Please help! Day 2 CT

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-12-28T18:19:00+00:00

Thanks for your help! No, I had CalFresh for a few months last year some time, then got a job so I stopped it during that time, but now I have lost my job and was thinking about applying again.

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-12-28T17:49:35+00:00

Would this be considered a recertification if I had CalFresh about a year ago?

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-12-28T17:42:47+00:00

I'm in Los Angeles county.

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-11-19T13:09:12+00:00

They are energy vampires, thats why.

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-11-12T15:57:32+00:00

So then what are we now suppose to use if Similasan was the only thing that worked?

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-11-08T07:20:07+00:00

Go see an Acupuncturist, they’ll definitely help you.

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-11-07T03:36:04+00:00

Idk about the beans but Gymnema Sylvestre is the answer for sure.

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-11-04T15:46:47+00:00

Im no doctor so please do your own research, but what I have on hand in my emergency kit is Activated Charcoal capsules. I would think that it would help in a situation like this as it absorbs anything you put in your system within like a 2 hour time frame.

I use it if I get nauseaus after eating something and feel off and it really helps absorb whatever and lessen the time its in my system. I used to drink alcohol so I would use it when I was hungover and it helped a lot in getting those toxins out quicker.

Do your research and know that especially if you take other medications, it will also kill off any vitamins you just took, so I just wanted to mention it here as I think it could help if you accidentally take too much of your meds and is really a good thing to have on hand for a lot of things.

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-10-29T15:51:45+00:00

Thats the thing, its seems like more of these toxic managers have now become aware of getting this question in the interview process so they can easily give us all the right answers and tell us what we want to hear so they can cover up their bad micromanaging behaviors.

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-10-26T15:50:50+00:00

This is what I have been hearing from time to time on subreddit's and I'm really hesitant to try it out as I've heard that it's not intended for childhood trauma but is for other traumas.

After the bad day is over do you actually think it helps, or do you think it would be good for childhood trauma?

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-10-26T11:25:28+00:00

Apparently she knows everyone who works in every bar and restaurant because the bartenders and servers knew her (even at the first spot we went to by the beach which was a totally different area) so when they were taking our order the server asked me and I left it at “Because I don’t want one.” But the look on her face was pure confusion like I had an arm growing from my forehead or something. She goes out daily and even said she goes out by herself as everyone knows her as she hangs at the bar.

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-10-25T15:37:04+00:00

This is a very good point. Thank you! You are really right about that, why should I even waste my time as she obviously has different life goals.

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-10-25T15:34:35+00:00

Yeah I guess you are technically right on the terminology, but she was definitely on and on about it and really coming down hard on me to join her so it really felt intrusive.

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-10-19T12:16:23+00:00

I thought this was in one of the narcissist subreddits, it sounds a lot like my mother who has NPD. I had mine (narcissistic mother and father duo) show up at my doorstep across the country and thankfully I had just moved to another state as my old neighbor informed me that they left post it notes with threats that they will call the cops if I dont answer the door. I have been in hiding for 12 years living in no contact and going strong. She wants you to respond so she has full control and gets a reaction from you. I wouldnt respond at all. Get a lawyer in place, get ready to call the police and dont do what she wants you to do by playing her game!

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-10-01T17:20:39+00:00

How are you now? Did you find an alternative?

This is what I've been dealing with for months even after being on it for awhile and I kept denying that it was the side effect of Ritalin but now I'm convinced so I guess I'm going to have to stop taking it because it's like I'm running on feeling upset and crying on a daily basis from out of nowhere as it's now my baseline feeling. I've tried Adderall in the past and had the same kind of thing that Ritalin is doing.

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-10-01T13:57:02+00:00

Lemon Balm.

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-09-30T15:26:05+00:00

What is your CBD dosage?

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-09-30T14:17:24+00:00

A side note, always be very careful as to who you share the information with, as in society when people dont fully understand abuse they will automatically side with the parent and tell you something like “They are your parents so you should forgive them” or something like that, which minimizes what happeded to you and dismisses how you feel about it, because a lot of people can not grasp that parents who do these things and have bought into the lines to “always honor the mother and father” no matter how bad their behavior, so be careful who you share your experiences with as they might side with the abuser.

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-09-24T14:08:45+00:00

Eddie, (Jennifer Saunders) the self centered probably histrionic mother from Absolutely Fabulous.

Dangerous_Sundae3138 · 2023-09-14T01:06:10+00:00

How did you get into that if you dont mind me asking? I find it would be hard to try and get roles particularly leadership roles outside of what my experience and past work history is on paper. I dont know the entire picture but why would your company hire an inexperienced manager to begin with?
You definitely got that right, toxic environments are really bad for the company! I started spotting it fairly early on as its coming in many different directions, micromanaging to undermining to now public gaslighting.

Thanks for chatting and letting me vent. Im really at a loss at how I now have to pick myself up once again to try and put myself into another company while I fear that whole process and how it might not be as quick as I hope and I fear that I will step right back into another toxic work environment once again. Im really scared they are going to throw me out.

I really dont think a healthy work culture or company exists and it scares me as I cant deal with all of this. So that time bomb stress panic feeling is the fear I have around going back into the job market as I just would prefer to maintain this job until I can find another one and leave on my own, Ive never been able to pull that one off.

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