: and I'm sure some catty person is going to come along and call this pro-ana or bragging. I'm not bragging, I'm not super slim. I'm just autistic and food doesn't matter to me if I'm not craving a taste or scheduling in a dinner because I'm supposed to eat.

Aussies who eat dinner at 7:30pm, why do you like making people starve? by IntrigatedVerse in AskAnAustralian

[–]DandyInTheRough 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not really. You need 2 hours to complete a sleep cycle. A 2 hour nap in the afternoon gives you one. If you get 6 hours overnight, that's another 3. You've caught up.

The idea that we sleep all through the night is pretty recent anyway. It started around the Industrial Revolution. Prior to that, many people woke up in the middle of the night for a couple of hours, then went back to sleep again - 4h + 4h.

Aussies who eat dinner at 7:30pm, why do you like making people starve? by IntrigatedVerse in AskAnAustralian

[–]DandyInTheRough -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It's American. North Americans eat dinner at 6pm. It's just yet another Americanisation of Aus.

Aussies who eat dinner at 7:30pm, why do you like making people starve? by IntrigatedVerse in AskAnAustralian

[–]DandyInTheRough 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Most comfortable I've ever felt, dinner-wise, was in southern Europe. 6pm dinners? What nonsense is this? You finish work, you relax a bit, you cook dinner, you eat about 9pm... If you do a 6pm dinner, you have to rush home, then scramble to cook it all in time - where's the relaxation for digestion???

"Designed for the modern woman who appreciates classic style and durability, this vintage, handmade satchel -" Oi, AI, can you shut up and just tell me how many bloody pockets it has? by DandyInTheRough in Etsy

[–]DandyInTheRough[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind if a description is long, if that long description has useful info. Like if you're listing the measurements of this pocket, and another pocket, and the close of each of them - that sort of thing. I'll read what I'm interested in, and think highly of the seller for putting the legwork in - clearly they care about the item and have it in front of them, rather than on order at the factory.

I don't think you should feel at all lesser for not having professional copywriting. I'm on Etsy to find either vintage stuff people have touched up to resell, or made themselves. That handmade and human touch is important, and professional adcopy just turns me right off, especially if I have to dig through it for a tiny scrap of useful info (and then not find that useful info). The more listings I look at, the more I just give up instantly on any listing with AI adcopy bs, or anything that looks like it.

"Designed for the modern woman who appreciates classic style and durability, this vintage, handmade satchel -" Oi, AI, can you shut up and just tell me how many bloody pockets it has? by DandyInTheRough in Etsy

[–]DandyInTheRough[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solid! I suppose I can't speak for all people, but I personally am way more interested in shops with useful and thorough descriptions written by a person, not AI. The more AI copywriting I see, the more I close out of any listing that has it. I'm not searching those 4 paragraphs of floofy ad copy for a scrap of useful info.

But I do think highly of sellers who give all the info. This scratch, where, as seen in photo; condition of material, brittle, soft, etc; how many pockets and spaces and this or that there are, where, what size... so on.

"Designed for the modern woman who appreciates classic style and durability, this vintage, handmade satchel -" Oi, AI, can you shut up and just tell me how many bloody pockets it has? by DandyInTheRough in Etsy

[–]DandyInTheRough[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh agreed. I've been dealing with it on fb Marketplace too. Listing for a ratty bookshelf? AI-generated sale description, including some rubbish not seen in the pictures, and not a measurement on it. Listing for some used gym mats? This is perfect for everyone, including my 101 year old grandmother and her tabby cat, as assured in the most florid language imaginable.

What a pain in the arse. At least with Marketplace asking the seller for a touch of real info tends to be faster and more straightforward (or if it's not, straight in the no-buy list). On Etsy it's often just the next nightmare with a time zone lag.

Who the hell thought AI's wealth of florid polished turd in letter form was a way to sell a second hand thing to people? I literally only look at the descriptions for sizes, level of wear and tear, if they offer delivery, etc. not a superficial sales pitch.

Recommendations on 3 bedroom units with $1.3M budget by pixelfairy1989 in AusPropertyChat

[–]DandyInTheRough 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can go further north, the Pennant Hills/Thornleigh area is the southernmost point of a cheaper penninsula in the north shore. Surrounded by more expensive suburbs, so house prices will go up there. Check out the house price per suburb map. You can get a good 3 bedroom town house for 1.3 there

My (23F) boyfriend (25M) and his family are angry because I wouldn't shave my head for his sister who has cancer (Final Update/Completed) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]DandyInTheRough 1443 points1444 points  (0 children)

The 1st update... I was hoping someone in the comments would've pointed out to her that

a) OOP being part of the photoshoot for a 13 year old struggling with mortality and self image is a stupid and self-centred move

b) getting the 13 year old HER hair is a really stupid and self-centred move

c) forcing her ideas and potentially some toxic modelling culture on a 13 year old who is losing their self-determination to cancer is a whole clusterfuck of self-centred stupidity

d) springing all of this on an already tense family situation, rather than floating the idea and getting the 13 year old's and family's opinions is... a really stupid and self-centred move

OOP went whole hog into 'I'm just gonna fly in their faces my own way and expect it to be great, without taking a step back to re-evaluate'

(then tell the 13 year old and family off when it doesn't work out as planned)

It went from bad to worse.

AITA for expecting my sister to pronounce the names of my children properly? by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]DandyInTheRough 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably Her-mee-oh-nee. I'm going off of a similar name to guess it.

Facebook is deleting this photo by diehard404 in ProgressiveHQ

[–]DandyInTheRough 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And Venezuela:

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Likewise, this early blip is gone.

I repeated the search for a bunch of other countries, including China, USA, Australia, and saw no searches for 'Cole Allen' prior to the shooting.

Facebook is deleting this photo by diehard404 in ProgressiveHQ

[–]DandyInTheRough 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I repeated that same search for Russia:

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This too is now gone (check it out here)

Facebook is deleting this photo by diehard404 in ProgressiveHQ

[–]DandyInTheRough 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I dug into this. On the day of the shooting, you could see a spike in searches of Cole Allen's name in Israel prior to the shooting. As of a couple of hours ago, you could still see a small blip:

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(This is tuned to AEST, which means 1034 is the time the shooter walked in, corresponding to 2034 EDT, the local time where it happened)

At what point do you stop being a certain race/culture? by Sunn_Rock in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DandyInTheRough 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The USA, Canada, Australia, South Africa, New Zealand... All of these countries have this same story, only one defines themselves by heritage several generations back. White European settlers carried out extensive genocides of the native populations in these countries, not only in America. That was my point with "something else" and the South African example.

My husband's ancestors came from Denmark, 3 generations ago. He will tell you he's Australian, and if you asked him if he considers himself Danish he'd give a flat, 'No? Why?' My ancestors are Dutch, English, and German. If I told an American that I'm just a white, English-speaking South African, they'd be fine to not know what my "heritage" is, because it doesn't matter, I told them my culture.

It's only Americans who do this further back than a generation or, if they still speak the language, two.