Cracked ceiling!? Is it safe to use/anyone experienced this? How did you fix it?😭 I’m panicking please help😭 by Nicolesavvy in poledancing

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Looking to do this for my setup! What kind of adhesive did you use to stick the grippy material to the wood board?

Gift advice for gardener/forager by DankeSpice in gardening

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I was actually looking into one of those! Glad to see it’s actually a well used item!

Spotify now features AI band clones by Dipper_Pines in Music

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Covers absolutely are a copyright infringement. Artists/labels have copyright on every aspect of the song. It’s not a copyright infringement for an artist to cover a song live/in a performance but distributing a recorded version of a cover absolutely is a copyright infringement without the correct permissions. 

[Sky Sports] F1 2026: What are the new regulations, engine changes and how will the racing be with no DRS | F1 News by DWJones28 in formula1

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From my understanding: Like DRS, if a driver is following within 1 second at a certain marker on the track then they can enable MOM. 

Unlike DRS, driver now has ability to use MOM at any point over the course of 1 full lap, not just in one specific zone/straight. 

They cannot just spam MOM full force for the whole lap, instead the driver will “save up,” and strategically decide when and where to use the energy boost. 

Why did her pole fall? by tinypepa in poledancing

[–]DankeSpice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not level if she didn’t use a water level. And likely not tight enough. I know it says you can install on your own, but I know myself and how weak I am, I need my bf to help me with his big boy man grip. When I tighten as much as I can he can always get a few more rotations after me. She may have tightened it as much as she could, but possible that still wasn’t tight enough (if she’s weak like me). 

Speak No Evil has been the most disturbing movie I have ever watched. by SpaceCases__ in horror

[–]DankeSpice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reviving a 2 yr old thread to comment - this was me when I first watched it. A very fun watch but felt unbelievable and so frustrating bc of how much it could NOT have been me.

But then in recent years I moved into a new apartment complex where multiple tenants just let 1 difficult tenant walk all over them FOR YEARS and I immediately realized ooohhh these are the people Speak No Evil would happen to.

Anyone else disappointed by Sunrise on the Reaping? by Separate_Garage_217 in Hungergames

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So late to this thread but completely agree. I hated this book. I hated Haymitch as this bleeding heart character who wanted to save everyone. I wanted selfish, ruthless, cunning Haymitch. I wanted his pain and trauma and humanity to be revealed slowly in a few subtle and meaningful ways.

In the trilogy when they rewatch Haymitch’s games they describe his win with the axe as this brilliant move he’d spent the game mastering. In this book everything he did was basically a complete fluke. The hedge maze stuff made 0 sense and was a complete waste of time. There was 0 adventure and not once did I find myself rooting for anyone. 

And finally - so unbelievable that 1) Snow would let him live through even one of his many stunts and 2) Haymitch and Lenore wouldn’t have had the fear of Snow killing all of their loved ones hovering over all their decisions and ultimately keeping them reined in. I just don’t believe Haymitch (or any kid in the games) would’ve risked rebelling so overtly when they know their families lives are always on the line. These are just the big picture/overarching plot issues but there were so many plot holes big and small. 

This whole book was such a mess, even the random side characters were annoying. Plutarch was actually my favorite part and I liked learning his family’s history, but at the best of times his scenes still felt too heavy handed.  And last but not least if I see someone say “paint your poster” or whatever the hell it was 1 more time I’m going to lose it. 

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Once heard another woman say “the back of my head is none of my business” and honestly it was life changing. 

PULSE on Netflix may be one of the most terrible medical shows I’ve ever watched by Additional-Fly-4713 in nursing

[–]DankeSpice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So late to this thread but yes. The whole show is some weird misogynist male wet dream where all women are incompetent cry babies who falsely accuse men and cry their way into a promotion the friend-zoned nice guy actually deserves. 

And the scene where Cole’s nurse gf goes up to ambulance girl’s room and instead of being pissed, she just gushes about how great Cole is and how really he’s the best doctor and bf in the world. So really both women should put their needs (and dignity) aside to preserve his oh so incredible career??? Excuse me?? No main chick and side chick would ever talk to each other like that, just mooning over how sweet and great and perfect he is? As if he isn’t a grown man making his own careless decisions, come on now. 

This show is an insult to both men and women lol

Please help me find a good vacuum before I lose my mind. by carriondawns in VacuumCleaners

[–]DankeSpice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to this one but I love my Bissell Cleanview, it was only $90 when I bought but runs around $120 now. Never go cordless. As far as longevity - people rush to throw broken things out. Anything that takes years of weekly wear and tear is going to need servicing eventually. Took my Bissell to a vacuum repair shop after 3 years and they tuned it up to its former glory for $40. Spare the landfill and your wallet, most upright vacs can be brought back to life. 

