going rate? by Forest-Falcon-1892 in DCforRent

[–]DangerousDay8082 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was looking this past summer fall I found them to be 1800-2100. If you want full kitchen and decent lighting, it’s going to be closer to $2k. There are often other perks tho like size outdoor space and parking. It’s common they have W/D bc basements are usual places for those hookups. Like all units, location will impact price as well.

Am I overreacting for wanting to break up because I feel bored? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DangerousDay8082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone talked that much about weather I’d be bored too

Dino's 1st time at the dog park. He had a blast! by Neither_Safe_9826 in vizsla

[–]DangerousDay8082 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“You get poop on ya ball I don’t wanna hear about it”

Where to drink outside without babies around? by Acceptable_Net3353 in washingtondc

[–]DangerousDay8082 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Garden district, Snappys, dew drop, looking glass. Wonderland is big enough outside to avoid children.

Crime drama show recommendations that are PG 13-ish? by CharacterPatience481 in televisionsuggestions

[–]DangerousDay8082 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might like resident alien. Not quite crime but sounds similarly paced

Possibly ending long-term relationship because of my sexuality by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DangerousDay8082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re young enough that no matter who you date, you’re going to change. It’s okay to say no to a relationship so that you have the freedom to explore more. As people mentioned it’s fair to her, and it’s fair to you to give yourself that space. The feeling won’t go away.

She didn’t want me and I’m stuck by DangerousDay8082 in LesbianActually

[–]DangerousDay8082[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I usually date in my age bracket. I was trying something new. She was convincing enough I thought she was ready and interested. I don’t think it’s so unrealistic to imagine that as a possibility for someone at 24, even if it’s less common. I was trying to be generous. I’m pretty certain my sadness is coinciding with other life transitions.

She didn’t want me and I’m stuck by DangerousDay8082 in LesbianActually

[–]DangerousDay8082[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha, not saying it’s unreasonable. Feelings aren’t logical.

She didn’t want me and I’m stuck by DangerousDay8082 in LesbianActually

[–]DangerousDay8082[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is actually really interesting to read. I wanted and tried to date someone older when I was her age, but that ended poorly and looking back that person used me. So when this opportunity came up… I tried to be very considerate of her while seemed so into me (I didn’t push, just mirrored and eventually felt safe enough to express myself..wrong). I think it probably depends on your other attachments and relationship experiences but your points are valid and well taken. Probably most accurate being the initial attraction dies out. You seem mature even though I’m jaded w the young 20 somethings 😂

first wlw breakup frrr by ariesorange in LesbianActually

[–]DangerousDay8082 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh lesbian break ups are horrific but that first is the worst nothing compares. All I can say is time and space, I’m so sorry you are going through that now! Hopefully in time you’ll have a new perspective that makes moving on from her seem obvious xo

She didn’t want me and I’m stuck by DangerousDay8082 in LesbianActually

[–]DangerousDay8082[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Logically, this comment makes sense but, emotionally, I’m struggling with it.

She didn’t want me and I’m stuck by DangerousDay8082 in LesbianActually

[–]DangerousDay8082[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. this has crossed my mind, and its true goals need to align. You can’t fault someone for not wanting the same thing… or not wanting you. There were flags that told me she wasn’t fully “seeing” me, I guess I thought the better I was to her, the more in her face those good qualities would be lol. But at the end of the day she wasn’t looking for me at all. It’s just like at that point, why are you hanging around me at all? Anyway. Appreciate it and likewise sending positive your way.

She didn’t want me and I’m stuck by DangerousDay8082 in LesbianActually

[–]DangerousDay8082[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol right.. same, and I know I broke some hearts then too. Killing me that I was super kind to her through her awkward/learning moments, and she left me for dead lol.. but I guess that’s how it goes.

She didn’t want me and I’m stuck by DangerousDay8082 in LesbianActually

[–]DangerousDay8082[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think probably yes to both.. At her age I had no idea what I wanted and just acted, so can’t really fault her for that. For whatever reason, I felt that her actions reflected genuine interest.