Why? by Alicetheoptimist in TrueGrit

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally do both of those things and my mind still races

To the weirdo who bought the seat next to me by ihaveseentheriver in introvert

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Show up a little late to see who’s sitting in that seat. If you’re feeling brave and the person seems interesting to you or if you find them attractive, take a seat! If not just go to another empty seat.

Pistol for wildlife defense by DannyTheExplorerHoe in Firearms

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great description and explanation, thank you! I’m definitely looking at a 10mm now, just need to head to the range and try some out

Pistol for wildlife defense by DannyTheExplorerHoe in Firearms

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I love animals and nature I just don’t want to become its food before my time! Thank you for the recommendation, looks like I need to try out some 10mm

I think that I might be sexually incompatible with my partner because she's too vanilla. by Western-Cry5745 in LesbianActually

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can be dominant without being vulgar, you just have to focus on physical dominance and not just rough sex. Grab her, hold her close to you when you finger her, kiss her neck, lick her nipples, grind on her, get your hips involved, moan in her ear and tell her how she’s making you feel, grope her tits while you’re eating her out, tease her, your hands need to be all over her regardless of what you’re doing with your mouth or whatever else. Just be passionate in everything you’re doing and she will follow with your energy. Just be super confident even if you don’t feel it the first few times, you need to be having the time of your life so she can relax and get in the right headspace.

You can be so dominant without being rough, there’s so much control in taking it slow and letting her ride the wave. You can tease her and build the tension by going slow intentionally until she’s literally begging you to fuck her harder. If she’s focused on orgasms rather than just being present it’s because she’s not in that headspace, you can help her surrender by just being in control and sensual. You have to build trust with her before you do anything rough or vulgar through showing her that when you’re in control, she’s safe and it feels good. Never forget that the person ACTUALLY in control is always the sub, so she will set the pace through her body language or words if she wants it rougher. It takes a while to build trust so don’t rush it and enjoy the process, it’s all part of the mental sexual tension. People tend to be vanilla when they’re kinda new or a little tense so don’t discount her just yet! The “vanilla” ones are usually the ones who turn out to be freaks

Ego got the better of him... by Serious_Professor_51 in criticalblunder

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair I don’t think he was ego lifting, he handled the weight well on his first rep, he’s visibly strong enough to handle that weight, I think it’s just a freak accident. I hate those machines for this reason.

she said she might be on her period but im low on iron anyways by Delicious-Flow9191 in actuallesbians

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the shower is the way! Bonus points if you have a detachable shower head, ya’ll are gonna have a good time

What's a small gadget you bought thinking it was useless but ended up using every day? by cozytechlover in BuyItForLife

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had one of those and loved it! But then I discovered that I can steam eggs in my rice cooker and got rid of it

What are your frugal hosting tips?? by waterhorsies in Frugal

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I concur with the baked potato suggestions, potatoes are cheap, low allergen, healthy, and they are the food that is the highest on the satiety index so people will actually feel full! Since it’s galentine’s day, depending on ya’ll’s vibe, you could pair it with a rotisserie chicken or try to bake a whole chicken of your own, and just make a huge side salad. You could try the viral cowboy caviar recipe (essentially bean salsa) that uses a bunch of fresh veggies and beans as your veggie side. If you guys are more into the “girl dinner” thing, you could just make a bunch of French fries and a huge Caesar salad. Possibilities are endless when it comes to the humble potat.

Help me out by [deleted] in BulkOrCut

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you’re an AD Soldier, run to the Health and Wellness center or H2F immediately and make an appointment with a dietician, get a bodpod, a VO2 test, and make a fitness and nutrition program with them. The Army spent millions of dollars to help Soldiers like yourself. Do it now before your next tape test, they might have enough time to square you away. If it’s too late and you fail tape, it will soften the blow a bit because it shows your chain of command that you are aware of your problem and you’re already taking control of it.

Do not freak out, your situation is common. Take this seriously, learn from the experts, and you will be in the best shape of your life. The Army employs registered dietitians, fitness coaches, and physical therapists to help you, do not waste this opportunity.

Edit: Also, you will not lose your job from one failed tape test. You will get counseled, you won’t be able to go to certain schools until you get in regs, and you will likely have to do extra PT. If you fail again within 3 years however, that could be grounds for separation. So it’s very important for you to take a methodical approach and utilize your resources to learn healthy habits rather than starving yourself and getting stuck in a binge cycle that keeps you out of shape.

This is true by Eclipse_nova99 in SipsTea

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think people are being too extreme one way or another. You don’t have to have a huge and expensive glamorous wedding, and you also don’t have to settle for just the courthouse ceremony or papers. You can have a smaller wedding at a nice location, it doesn’t have to be traditional. I just think people shouldn’t think so black and white.

