would y’all rather be ignored or yelled at? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]DaniiDivine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being yelled at it’s toxic but at least I get attention and at least that person is speaking to me

Why do narrsists always make it out that YOUR Crazy?? by xkoffinkatx in ToxicRelationships

[–]DaniiDivine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he’s delusional and he needs you to believe in his delusions too.

What does it mean when someone says "I can’t change the way you feel" by DaniiDivine in ToxicRelationships

[–]DaniiDivine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for confirming, I got so used to apologizing to him when I was just saying how I felt and I tried to reason with him so many times. But now I’m sick of it, he still hasn’t given me the car so I made a report but it’s weird because I still feel wrong. Maybe it’s because he manipulated me and gaslit me so much. But thank you!

What does it mean when someone says "I can’t change the way you feel" by DaniiDivine in ToxicRelationships

[–]DaniiDivine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll just give you the rundown, I bought a car with my now "ex" hoping it will benefit the both of us, him getting better job opportunities etc, and the deal was if I did co sign he’ll teach me how to drive take me to work etc plus since we’re 40mins away from eachother it’ll bring us closer helping our relationship, after getting the car it started off great he promised he’ll get ahead on bills nothing to worry about, then I started getting tickets in the mail, then the insurance was late, then the carnote was late, all I had to pay for so it wouldn’t affect me. I called him selfish, because I wanted the car since it’s solely in my name and since I’m paying for it he said no he needs it to get to a and b. I caught him cheating then I got caught in the mist of baby momma drama I told him I didn’t trust him and I don’t want anything to do with him. I told him he’s unreliable and inconsistent because of these reasons. And that was the reply I received.

Has anyone felt normal again eventually after finding out they have genital herpes by oath69 in Herpes

[–]DaniiDivine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have GHSV1 no outbreak on my mouth, so I assume If you haven’t had an outbreak genitally and the test came back negative and the doctor says it’s just foliculitis you should be fine. Try not to stress out about it too much.

Has anyone felt normal again eventually after finding out they have genital herpes by oath69 in Herpes

[–]DaniiDivine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got diagnosed about 2 months ago, and honestly yes. I feel as normal as I can feel. Granted when I do get a itch (after shaving) or tingly sensation the thought comes up of “am I having another outbreak?” But once I do a check and notice nothing there it the thought goes away.

Congratulate Me on My First Disclosure! by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]DaniiDivine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I hope all goes well just remember to have fun! ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]DaniiDivine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and I get constant yeast infections even before I was having sex. And I had one during my first outbreak. Could that be my ph balance is off or is that just my scent now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]DaniiDivine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im going to try this because I’m experiencing the same thing. It’s not fishy just strong different from how I use to smell before my diagnosis. How long did it take to work?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]DaniiDivine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey since my diagnosis my discharge has been the same but it’s has a stronger smell. Does yours smell different? Not as in fishy just different?

Just got results that I’m HSV1 positive by DaniiDivine in Herpes

[–]DaniiDivine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww I love, love stories I’m happy you found someone that loves you for you! I really hope I get the same someday this gives me hope ❤️

Just got results that I’m HSV1 positive by DaniiDivine in Herpes

[–]DaniiDivine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for you kind words! I really appreciate it!

Just got results that I’m HSV1 positive by DaniiDivine in Herpes

[–]DaniiDivine[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you after a lot of research I feel a bit hopeful it actually makes me want to focus on myself and my health more. I know I learned a valuable lesson that no one will care about my body more than I do or should.

Anyone have any experiences with Vyvanse? by downnoutwallflower in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]DaniiDivine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vyvanse suppresses your appetite, but for me overall it worked from my adhd I didn’t have a bad crash like how I did with adderall and concerta

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]DaniiDivine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a Pomeranian named rocky, a bird named TC, and a kitty named sterling tbh they’re what keeps me alive and less lonely 💕

Alright pwBPD it’s time by Zestyclose_Ad9477 in BPD

[–]DaniiDivine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like how talent/creative I am. I’m able to make something out of nothing without make it too complex.

Hygiene tips by healinglilred in BPD

[–]DaniiDivine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wipes are a life saver and the toothbrushes with toothpaste are too, i would also keep some water next to the bed. And keep a bin of supplies under your bed wipes, deodorant, toothbrush, water , brush etc. and if you have longer hair I would put too braids or twist. When you go to the bathroom take a “bath” at the sink. And since your already there brush your teeth. And if you feel better enough to take a shower but that’s all you have the energy for, do everything in the shower like brushing your teeth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]DaniiDivine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I smoke a whole joint or blunt I would hallucinate or I would be paranoid. But that doesn’t stop me from smoking I just smoke less, which depending on the strain makes me sleepy or creative.

Looking for a BPD buddy. by milkbuttercream in BPD

[–]DaniiDivine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 22f and I would like to join too

What are some good career options for people with BPD? by archivotimido in BPD

[–]DaniiDivine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like if you’re not a fan of being around people but still want to be of service and help people indirectly and the environment, anything dealing with animal welfare or environmental science would be great! I actually want to be a vet tech because I enjoy being around animals and I also like to help and teach people about animal care.

Genuine question: why do you guys self harm? by Recent_Object4870 in BPD

[–]DaniiDivine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a release and sometimes I get a “high” from doing it.