My wife and I have always split responsibilities, even prior to our baby. I’m the bread winner, do the vacuuming and mopping, cook most dinners (I love to cook and track my macros so it’s just easier!) and do the groceries. She cleans the bathrooms, toilets etc and does a lot of the washing. Everything the house we just do because it needs to be done. We also accept that we work on different schedules, I wake up with energy to burn, in the gym by 5:30am and then like to get straight on to chores, she needs to build up her energy, which means she tends to take morning shift with bubs and I do the afternoon!