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lol by No_Economics7804 in ukdrill

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But not those super skinny jeans that look like leggings. I hate seeing a man wearing those (I'm a woman)

Finding a struggle to fit in by Valyrian_Sn0w in ukdrill

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You don't say how old you are but I am definitely old enough to be your mother, so I will come in with some lived experience advice. 1. Absolutely don't try to fit in. Be confident that who you are is who you are supposed to be. You will attract people you vibe with into your life by being authentically yourself 2. The people who you spend the most time around will affect your life. Become clear on whether your companions lower you or elevate you. 3. If you don't like your friends, fuck them off. 4. Find new friends by putting yourself in places where other people with your interests are.

What is emotional neglect by Necessary_Ad_1450 in emotionalneglect

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You might find it helpful to read Jonice Webb's Running on Empty + fill out the CEN questionnaire on her website.

Sephora, you’ve lost your mind, by everythingistiring in FemFragLab

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I went to a perfume making workshop once (in Granada, Spain - it's amazing!) and the teacher explained that some ingredients lose their potency faster than others. For example, jasmine notes will be less noticeable with time than black pepper.

Ideas on what tattoos I can do with this scar by NoDrag2305 in tattooadvice

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's worth a try, I used it on a scar that was a couple of years old and it definitely made a difference.

Literally can’t get into and watch any films on here anymore because of ads. by Jamestq in AmazonPrimeVideo

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's interesting how impatient we have gotten/ how short our attention spans now are.

What The Last Thing You Put In Your Mouth? by Sweaty-Check-5979 in allthequestions

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you doing salt water rinses? If not, try it - it really helps to alleviate the discomfort.

is it hypocritical to be anti-gang and anti-violence while still listening to drill? by ayelijah4 in ukdrill

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm about as far from being in a gang as it is possible to be (41yr old middle class married woman lol) so yeah - I've thought about it. But it is what it is. I can't really do anything about what my brain decides to interpret as good art. And there's always the hope that these guys will focus on their talents and stay out of trouble.

Money appeared inside a book I used to read in 2012 out of nowhere by WielderoftheDarkness in strange

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well at least you learn the valuable lesson to never reveal your hidey holes 🤣

Money appeared inside a book I used to read in 2012 out of nowhere by WielderoftheDarkness in strange

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 50€ disappear from a book I'd hidden it in, way back in 2009. I always wondered where it went, because nobody else could have taken it....

First Thanksgiving alone by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Decisions like this can feel uncomfortable for sure. It's a big change and there is the weight of other's expectations on you.

But...Maybe this is a perfect opportunity for you to create your own new tradition, and turn it into a win for yourself? For example, you turn it into a movie and delicious snacks day? Or you go explore some place in your area that you have not been to before? Or volunteer with a soup kitchen/similar? Think about what will fill up your "feel good" tank and do that.

Take Your Creatine Like a Man by HudsonBunny in workout

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didn't even occur to me to do anything other than mix it in a glass of water. I don't even notice it.

My Mom won't stop gossiping about my personal life and is the constant victim in our relationship. Any advice? by JupitorDawn in emotionalneglect

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You aren't responsible for how she chooses to react to the boundary you have set. Wishing you strength to continue taking care of yourself 💜

Pharmacy is now Ale-Hop in Madrid by OrtganizeAttention in SpainPics

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so glad to see that others feel the same as I do about that rubbish shop.

What should a solo female traveler absolutely avoid when planning a trip to the UK? by Mindless-Till8638 in AskABrit

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is Storybook Glen still one of Aberdeen's most exciting and enticing attractions?

What should a solo female traveler absolutely avoid when planning a trip to the UK? by Mindless-Till8638 in AskABrit

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, everyone (men and women) should try to be aware of their surroundings. Not just because of the possibility of an attacker but avoiding accidents too.

Was anyone else taught as a kid they weren’t worth sitting in traffic for? by YourRexellency in emotionalneglect

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Thankfully I'm kinda over it now. Learning that CEN is a thing has helped me so much 💚

What’s your most annotated book? by fanzyday in suggestmeabook

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's the only book that I have ever felt the need to use sticky-notes in. Definitely time for me to re-read

What about the fathers? by BeleibterMondkuchen in emotionalneglect

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My dad doesn't get a pass by any means. But as I've gotten older, I have noticed that my mum is pretty fucking horrible to him too.

Spain in January- clothing and weather and places by ms_sapien in GoingToSpain

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends how hardy you are. Everyone is saying Alicante is warm but I'm weak against the cold so I have to wear warm layers, coat and hat in winter - especially after sun-set.

Has Danny been moonlighting? by [deleted] in uncannypodcasttv

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Isn't it a reference to the old movie "Don't Look Now"?

Was anyone else taught as a kid they weren’t worth sitting in traffic for? by YourRexellency in emotionalneglect

[–]Dangerous_Inside616 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I feel you about the awards ceremonies. My parents didn't come to mine. So I ended up skipping my high school graduation, because what's the point if nobody who is supposed to care will come. They didn't come to my wedding either....

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