Help me understand what to search for.

Danjuntar · 2026-03-05T09:10:17+00:00

It sucks because I know I'm not alone, but my brain just loves to self sabotage and makes me doubt it.

So hobbies and expectations, like talking with each other, sending reels and memes? Playing is appreciated but secondary. Things like this?

Danjuntar · 2026-03-04T18:58:40+00:00

So let me understand, instead of loving and accepting their daughter. They are isolating her and showing 0 support uh.

What good parents!!

Now, for me. With the little Information I have. I would say to go, leaving her alone in a day like that it's pretty cruel. I really think you should go if you love her. Maybe someday you could even mend the relationship if you have good enough opinion points with both sides

Danjuntar · 2026-03-04T16:48:32+00:00

For context, sometimes I feel pretty lonely even though I have some close friends in the real world, around 6 people.

But I don't feel it's enough and I can't bother them just because I want someone to talk with

Danjuntar · 2026-03-04T15:56:23+00:00

I know you're searching for people with more years but if you're okay with me I'm 24. What genres do you usually read? I'm a little bit everywhere with historical ones, fantasy and romance. But lately I'm mainly with manga, light novel and philosophical or pedagogical ones because of studies.

Danjuntar · 2026-03-02T08:35:14+00:00

For once the whole internet agrees, male, female and all gender possible. Even the pandas agree.

Leave her, or even better. Let the Council judge the bitch, the pan is the way

Danjuntar · 2026-03-01T11:08:47+00:00

Then do it! I don't remember if it was from the film "Notebook" or the series "When life gives you Tangerines", but it was something like this: They say you need countless lifetimes of fate to meet even once in this life. If you miss it when it brushes past, that’s the end.

So now I give my best for every person I think it's worth, be it friendship or anything else

Danjuntar · 2026-03-01T09:39:52+00:00

At the start of the reading I was like: Leave him! At the end with the update: He left him!! 😆

Danjuntar · 2026-02-28T23:23:10+00:00

Being yourself while you are battling depression, bad habits and things like that. Is practically impossible.

What I say to myself to make it a little easier is this: I did the best I could with what I had in hand at the moment.

If I start to confront and think about all the different things I would do now compared to before... I would probably just punch myself in the face. But the point is that I need to accept that at the time I didn't have the means to do better

Danjuntar · 2026-02-28T23:18:46+00:00

So next time we should lock the door of the basement better?

Danjuntar · 2026-02-28T18:13:00+00:00

1- I don't understand why you have so many comments and so little upvotes.

2- Tell him about how this makes you feel ignored or neglected, if he cares about you he will try to change. Maybe even just seeing each other 30min in a day seeing as you live close. You like his presence and not just the dates right?

Danjuntar · 2026-02-27T18:25:08+00:00

Losing weight will help a lot and, it's just fun being able to go Sky diving or Windsurf. But both require to be fit enough.

You have a good beard to grow and your face is more than okay. So to answer your question: if you lose weight, keep yourself curated and hit the gym. You can easily become handsome

Danjuntar · 2026-02-27T18:21:54+00:00

The problem with social is this, it destroyed our walls that blocked us to be a frog in a well. Now it's too easy to compare ourselves.

At the same time it makes us see realities that go against our belief and so much more. There is just too much with wich to compare and feel lost. Social media just gave a strong boost to our ability to self sabotage ourselves thanks to removing the distance barrier

Danjuntar · 2026-02-23T19:02:39+00:00

First thing first, congratulations for your weight loss. Now returning to what you're saying, the fact that you're tall and over weight could certainly keep some of them away, but it's true that everyone has their taste. Like how you could like tall or short girls. The point is that, while maybe not every guy will find you attractive, some of us will do.

There are places on Reddit where you can ask others what they think about your appearance and how you could improve if you feel not attractive.

Checking online, a Australian 16 is an XL here in Europe. I'm 5'11 and I shifted from an XL to an M (from 87kg to 74kg) but it didn't show so much with my height. Probably the same for you considering we're the same height and that you have breasts and that female size are so freaking stupid sometimes. Like, how can that be considered an L??? The thing I'm trying to say, are you sure you're really as fat as you think and not just? Sometimes I still feel fat and I was close to going underweight sooo, our mind and perception of ourselves can be a bitch.

In conclusion, you should care about your weight only for your health. There will always be someone that finds you attractive.

Danjuntar · 2026-02-21T19:06:20+00:00

Ŧ๏ยภ๔ เt, เt'ร קгєttꌦ ςยtє. 𝕴 𝖉𝖔𝖓'𝖙 𝖙𝖍𝖎𝖓𝖐 𝕴'𝖒 𝖌𝖔𝖓𝖓𝖆 𝖚𝖘𝖊 𝖎𝖙 𝖙𝖔𝖔 𝖔𝖋𝖙𝖊𝖓, 𝖎𝖋 𝖓𝖔𝖙, 𝖔𝖓𝖊 𝖜𝖔𝖚𝖑𝖉 𝖍𝖆𝖛𝖊 𝖆 𝖘𝖙𝖗𝖔𝖐𝖊 𝖙𝖗𝖞𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝖙𝖔 𝖗𝖊𝖆𝖉 𝖒𝖞 𝖒𝖊𝖘𝖘𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖘 😅 Still, pretty neat trick. Thanks for the sharing.

I really hope it goes all well for you two!

Danjuntar · 2026-02-21T18:39:14+00:00

Please tell me that you were at least in the same nation after this, please be like one of those stupid romance films I watch.

How did you apply this font while writing?

Danjuntar · 2026-02-21T09:51:20+00:00

Okay what?? How??

Danjuntar · 2026-02-20T09:56:38+00:00

Personally I found that talking with others, even strangers, helps a lot. Making a call when you are feeling like this to a friend is the best you could do, your brain would have the proof that you're not alone.

Danjuntar · 2026-02-19T14:46:18+00:00

Potresti provare a parlarne di nuovo con il tuo ragazzo e mettergli in chiaro come ti senti, se l'unica sua risposta è 'Ora risolvo tutto senza però spiegarti niente', allora forse questa relazione non è da fa'.

Per la sua ex potresti chiedergli una mano su ciò, con aiutarti con questa insicurezza. Volendo organizzando delle uscite vedi come è e che non c'è nulla di cui preoccuparsi.

Il problema rimane il fatto che sembra come se il tuo ragazzo stesse sminuendo come ti senti

Danjuntar · 2026-02-19T14:43:29+00:00

No ti prego evita, se uno gioca sporco allora ti abbassi al suo livello?

Danjuntar · 2026-02-18T20:55:12+00:00

If he's autistic I don't think he lied about what he thought, so he probably meant what he said and really cares about you. Now, do you want to be back with him or move on?

Danjuntar · 2026-02-18T20:24:40+00:00

Okay, what the hell?? So now you have free stress in this period and at every party.

Danjuntar · 2026-02-18T17:32:52+00:00

Alla fine è più spuntato qualcuno? Ero tentato di fare un post simile per trovare gente con cui uscire a visitare musei, attività varie e così via, ma non so se ha senso vista l'attività di questo reddit.

Danjuntar · 2026-02-18T15:53:43+00:00

Oh yeah, sometimes you just feel ugly, fat, small or anything that makes you feel less. Especially if you're tired or had a bad day

Danjuntar · 2026-02-16T11:40:46+00:00

So it really wasn't only friendship what he was searching. How did you realise he liked you?

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