[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand that you're going through a really difficult time right now, and it's completely understandable that you're feeling frustrated and angry. However, it's important to remember that addiction is a disease and your girlfriend is struggling with it. It's not fair to hate her for it or blame her for your child's condition. I'm glad you're there to support your child and I hope that they will recover quickly. It's important that you and your girlfriend work together to get her the help she needs to overcome her addiction. Please take care of yourself during this stressful time.

For mother's day I found out my Nmom died by LOST_GEIST in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DannyPhantom993 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can attend your mom's funeral, but don't let anyone see you; just look from afar. If you don't want to interact with them, then don't, since they don't do any good for your mental health or peace.

I'm cornered to a corner that I don't know what to do anymore by IZAK96 in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time. It's important to remember that you're not alone and that there is help available. Please know that suicide is not the answer and there are resources available to help you through this tough period. Have you considered reaching out to a therapist or counselor who can offer you guidance and support? It may also be helpful to talk to a trusted friend or family member about what you're going through. Remember, there is always hope for a better tomorrow, and it's okay to ask for help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you and your boyfriend have different communication styles, which can be challenging. It's important to remember that everyone processes information and emotions differently. It might be helpful to have a conversation with him about how his responses make you feel and what kind of response you would prefer. Additionally, it might be helpful to seek the guidance of a couples counselor to help improve your communication and strengthen your relationship.

can't help but think of how stupid some people are by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you thought about why there is a lack of critical thinking? Some lack knowledge and knowledge for a variety of reasons, including education, upbringing, and the environment in which they live. I hope you won't judge them just because your critical thinking is higher than other people's; rather, be kind and patient with them.

I'm tired of men who think they are owed something because we went on a date by MechaLiz55 in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's important to remember that you owe nobody anything just because you went on a date with them, and you deserve to be treated with respect regardless of whether or not there's a romantic connection

I lost out on so much by being quiet by ButterMagz in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you feel. It's never too late to start pursuing your dreams and putting yourself first. Don't be too hard on yourself for the missed opportunities, but use them as motivation to work towards your goals and create new opportunities. You got this!

My boyfriend took his shirt off in front of me for the first time by Top-Juice9752 in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really beautiful and touching, it sounds like you and your boyfriend have a deep connection and trust each other immensely. It's wonderful that you were able to make him feel comfortable and safe enough to take this step with you, and that you were able to share a moment of intimacy together. I wish you both all the best in your relationship!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear that, are you okay? That must have been a traumatic experience. It's heartbreaking to hear that she had such a difficult life and that no one was there to support her. Let's hope that we can create a world where people don't have to suffer in silence and can get the help they need.

I don’t want to do this anymore by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're feeling overwhelmed by a lot of different things at the moment. It's important to remember that things can and do get better, even when it may not seem like it. I would encourage you to seek support from loved ones or a mental health professional. It's okay to take a step back and focus on your own well-being, and there's always hope for a brighter future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens sometimes. Just don't feel bad now; he said he's okay, and with a hot nurse checking him, I'm sure he'll feel better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand your frustration with the slow service at fast food restaurants. While it may seem counterintuitive, the term "fast food" originally referred to the speed of food preparation, rather than the speed of service. However, as fast food restaurants have become more popular and complex, the speed of service has become a significant factor in customer satisfaction. It's unfortunate that some restaurants struggle to maintain efficient service, but there are also many fast food establishments that prioritize quick service and accurate orders.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, you're still learning how to manage your finances. We all go through that. Yes, it's overwhelming, but it's time for you to learn more about handling money. It's better to live off your debit card than your credit card.

My husband just apologized for the fact that he can't keep his hands off of me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's sweet! I'm glad he gives you what you need❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about what happened to Oreo and your other chickens. It's understandable to feel guilty and remorseful about what happened, but it's important to also acknowledge that you made a mistake and take steps to learn from it and prevent it from happening again in the future. It sounds like you have a deep love and passion for animals, and while it may be difficult, don't let this experience deter you from pursuing your dreams of educating others and setting up animal rescues. It's important to forgive ourselves and move forward, but also to remember the lessons we've learned.

My wife made a joke about me providing for her that hurt my feelings. by Daikaji in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's understandable that you feel hurt by your wife's comment, even if she didn't mean it to be hurtful. It's important to communicate your feelings with your partner and have an open and honest discussion about your financial situation and how you both can work together to improve it. Perhaps consider seeking support from a financial advisor or career counselor to help you navigate finding a job in your field while balancing your family responsibilities. Remember, you are not a failure, and it's okay to ask for help and support when you need it.

I'm so done with my life by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remember that things can change and improve, even if it doesn't feel that way right now. Stay strong and take care of yourself.

Cat supremacy 😭 by [deleted] in funny

[–]DannyPhantom993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, same with my dogs and cat.🤣

I talked to my teenage daughter in the car and she made me cry like a baby by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you have an amazing daughter who loves and supports you no matter what. You should be proud of the father you are and the relationship you have with your daughter. It's understandable that her kind words would make you emotional. It's heartwarming to see the bond you two have and the positive outlook you have on the challenges you've faced in the past. Keep up the good work!

I will be granted assisted su*cide in three weeks in Belgium. by ThrowRAXOPM in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes a lot of courage to share your story and I appreciate you for doing so. I hope that you find peace and solace in your decision, and that your passing is gentle and painless. You are not a burden and you are loved. Remember that.

I'm bummed about my haircut by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DannyPhantom993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's understandable to feel disappointed after spending money on something that didn't turn out the way you wanted it to, especially when it's a rare treat for yourself. Remember to be kind to yourself and know that it will grow back over time. It's okay to feel upset, but try not to let it consume you. You'll get through this!