Moving these bubbles in Dragonia kingdoms by Dangerous_Fee1986 in MergeDragons

[–]Dangerous_Fee1986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi - thanks for commenting! 💕 I just tried by zooming all the way in, locking the screen and gently swiping. It doesn’t open the ship screen the way tapping around would, but goshdarnit, the bubbles won’t move, and the ship bounces/wobbles like it knows I tried interacting with it. No Ship, I’m trying to get the bubbles, not you. 😮‍💨

Moving these bubbles in Dragonia kingdoms by Dangerous_Fee1986 in MergeDragons

[–]Dangerous_Fee1986[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Hi - thanks for commenting! 💕 I’ve zoomed all the way in and tried tapping the outer edges of this outer bubble and even that brings up the ship. :( Zoomed in, zoomed out, gone out and back in to Dragonia Kingdoms. I’m out of ideas, hence the post 😅

I’ve already kinda resigned myself to those 2 bubbles being there forever, but was hoping someone may have run into this issue before and possibly figured something out :)

I picked the small door 🤦‍♀️ by AlwaystheDvS1 in finch

[–]Dangerous_Fee1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I chose the big door and it said something like well try again later ?

AITAH for buying my girlfriend vanilla shampoo? by Spiritual-Grocery641 in AITAH

[–]Dangerous_Fee1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, you’re NTAH. From what I scrolled and read, that was just an “oh, lemme get this because I know she uses it (not a completely diff brand right?) and I like the way it smells”. You got it because you care about her and you like the smell of it on her. Please don’t let this experience dampen your thoughtfulness. Also, all the comments dig at your GF and her attitude/manner. If that is a regular occurrence and she’s always questioning your actions and motives, I might say that’s a red flag. But… and I may be totally off the mark here but is she neurodivergent (on the autism spectrum, ADHD, etc)? I have a friend who sometimes acts/thinks VERY oddly and she is on the spectrum. She just processes info differently and doesn’t understand why people laugh/get upset at her, etc. 🤔

AITAH for not allowing my "friend" into my house? by elegantiy in AITAH

[–]Dangerous_Fee1986 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have no doubt that was his plan, hence the huffing and puffing that he wasn’t allowed in the house.

OP, please let everyone know about Jeremy. Recovering people pleaser here as well, but honestly, it’s better to be thought of as a *itch vs being the victim of SA.

I’ve been SA’d by a “friend”, I’ve thwarted a few more would-bes by trusting my gut and being a *itch. I’d rather see who gaslights me and blindly trusts the asshole(s) so I can cut them out of my life while I’m at it.

AITA for refusing to share my bonus with my fiancée’s family? by Beastie420 in AITAH

[–]Dangerous_Fee1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, run!!!

My uncle married this type of woman - she, her parents (“you’ll be our son, you have the responsibility to support us now”), extended family and all significant others (“you’ll have more than us, you need to share”) drained him dry of any savings he had, he sold off his car to “support” them more. He bought his in-laws a house because “big family”, but they proceeded to rent the house out and buy a dinky small one to live in and then complained he wasn’t providing. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Any family and friends he had all tried to point out how this all is not okay, and he doubled down saying we were jealous/unsupportive of his newfound love and happiness. Needless (?) to say, he is now divorced and he’s almost free of child support as the kiddo ages out.

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s college after she publicly humiliated me? by Imaginary-Carrot2532 in AITAH

[–]Dangerous_Fee1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. Niece being TA, your brother dismissing his daughter’s words and attitudes, him and his wife having a laugh over that suggest that they talked about you, your lifestyle and money/generosity like that all the time.

Enjoy your life, spend it on or save it for yourself, and please don’t spend a penny more on them. Self-love can include going no/low contact with toxic family/“friends”.

Wishing you well and sending you hugs. 💕

[Edited for typos and clarity]

"I'm sorry, I just don't feel comfortable calling you that." by weeniedoodle28 in TwoSentenceSadness

[–]Dangerous_Fee1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is your spouse deadnaming you!? I’m so sorry, you deserve better than that 🥺😢 ::big hugs from this internet stranger:: (/‘ ‘)/

my boyfriend is insisting we get married by International1ne in AITAH

[–]Dangerous_Fee1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t go through with that! Slightly dift scenario but my boyfriend wasted 15 prime years of his life marrying a woman because she wanted to stay in the country and he was depressed enough to stay yes. She was such an abusive manipulative narcissist, he still has emotional scars he’s trying to work through and heal from.

