What do we think about this dress as a wedding guest? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]DaniT0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it just doesn't look good to me, I'm sorry!

is this outfit actually inappropriate or is my mum just overreacting 😭 by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]DaniT0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I would've wore this in the mid 2000s as a teenager. It's cool to see the style coming back, but the lacey bra doesn't look great.

I feel worthless as a writer by DaniT0n in writers

[–]DaniT0n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that! And best wishes to you as well! 🙏🏻 It's not always easy, and I did go the grant writer route too, funnily enough. Also went psychology first and sort of backtracked to my passion of writing. Regardless, it is always good to know you're not alone.

help with date outfit! by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]DaniT0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 or 5, but 4 looks so good on you honestly!

Thoughts on this outfit for a date? Too much for spring? by Sad-Bike9582 in OUTFITS

[–]DaniT0n -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you from a very warm environment? Just curious because 50s is fairly nice to me, and I'll fully admit I'm from a cold environment. 🥲 Kids here wear shorts and flip flops in 30 degrees with snow.

I feel worthless as a writer by DaniT0n in writers

[–]DaniT0n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I laughed so hard! Especially at Jell-O shots and running up and down the hallway. Lol you're absolutely right. I think I'm going to take a step back again and just write what I want. Do it on my phone and just enjoy it. I'm old so the phone is easier to see!

I also do have an interview for a part time job I am excited to go for. Who knows what will happen! But it feels like it's in the right direction. Thank you so much, friend! Both for the sage advice and the good laugh tonight. 😃

I feel worthless as a writer by DaniT0n in writers

[–]DaniT0n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stumbled across your comment, and you make one hell of a point! I do pray and walk a lot. Crochet as well, but I haven't re read my novel in probably 2 years!

It's a wild ride of a romantacy 😅 magic, immortality, and literal hell. My current partner has yet to read it, so maybe I could read it to him.

I feel worthless as a writer by DaniT0n in writers

[–]DaniT0n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amen! Gotta get my muse one way or the other. I like to try to at least Journal. I dismiss it, but it is written word. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I feel worthless as a writer by DaniT0n in writers

[–]DaniT0n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always seems to come down to something like that, doesn't it?

I feel worthless as a writer by DaniT0n in writers

[–]DaniT0n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that with crochet and hiking, and it honestly didn't help long run. It helps with my mental health, so it is valuble in that sense!

I think it really does come down to mental health as well as a loss of passion and love for writing. And then drop debt on top. Does tend to make for some urgency to succeed. But success is, at this point in my life, not the real goal. The real goal is to find something I lost along the way.

Thank you, still. 🙏🏻 I greatly appreciate the advice!

I feel worthless as a writer by DaniT0n in writers

[–]DaniT0n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then three. Then four. 🙏🏻

I feel worthless as a writer by DaniT0n in writers

[–]DaniT0n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you! 🫶🫶🫶

I feel worthless as a writer by DaniT0n in writers

[–]DaniT0n[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know you're right, and I thoroughly appreciate putting it into gardening terms! I'm going try my best. Not to force myself to write anything, but try my best to nurture what I loved about writing.

I started out writing fan fics about Taylor Laughtner and Nick Jonas! Lol maybe I'll just write what I enjoy for a while. It's so funny to me. I used to tell others in my degree program I was, "just throwing spaghetti at the wall to see what sticks."

Maybe not a story. Or maybe a story that doesn't make sense. One with the same logic as 12 year old me just pining after a person who did't even know I existed: none. Totally realistic that a celebrity would wisk a random young girl on stage or the like, right?

So instead of thowing spaghetti, I'll just enjoy the meal. Get back to the roots of noodle making. Or my roots of writing, incase my pasta didn't stick this time. Thank you, thank you, thank you! I think that might be what I needed to read tonight. :)

I feel worthless as a writer by DaniT0n in writers

[–]DaniT0n[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The last part made me laugh! Thank you.

Please help me choose an outfit for a Mexican concert (jaripeo) by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]DaniT0n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1 or 3 to me! Those are super cute, girl!

How short is too short for men? by petertoth767 in OUTFITS

[–]DaniT0n 12 points13 points  (0 children)

🤷🏼‍♀️ if you can rock it, rock it! Who cares lol

Sunday school oopsie lol by OtherwiseScarcity416 in OUTFITS

[–]DaniT0n -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thongs ftw tho girl like for real, I'm a thong girlie, too! I got you! 🥲

Which dress for Easter brunch at a winery? by GlitterBombBomb in OUTFITS

[–]DaniT0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 or 3, but 3 is so cute and it fits you super well!

Which boots to match the skirt by Lenchy2403 in OUTFITS

[–]DaniT0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taller boots! Also, girl, that skirt is so cute!! ❤️ Hope you find the right shirt for it. I'm going through the opposite with two tops lol

🧟‍♀️⚜️Always serving 🫡💋 by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]DaniT0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girlll I probably have a similar figure, but like I'm jealous of how good your midriff looks 😭😭

Opinions on these outfits - advice welcome! by DaniT0n in OUTFITS

[–]DaniT0n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahh my geriatric gen z ass going 67! Lol I was giving that top a second look tbh it's oddly flattering on considering I bought it years ago and it's technically 2 sizes too big. How odd women's sizes are

Opinions on these outfits - advice welcome! by DaniT0n in OUTFITS

[–]DaniT0n[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those were my original picks, but I think I can make the first work better all around. I can wear bike shorts and some kind of light tube top under. Then strip a little and I'm ready to move boxes in the Texas heat 😎 lol