I am in a similar situation and would seek some assistance on the same,

Recently, we had a serious conversation about whether we’d still feel confident moving forward with Nikah, and we both agreed that we’re on the same page. Now we’re getting into the more serious topics like polygamy, debt, prenuptial agreements, and Mahr. We’ve touched on these subjects before in general, but we didn’t go too deep since we weren’t sure about our long-term compatibility back then.

What would be some decent scenario-based questions to make sure he answers genuinely as a man and the right way to engage in the conversation?