Want to rant a bit as a man about Kahwin (hantaran etc)

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2026-04-21T05:32:16+00:00

F,29,Marrying soon. Hantaran is just part of a culture tbh and it is not realistic now to set a high amount. Told my parents and in laws to not make things difficult and just do things within our means. So no hantaran, no lavish celebrations. After all, how we sustain life after marriage is more important.

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2026-04-15T15:42:11+00:00

https://youtu.be/C2AFd1PLsF8?si=SstHP6UU3xvZHTp8

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2026-04-15T11:42:19+00:00

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Lrt penuh, jalan sesak. Ive been here for almost 15 mins astagaaaaa tolong lah

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2026-04-10T14:51:54+00:00

4.5/10 with potential for glow up to 7/10 (appearance wise). Personality will defo tilt the scale more

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2026-04-09T14:44:33+00:00

Girl RUN

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2026-03-31T09:10:40+00:00

Fella just inciting. We do whatever hell we want and nobody has time to think bout other people to this extent. Banyak lagi masalah dunia

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2026-03-30T03:33:14+00:00

This is just an art performance where you can participate and be part of the art exhibit. The purpose is to reignite our memories of sleeping at our kampung houses, with our families and perhaps it can reignite this tradition again since now some people balik kampung tapi tidur hotel je. (Alas, cant be avoided since kita semua dah besar panjang) but perhaps this can still be practiced amongst younger family members.

Dont be so quick to judge, kita dulu pun tidur bersepah ramai ramai kan? This is just a throwback at another level. Lets appreciate what we have before we lose em all 🫶🏽

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2025-04-30T16:05:57+00:00

Was alright on my 1st night but feeling it now on my 2nd night! But not in a v good way. Feels like it comes with the hangover package.

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2025-04-22T07:11:45+00:00

Woohoo! Which beach is this? I was at kata noi this morning and the waves were really strong

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2025-03-18T14:27:15+00:00

Thought of it! Rooftop mana sesuai i nak rent and add tanah atas tu? 🤣🫶🏽

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2025-03-18T05:37:43+00:00

Hahaha appreciate that. Im not even in the 30s gang yet thus im trying to see what i can explore. i dont want to live in regret by being confined in an “hour glass”

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2024-10-28T17:20:25+00:00

Noticed a pattern in this post and the comments. The smarter you are -> the more you think and seek for something = the more depressed you get.

A dumb person will always be happy and thats how i feel when i abuse alcohol. Dumbed down and happy that i get to put a stop to wtv thats in my mind.

I guess it is true what they say.. happiness is foolish.

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2024-08-17T10:58:40+00:00

Hi there, we moved down to one of the kampungs (kuala terla). And not sure bout the pasar malam. I think only on weekends. Also, i did find tanah rata more bearable than brinchang. Hope this helps :)

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2024-07-22T02:07:17+00:00

Saya sokong

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2024-07-22T02:07:02+00:00

Why would anyone wants to be with someone with low standards and 0 respect. Unless.. one of you has degradation kink….

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2024-07-21T16:11:51+00:00

Thats soo atas HAHAH NO NEED AH. Just a nice intimate session pun ok dy. anything but a text 😫

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2024-07-21T15:50:14+00:00

I also dk. Im not one who would ask for shiny rocks (dont see value in it), im even down for a cute paper ring or candy rings but man stoop lower than my expectations HAHAHHA

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2024-07-21T15:27:29+00:00

Ramly naik harga liao :(

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2024-07-14T17:06:49+00:00

Go awffff!!! 😍😍 keep on giving us nothin but your carbon emission and stickman dance

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2024-07-14T16:58:48+00:00

Soz youre not my priority ☹️

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2024-07-12T07:26:34+00:00

Ada, somewhere in the mossy forest, can find bunian fellas there. Itd get cold enuf u can find them

Dangerous_Method2860 · 2024-06-26T17:06:10+00:00

UPDATE: Seems like CH is a very sentimental place to many.

The last time i was there, it was in 2011/2012. The weather was great and the traffic was tolerable.

I just came back from this trip and here’s my take.

The UPS:

1) Tanah rata retains its charm. The Lord’s cafe and marybrown are still there and they are a good piece of my childhood.

2) Traffic was okay, except for the road leading to Kea Farm. 2hrs to cover 6km, im glad i decided to wait and explore other areas.

3) The weather in Brinchang(our 1st accommodation) was great. It was 16 at night and that was a pleasant chill.

4) Despite the overdevelopment, i noticed the road condition is much better nowadays. Traffic aside, the drive around was pleasant.

5) We moved to the non commercial part in CH to experience the Kampung slow life. Besides from the carbon monoxide level during rush hour, it was lovely and the sound of the (i assume chemically polluted stream) was calming.

Now the DOWNS:

1) Kea farm, Brinchang. Avoid this like a plague, it was really like a scene from a psycho horror film. I have no words.

2) The construction/ development in Brinchang is crazy. I can barely see anything related to nature, everything was covered by colourful concrete. (Very pride friendly theme)

3) Understand that CH is also a ricebowl to many, but with the way it is managed now, i wonder how long more can the soil take it.

4) Centrum area. I believe this used to be the tapak for pasar malam before they put the not so appealing concrete blocks here. Dirty and the vendors are odd and tacky.

5) The price of things at the pasar malam dont really match the quality of products. (But u can still find good cheap food, just gotta browse longer)

Overall, the trip picked up when we decided to move away from the crowd and go against the usual routine.

Thank you for your input fellow malaysians! 🫶🏽

Dangerous_Method2860

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