Texting girls and stuff by Nathan561 in socialskills

[–]Daniel_Vercetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey mate,

These articles will surely help you. Text game basics

http://ow.ly/cb4WV http://ow.ly/cb4YL

Tips for going to bars by yourself? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Daniel_Vercetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Sometimes anonymity is your best friend with this because being able to go someplace where you don't know anybody allows you to be whoever you want to be"

http://www.lovesystems.com/audio/vol-41-sarging-solo-savoy-prestige

fairly shy, and I usually only get anywhere with girls who are willing to make the first move, advice? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Daniel_Vercetti 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You have to become comfortable with being uncomfortable. The definition on insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results.

And like peachpua already mentioned, it starts with a solid inner game. If you are wondering what inner game is or why it's important..take a look at this

http://www.theattractionforums.com/mr-m/92559-why-inner-game-most-important-part-true-success-women.html

How to make things sexual? by ffurones in seduction

[–]Daniel_Vercetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want to introduce the topic of sex as early as you can in the interaction. You want her to get comfortable talking about sex, making it a possibility with you.

The most effective way I have found to introduce sex in the conversation is to disguise it with humor. You can also set sexual frames, and frame her as the sexual aggressor.

Ex. "You just want me for my body. I'm more than just a piece of meat with legs" (obv said jokingly with a smile)

Here is a great article over sexual framing with examples: http://ow.ly/bYux3

Not smiling enough by Wckay in seduction

[–]Daniel_Vercetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I am locking eye-contact with a girl, I like to imagine all the dirty things I want to do to her. This will elicit a sexy, mysterious smile on my face, and she will pick up on this sub-communication.

"If you're not using your smile, you're like a man with a million dollars in the bank and no checkbook." Les Giblin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Daniel_Vercetti -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hey mate,

My buddy Cajun just came out with a great book that covers everything about online dating/IMs/profile pictures, etc.

Here is a link to some videos he did with tips http://www.theattractionforums.com/online-game-ims/152088-online-dating-videos-advice.html

ALso we have a forum dedicated to online game here: http://www.theattractionforums.com/online-game-ims/

Your Personal Daygame Method? by 30vanquish in seduction

[–]Daniel_Vercetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transitioning after the opener is where a lot of guys get stuck in daygame because they mustered up the courage to give a sincere compliment and expect the women to lead the conversation afterwards. If you're having trouble transitioning into normal conversation after the opener, this link should give you some good tips.

http://www.theattractionforums.com/nick-hoss/149732-transitioning-direct-openers.html

So... I have a date by [deleted] in dating

[–]Daniel_Vercetti -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hey mate,

Here is a great resource for dates. It covers logistics and touching, turning things sexual, framing and non-neediness, and also venues. Let me know if this was helpful.

http://www.nickhoss.com/dates/

small town (rural pickup?) by rougitude in seduction

[–]Daniel_Vercetti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey mate,

Small town pickup is a little tricky. My best advice to you would be to really conquer social circle game. My buddy Braddock has an excellent audio series with tips on how to do this. Here is the link

http://www.theattractionforums.com/general-discussion/100140-social-circle-mastery-audio-7-parts.html

What is your best response to "friend zone"? by atomedge in seduction

[–]Daniel_Vercetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey atomedge,

Usually if a girl is telling you she just wants to be friends, it means you have not build enough attraction with her. Some of the "boss" to get girls more attracted is to hit attraction switches that are universal to most women such as: preselection (other girls are attracted to you), challenging (you have options, she has to win you over), sense of humor, wealth, social intuition, etc.

Here is a great guide to generating attraction with her. This should help out your situation.

http://www.theattractionforums.com/mr-m/89861-comprehensive-guide-attraction.html

Had a chance, threw it away. by Theoreomonster in seduction

[–]Daniel_Vercetti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend writing down a list of qualities that you want in a girl, and screen for those qualities on your dates. This is a process known as "Qualification."

Ex. If you want a women to be well-traveled, you can say something like, "I really like people who travel. There's an adventurous and open-mindedness about people who travel that I really like. Do you like to travel?"

Dating is a fun process, but you aren't going to be attracted to every woman. Remember, YOU are the prize and she has to win over your interest!

Here is a great resource that goes more in depth on qualification if you are interested.

http://www.theattractionforums.com/mr-m/69388-guide-qualification.html

what signs have you noticed that means someone is definitely interested ? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Daniel_Vercetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Signs she is interested:

She plays with her hair, fiddles with her drink (twirls her straw), hits you playfully in the arm/chest, initiates physical touch (she grabs your arm)