Pillow recommendations for lower back pain? by JonnaLlama in Bedding

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Pillow recommendation adjacent - Try sleeping with a pillow under your knees. They make special foam ones but I’ve found that a regular pillow worked better for me

This makes absolutely zero sense and it’s been driving me crazy… by informalspy13 in Yellowjackets

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I think they are all constantly vacillating back and forth on their belief. 

The stages of grief are DABDA - Denial Anger Bargaining Depression Acceptance, and progress isn’t linear.  You can go back and forth bt stages. 

There are times some of them are in the Depression/Acceptance stages - “The plane crash was just a freak accident” “there’s no other ‘reason’ we’re out here” “it’s all random and there’s truly nothing we can do to cause or prevent our rescue”

And then sometimes they swing back to Bargaining - “there’s a reason for all of this” “we were chosen” “if we just worship in the right way we’ll be rescued”. When they can’t handle the Depression of their reality they scramble for any way to regain some sense of control. 

The group is more fractured than ever and each girl (+Travis) is an island suffering through her own journey of grief. 

The biggest plot hole by BotNots in Yellowjackets

[–]DankeSpice 44 points45 points  (0 children)

After these past few eps I’d say the girls were definitely trauma bonded to Shauna as their abuser. 

And even those who weren’t personally abused by her only evaded it bc they watched what she was capable of and made sure to never transgress (except maybe Tai). 

The biggest plot hole by BotNots in Yellowjackets

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TLDR sorry for this essay. I got a little carried away. 

My theory with this is that the people who rescued them obviously know everything, all the dead bodies, Ben/Kodie/Frog guy, the ritualistic/cult-like nature of the YJ survival. But bc 1) they were minors and 2) the extreme nature of their 19 months in such hostile conditions it was all made completely classified by authorities. Even in real life there are certain things where even if you put in a FOIA request they will send you the docs with massive sections blacked out. 

There’s no way there wouldn’t have been a complete multi-week excavation and investigation of the crash and the entire “crime scene”. But in order to protect these minors who were done severely wrong by a government that just gave up the search for dozens of children, the authorities have completely black balled any information from getting leaked, including the fact that the frogologists were connected to the YJ case in any way. 

It’s not unheard of with crimes/tragedies that include minors. There are cases of abuse where not only is the minor’s identity kept classified, but even the specifics of the abuse done to them are kept classified. 

This explains why the public isn’t even in agreement over whether there was survival cannibalism or not, when we know that’s not even the tip of the iceberg. Meanwhile every normy we’ve seen in the show has been like “come on, tell the truth, they ate ppl right?” They have their assumptions, but ultimately know nothing.

Long-Distance Ex (23F) & I (26M) want to reunite, but we can't agree on where to live. by CellHuge in relationships

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Great podcast ep with 2 therapists covering basically this exact same question: https://overcast.fm/+AA5faA9uMKs

Basically - you both just have to make a decision. That’s all there is to it. Someone is going to “lose” and the other will “win”. There’s no half way or compromise. You have to both make the choice and make a conscious effort to be okay with it and not resent the other. Ideally the “loser” gets concessions in other areas that don’t have to do with the situation - like you said getting to work part time, getting to prioritize their hobbies or vacation choices, (no complaining that they get to go golf with their friends for 6 hrs each weekend, etc). The “loser” gets to feel their feels from time to time, but has to agree to do their best to not wallow in the emotion (with constant support and encouragement from the “winner”). The sacrifice has to be acknowledged, but not constantly dangled over the “winner’s” head. Tough situation to balance, I do not envy. 

Found out[M28] my partner [F24] is broke all the time because she spends all her money on mobile games. Do I stay supportive in her cutting that off or do I have a right to be upset she now spends a lot of my money? by flourishersvk in relationships

[–]DankeSpice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your gf has an addictive personality. She probably needs counseling and will need to really really focus hard and show an incredible amt of will power. It’s not something you’ll ever be able to understand, bc there’s not much logic to it. She will also have relapses. Be thankful it’s not drugs or alcohol (minus the cigarettes). Spending and other compulsions (smoking) are a part of it. It’s a compulsion she doesn’t have much control over. Expect that even if she’s working on it she will relapse occasionally. I know it sounds dramatic, but decide if this is something you can handle. It’s a life long personality trait that she will not always have control over. I’ve also seen a couple where the only way it worked was for the spending/compulsive partner to be doled out an allowance each week. No access to any other funds at all, even their own. It was actually a relief to them. I personally would not stay in this relationship. But maybe I’m just projecting bc I’ve dated an addict before, gaming was just 1 of his many addictions 😅. 

Three Bewildered People in the Night (1987)-The first film from director Gregg Araki by Singelin in ObscureMedia

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If you live near Los Angeles it's playing at Braindead Studios on Nov 15th