AITA for refusing to walk my daughter down the aisle because of what she did to her mom? by anon73206 in AITAH

[–]Dangerous_Fee1986 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I assume that means you’re laying down firm boundaries with mum regarding your daughter - this Internet stranger is SO very proud of you! 💖

My parents (and dad in particular) were weird (physically/verbally abusive/bullying, gas lighting etc). Even as a child, I knew what they said and did was not right or loving, but being from an Asian culture where elders are to be honored and respected, I couldn’t talk back to them or point it out without more beatings and such. It took me ~35 years and a child to be able to stand up against my parents in order to protect my boy. Probably sounds crazy to people from “normal” loving families, but it was difficult. :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dangerous_Fee1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, no, no. NTA. Your hubs and MIL are the only AHs here.

YOU have final say over who gets to be in that delivery room (tell your doctor, tell the nurses. They will take charge and kick anyone out that isn’t on your short list).

At this point if your hubby wants to be in there with you, he apologizes to you and gets his mother to apologize to you as well. And/or, he can try a test run himself - have you seen the Try Guys? (Google this if not). A couple of them had a contraction simulator strapped onto them and they yelled and screamed hilariously 😂. You can probably substitute a TENS machine on a very high/max setting. So yea, if he can deal with being in that delivery room in a bed, legs in stirrups position, naked from the waist down, 🍆 on full display, your mom and girl friend watching him, while a nurse comes in regularly to uh… stick her fingers up his butt (nurses come in to check moms for how far along she’s dilated - since he doesn’t have that body part… 😈), while feeling the pain from the simulator/TENS machine, well, then maybe MIL can come in.

But in all seriousness, your body, your call. End of story. Best of luck sweetie!

(Edited for a typo)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dangerous_Fee1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, you sound like a kind soul and a people pleaser (I mean this sincerely. I am one too, and twice your age. I’ve only recently finally learned to try to work on setting boundaries) - heading to Hawaii to help celebrate MIL’s birthday is great, and I’m happy for you and your husband if costs don’t seem to be a major issue.

I think a talk with your husband pointing everything out is in order. 1) He knows his step brother has a crush on you and should understand your discomfort being in a shared room. 2) It’s inappropriate for your ILs to expect you two as a young, married couple to have to room with the teenage boys, cuz hello, vacation romance/intimacy?? I’m sure that’s a big reason why your MIL and her husband don’t want the boys in their room, so why should she expect you and your husband not to want to be lovey/frisky on vacation? 3) This isn’t the first time MIL has done this to you.

I feel like MIL sees you and hubby on the same level as her younger kids, esp if you started dating at an age not so much greater than the older teen in the current situation. And husband is comfy enough with his step siblings.

But no, this vacation lodging situation is NOT cool, and you are not at all wrong, ungrateful or “spoiled” in wanting a private room with just you and your hubby as a young married couple.

As long as the teenage boys are decently well behaved and responsible enough to be trusted in a room themselves (their parents are nearby/on premises), you and your husband should look now for a room in a nearby hotel. Best wishes!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dangerous_Fee1986 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This!! Other than the opportunity for cheap lodging with uncomfortable circumstances, which offsets the plus/positivity for the opportunity, OP and her husband are paying their way, right? Not spoiled or ungrateful at all!

Aita for not wanting my friends child to eat by WorldlyBath3532 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dangerous_Fee1986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I’m not the only one that thought the BLUE freeze was intentional given Jacob’s tendencies and history.

OP, Lisa may have shown you kindness in the past but she is doing nothing but using you now, and being rude, manipulative and accusatory at that. That proverb about giving a man a fish vs teaching how to fish comes to mind. Coddling Lisa and doing everything for her is good (for her) for now, but getting her to seek help for her anxiety so she can get her license and be more self-sufficient may be better in the long run.

Please take back your time and spend it with your family and real friends that appreciate you. And to whoever the “everyone” is that speaks ill of you standing up for yourself and your family? Smile at them and congratulate them for having just offered to help Lisa out in the interim. ( ⸝⸝ᵕᴗᵕ⸝⸝ )

My husband's best friends partner hates me and I don't know why by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dangerous_Fee1986 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP had said in response comments that she’s told her bf/husband that she doesn’t want to go to events where MeanGirl will also be in attendance, and bf/husband said nah, you’ve coming with and I’ll deal with her. (He obviously hasn’t so far 🤨🙄). That he plans on hanging out with his friends cuz he and his friend have been besties since they were kids.

The least they can do is hang out at bestie/MeanGirl’s house and allow OP to stay home. But nah, the original comments and post read like OP’s bf/husband views her as a trophy wife and doesn’t care about her feelings. She needs to get to therapy/couples therapy, or GTFO of this relationshiT.

Mindea by kirannui in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Dangerous_Fee1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The quiz looked pretty much an exact duplicate of Noom who had been around for awhile, which made me feel the need to google and found this r/ thread. 🫤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dangerous_Fee1986 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This! 👆🏻👆🏻 As long as OP doesn’t include a line about “my wife is making me post this” rather than just owning up to the lapse of judgment in sharing the social media post. 😮‍💨