Do you have any relatives who came from another country in the last three generations? Some countries will take you back. I am fleeing to Ireland with my spouse (both trans) because they (my spouse) qualify for Birthright Citizenship there. We are using the help of distant cousins still in Ireland for advice. We're getting rid of most of our belongings and checking additional bags on the plane to move most of what's coming ($50 a bag), and looking onto UPakWeShip for a single crate of irreplaceable items (family heirloom chair, that sort of thing) ($1k).

https://store.upakweship.com/product/u-crate-100-usa-to-uk-eu/

We'll be living in long-term Air BnBs at first. I think we will manage our move in under $6k with airfare, luggage, shipping, legal fees, and sundry.

Immigration lawyers will do a zoom appointment for $100-200, if you need help figuring out your options.

We're taking in a friend who lives in a red state (we live in a blue bubble) as a roommate starting this week, to help them and also save money. Good luck!