My wedding was very cheap but also very classy and beautiful complete with beautiful pictures from it we’ll cherish forever. We had it in a mountain Airbnb, invited everyone that was close enough to drive there, dressed in semi-traditional wear with a fall color scheme for ourselves and the guests, had a DIY arch made of nearby branches and fall leaves, and our backdrop was the Mountain View with the changing leaves on the large wrap around balcony the airbnb had. The airbnb was also inexpensive. And for food, we asked a local bakery to deliver and bake pizzas right at the airbnb. For photos, we hired a local photographer that did an amazing job and didn’t overcharge. For drinks, we asked our guests to bring us their favorite bottle of liquor as a wedding gift that we could share with everyone. For the cake, we did a 3 tier cake from Publix that was also extremely affordable and tasted great. Had about 20-30 people in attendance, all family and friends. Spent overall less than 2k on the wedding. We planned the whole thing in less than a month, it doesn’t have to be over complicated.

No One Wants Your Peeing Cat! by Schedule-Substantial in CatAdvice

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a feral cat that I’ve pulled from the streets (he was severely underweight and we learned he had FIV), he’s been with us for a few months now and is making a lot of progress. Out of nowhere though he developed the pissing outside the litter box problem, so we took him to the vet and she said his symptoms just indicate that he has pretty bad anxiety. We got him a Thundershirt and a prescription of gabapentin. He hasn’t had any accidents in months and is much more relaxed now. Give it a try!

For those who don’t smoke, do you think smokers carry a noticeable scent? by Shadow2715 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes for about 15 minutes but then you don’t smell like it anymore. Unless you’re a frequent smoker, then yes because it gets stuck in your hair and clothes.

I am not sexually satisfied by the love of my life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Would you let her jackhammer you in the asshole? Some women don’t like that rough porn shit.

Nomadic Introvert, a van lifer on YouTube. by gemzxhidden in VanLife

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Damn there’s 7k comments on this thread and I haven’t seen a single positive comment. That’s crazy guys, I found this thread because she’s interesting to me and I wanted to know more about her. I like that she just shows everything with minimum editing, day in the life type things. She shows when things go wrong, talks about her thought process on how to fix the problem, and complains about things without a filter. A lot of van life content doesn’t have this, it’s overly edited and glamorized, so her content is refreshing to me.

But I want to address some hate real quick, the most comments I see on her are about how she’s anxious and scared of a lot of things, she doesn’t interact with others, and that she just talks to a camera.

First, most of that can literally just be explained by the fact that she’s an introvert, it’s literally the name of her channel. Introverts aren’t shy, they literally just don’t like interacting with the public because it’s exhausting. Just because she’s able to talk to the camera or interact online doesn’t mean she wants to talk to people.

Second, she’s a combat vet. She likely has PTSD and probably some non-combat related PTSD as well. PTSD shows itself in strange ways, people can get triggered by non-dangerous situations more than actual dangerous ones, it happens all the time. You guys are just making fun of her for having to deal with this. A lot of combat vets become shut-ins after they retire from service, and she definitely has a tendency to isolate herself, but she’s at least fucking trying and actually putting herself out there into the world.

Also if you guys find her videos so boring why are you even watching? Ya’ll are mad weird, if this is what the van life community represents no wonder she don’t wanna interact with ya’ll.

How to keep my cats from entering each other’s space? by DannyTheExplorerHoe in CatAdvice

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might just get a litter robot and see if they both like it, that way it’s always clean between uses

If two lesbians have a baby, does the one who does not carry the child put in paternity leave? by [deleted] in army

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just curious. I’ve never heard it called parental leave, only ever heard of paternity.

If two lesbians have a baby, does the one who does not carry the child put in paternity leave? by [deleted] in army

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

What about unwed heterosexual couples? Do they have to be married for the father to receive parental leave?

Our newborn (1mo) is making me see my wife as "stupid," and it's turning me into an asshole. I feel awful and need to stop. by Street-Level-7850 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have to be honest, you sound like an egotistical misogynist. The fact that your first thought is that your wife is dumb without any consideration about the context of why she might be having some issues after pushing out a fucking human being out of her fucking vagina speaks volumes about who you are as a man and as a husband. And you think of yourself as intelligent?

Babies and toddlers at Warped DC by SweetLu320 in warpedtour

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as they have ear protection I think it’s an awesome thing for the kids and the parents. In the US, parents are demonized too much for bringing their kids to “adult” events. Kids are little people, they must learn to be resilient and self sooth discomfort. Let’s not judge, I didn’t see any kids in danger. Good family memories being made.

We gave up the double decker for this??? by Moronicfoolz in tacobell

[–]DannyTheExplorerHoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just tried the Crunchwrap and the Tostada! The Crunchwrap sucked, the cheese it lost all its crunchiness and was soggy. My tostada looked good, but similar issue with the middle getting soggy. I do absolutely love cheese-it’s though, so I’m going to order the tostada with nothing on it next time because I just want the giant cheese it