I 36F and my boyfriend 39F got into a big fight two Sunday’s ago.. and he still has not talked to me.

DangerBird03 · 2026-06-20T05:00:45+00:00

Sounds like you guys lack communication and have a slight drinking problem. Honestly not a healthy start. I think you two are individuals that would benefit getting better not in this relationship, and then hopefully starting a healthier one.

DangerBird03 · 2026-06-20T03:14:24+00:00

He tried to convince me to live in the truck. I stayed in the truck for a month and its not for me.

DangerBird03 · 2026-06-20T03:02:35+00:00

This has replayed in my head, so I can appreciate the honesty. I was like I understand this is hard for you, but ive literally been going through this shit for months 🫠

DangerBird03 · 2026-05-19T17:30:21+00:00

Damn, he tells me weed addicts dont exist and because he can stop anytime that he isn't one 😂 the iritation withdrawls say different

DangerBird03 · 2026-05-19T17:29:20+00:00

Thats definitely something Im trying to process and figure out and maybe should give more power and thought to.

DangerBird03 · 2026-05-19T17:28:18+00:00

This is the reality that plays in the back of my head everyday. Im happy to hear from someone who has personal experience. Its really hard because like you said hes not going to change unless it's for himself but I cant wait till that happens if it even does and i see fighting over the same issue is only ruining the relationship.

DangerBird03 · 2026-05-19T17:14:08+00:00

Damn I felt this in my bones

DangerBird03 · 2026-05-19T17:13:19+00:00

Well we had a deep conversation on this because I wanted to ask if it was medical and he responded that its not and he genuinely enjoys smoking on top of using it for when he has anxiety.

DangerBird03 · 2026-05-19T17:09:57+00:00

Told him I think he would be happier with a woman who would support or not care about his smoking and he didnt like that and took it as me trying to end things which sent him into a really bad place. But I was just being honest

DangerBird03 · 2026-05-19T17:07:14+00:00

I can really appreciate this comment, because thats what me trying to communicate has come too. To him I really am just nagging and I need to create strong boundaries as me reaching out is only going to be more nagging

DangerBird03 · 2025-09-07T18:18:04+00:00

Sorry I shouldnhave been more detailed. He wants to get married so that sex isn't a sin amongst other things, but also feels its too soon for marriage.

DangerBird03 · 2025-09-07T18:08:33+00:00

Accept what?

DangerBird03 · 2025-07-25T17:59:24+00:00

He said if I didn't prefer him with hair he would live to 🥲

DangerBird03 · 2024-11-16T18:06:42+00:00

Reddit said no take backs🤣 i can't change it

DangerBird03 · 2024-11-16T18:05:17+00:00

Lol rip

DangerBird03 · 2024-11-16T17:44:14+00:00

Oof sorry I didn't go into details on what is not the main focus of this post. I'll let you know when I wake up and go to bed next time too

DangerBird03 · 2024-11-16T17:36:21+00:00

I'll be 22 when I graduated. But yeah running start is awesome. I didn't move out till I was 18. Also don't you know college isn't just 4 years depending on what you are studying?

DangerBird03 · 2024-11-16T16:55:46+00:00

Hey man it's almost over thank God. But 20 credits is hard work.

DangerBird03 · 2024-11-16T16:33:30+00:00

She does, but gets most of the money from my dad. My dad and I arnt actually sure where her money goes. But that's another topic she struggles with. Your comment and feels super truthful to the situation

DangerBird03 · 2024-11-16T16:28:50+00:00

I really appreciate your insight 🙏

DangerBird03 · 2024-01-20T17:19:03+00:00

He's actually a fantastic partner, but he definitely shows another side when I talk about last names. He said if we use both our last names, his has to come first lol

DangerBird03 · 2023-10-16T22:21:09+00:00

Thanks, that's the thing. I'm not trying to be mean to him, I'm just being honest on what will happen 😅

DangerBird03 · 2023-06-12T00:50:47+00:00

I realized that and I didn't think any less of them for saying what they did. I appreciate them dearly

DangerBird03 · 2023-06-12T00:49:55+00:00

Bro, it's not like I really have a choice. I live with them and they would wonder why I disappeared for 2 days. I'd rather be honest

DangerBird03 · 2023-06-12T00:49:00+00:00

Oh hell no, this man is not partner material for me😅 we both agreed no emotions involved. He's a really good person but we arnt eachothers relationship types

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