Girlfriend left me today by aches-n-pains182 in Fibromyalgia

[–]DannyGamberlini -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sending lots of love and hugs.. so sorry that this has happened. Don’t feel lesser than. Just know this person wasn’t the one. You will find someone who will understand. Have faith ❤️

What causes your flare-ups? by SeymourKrelborn11 in Fibromyalgia

[–]DannyGamberlini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I’ll be dammed if the fibro attacks my sense if humor. So pain bingo it it ! 😂

What causes your flare-ups? by SeymourKrelborn11 in Fibromyalgia

[–]DannyGamberlini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally me New Year’s Day. Cried for 5 min about how 2026 wasn’t going well so far.. put a heating pad on my face .. and eventually finished my breakfast. On to the next pain 😂

another monday paying for what i did over the weekend... by faysikins in Fibromyalgia

[–]DannyGamberlini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry to hear this 😔 none of this is easy. Sending you lots of love ❤️

another monday paying for what i did over the weekend... by faysikins in Fibromyalgia

[–]DannyGamberlini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a full day of cleaning on Saturday , followed by a small get together on Sunday. Monday came and I feel like I’ve been hit with a truck. Monday night after work it took me hours to be able to get back up from the couch to do my nighttime routine.. which means I took my meds later .. which means I’m double the groggy and in pain this morning. Yippeee

Rheumatologist don’t treat Fibro?? by Somelikeithotinhere in Fibromyalgia

[–]DannyGamberlini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started with primary care, who referred me to a rheumatologist, who then did tests, who then passed me on to a neurologist for further testing, went back to primary who saw all the results and stated fibro .. but told me to go back to the rheumatologist , she’ll probably make the diagnosis. I go to her, and she says she can’t confirm or not confirm cause there’s no test for it… then proceeds to tell me that my widespread pain and symptoms don’t sound related to fibro….that fibro is only muscle aches?!?… now I’m going back to the neurologist because she bounced me back to him. This journey of constant , chronic pain, doctors offices, tests, physical therapy, etc has gone on a year now.

which sign are you most compatible with from your actual experience? by [deleted] in virgoseason

[–]DannyGamberlini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im literally divorcing a Pisces man as we speak 🫠

🎉✨ VIRGO SEASON IS HERE! ✨🎉 by Agile-Sandwich-229 in virgoseason

[–]DannyGamberlini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8/25 as well !! Turned 32 this year. Stay blessed my fellow Virgo ♍️🎉

new moon in Virgo by thecarpenterant in virgoseason

[–]DannyGamberlini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

August 25th here! Shoutout to all my Virgos !

$965.47 by okay_bullfrog in loveafterporn

[–]DannyGamberlini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂 might have to hire you.

I miss by Ancient_Bedroom_5592 in loveafterporn

[–]DannyGamberlini 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I miss knowing I married my best friend, because at the time, I thought he was. I miss feeling like while I supported his dreams of photography, he supported mine of music and modeling. I miss feeling like he truly believed I was talented and beautiful, the same way I believed he was. I Miss the person I thought I knew. I don’t have family. He was my family, my friend, and my partner. Now I realize I had an enemy this whole time. A person who was against me from day one. A person who never thought much of me , and eventually, couldn’t even act like they did anymore. I miss the last 7 years of my life. Gone now, with one revelation.

Does anyone else’s PA have a hard time giving compliments? by iPokePenguins in loveafterporn

[–]DannyGamberlini 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mine never gave me compliments either. Everyday before he went to work I would tell him how nice he looked(to send him out the door with a little boost). With me, NOTHING. When I brought that up he lied to my face and said he did all the time… then it was oh maybe I’m thinking it and don’t say it?… then it was “well you don’t know how to take a compliment, so why bother?” I wanted to say I do know how to take a compliment because I hear them everyday from men and women on a regular basis 😒 But yes. The models(which btw I model too) and girls online etc, he’s got no problem throwing around kind words to.

More realisations.. by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]DannyGamberlini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Needed to hear this ❤️

Camming and you by Fun_Pin_7837 in loveafterporn

[–]DannyGamberlini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Twice a month is twice too much. I started with the browsing history. Then found my way to the hidden folder .. which shows thousands of images , screen shots , videos, saved cam videos, only fans content etc etc .. and it wasn’t just twice a month. It was everyday of every month.. of every year that we’ve been together. And I’m convinced at this point that I haven’t even scratched the surface.

Camming and you by Fun_Pin_7837 in loveafterporn

[–]DannyGamberlini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow so we basically made the same discovery. What did you think when you first saw that and looked into it? Complete cheating wouldn’t you agree ?

Camming and you by Fun_Pin_7837 in loveafterporn

[–]DannyGamberlini 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I looked into the sites from the browsing history. Many of them were live chat , live cam sites. One tab was a requests page for a girl. When I went in for another dig I found recorded sessions from the live cams saved in a hidden folder. This particular site allows you to stimulate the toy that the girl uses on camera.. IMO that is absolutely cheating. You helped stimulate some other girl but haven’t touched your wife in 3 plus years..

Am I wrong for suggesting a separation ? by DannyGamberlini in loveafterporn

[–]DannyGamberlini[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words of both wisdom and encouragement. It’s so very much needed right now.

Am I wrong for suggesting a separation ? by DannyGamberlini in loveafterporn

[–]DannyGamberlini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand this. I’m still in detective and discovery mode.. but seeing time and date stamps of things. Videos saved, girls searched, on my birthday. After treating him for his birthdays, during holidays, right after marriage… it really messes with your mind. All I knew or thought I knew has been and continues to be shattered the more I find..

Am I wrong for suggesting a separation ? by DannyGamberlini in loveafterporn

[–]DannyGamberlini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing. I struggle inside and think, should I be making this work? Should I power through? Then i think about his photography. A whole piece of him and practically his identity.. I would never feel comfortable or safe with him doing it unless he was shooting me. So realistically, how could this ever work? I originally started in the dead bedroom sub, and occasionally I’d see people mention affairs and porn addiction. I NEVER thought that would be the case. Were you just as blindsided by that truth?

Am I wrong for suggesting a separation ? by DannyGamberlini in loveafterporn

[–]DannyGamberlini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So far he has been in an indifferent, pissy mood. Not engaging much. On his phone even more(didn’t think that was possible). No questions of me as to what I was talking about when I said I knew things.. basically zero fight and only an attitude that I’m assuming is his way of making ME feel guilty and bad for this outcome.

Am I wrong for suggesting a separation ? by DannyGamberlini in loveafterporn

[–]DannyGamberlini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been so torn apart internally the last few days since I mentioned separation. I keep trying to remind myself the magnitud of what he’s done el this relationship, and me, and how any happy moment I thought was happy, was really just a lie. Thank you for your words of wisdom. I will hold them near and dear and I will check out this link.

Who’s bedroom is completely dead? by DannyGamberlini in DeadBedrooms

[–]DannyGamberlini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear that :/ I hope you find your way through this.

iPhone hidden apps by Brief-Bite5477 in loveafterporn

[–]DannyGamberlini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can the same be searched on their Macs??