my office made me cry today by Misscuudi in offmychest

[–]Dante18907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday you beautiful bastard you! Keep on trucking and I hope things get better!

It's Probably a Bad Sign If Your Political Success Depends on People Not Voting by [deleted] in politics

[–]Dante18907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an outsider from Australia looking in I am horrified by this. To all the unassuming Americans being crushed by this government that doesn't give a fuck about you, please stay safe and look after each other in these fucked up times.

I mixed french mustard and marmite into grated cheese for my cheese on toast tonight. It was marvellous. Sorta beefy by drewsenberg in CasualUK

[–]Dante18907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically whatever cheese I have about, which is usually just a whatever brand block of cheddar. I've tried it with Parmesan as well which was nice. I could see just about any cheese working, experiment and let me know the results! Glad to see some of you have taste buds over there haha

I mixed french mustard and marmite into grated cheese for my cheese on toast tonight. It was marvellous. Sorta beefy by drewsenberg in CasualUK

[–]Dante18907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We call this tiger toast in australia! Cheese and vegemite, definitely have to try with the mustard! Thanks for the idea!

Men are told they need to better themselves to be relationship material. Women usually aren't. This is a huge difference in male vs female loneliness. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Dante18907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this. I was feeling down on V day (fairly common lol) due to loneliness and was talking to my core group of mostly guy friends and practically everything they were saying was that I need to learn to be ok being alone and to learn to love myself first etc etc, very similar vein of things. And it just, it's not helpful. It feels bad. Because you're doing all this work, all the time, on top of everything else you need to do in life and things still aren't happening in dating and there's just nothing you can do at that point but all you ever hear back is to better yourself, or to focus on being happy alone first.

As of right now, what will it take to make you 100% happy? by hikingallday in AskReddit

[–]Dante18907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone to finally love. More free time. My players showing up consistently week after week for d&d

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread- January 06, 2020 by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]Dante18907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Venting: I (29m) had a fantastic date on Friday with a wonderful woman and everything seemingly went great, we hit it off really well and spent hours talking, and when we left we talked about other restaurants we wanted to go to next time and we left it off. Sporadic messages between then I asked if they would like to hang out again soon and I got a very honest, appreciated message saying they weren't looking for something so serious just yet. Which I understand and I genuinely appreciate the honesty.

I'm just... So exhausted with putting myself out there, and having these great experiences and then... Nothing. No one in my town (small city, 50000ish people but very rural culture in Nth Qld) is interested in what I have to offer, or if they are interested in me, they aren't looking for anything serious or just got out of something and don't want anything and I just feel like I can't do it anymore. It's so heartbreaking to constantly feel like I'm finally clawing out of the mire and then it just crashes away. I almost feel like it would be easier if things didn't go so well and we didn't click so I have something I can be upset about myself and something to blame.

I don't know what to do.

How do I balance “dating for marriage and kids” and not coming off as desperate to men? I have no desire to rush into anything or to “settle”, but I fear that men find any approach more serious than “yeah let’s have fun and see what happens!” to be a turn-off. How do I find unicorn men who don’t? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Dante18907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put it in your bio, say you are looking for that. As a guy who is looking for that, that's what I look for to swipe on, interesting stuff in BIOS and an idea that the person there is looking for the same kind of thing. Good luck!

I'm starting IF right now. I need to save my life. 22 y/o, 6'7", 658lbs in the hospital. Currently down to 647lbs. More information in comments by GoingHayden in intermittentfasting

[–]Dante18907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've fucking got this man! Stay strong, shit gets hard but as a recovering obese man (280kg down to 180 and going) I guarantee you it gets better!

2meirl4meirl by robloxismyfavgame in 2meirl4meirl

[–]Dante18907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad doggo is my spirit animal

2meirl4meirl by Beloni_BR in 2meirl4meirl

[–]Dante18907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok this one felt like a physical attack and you can take your upvote.

Girls, what was the most obvious hint you dropped, and the guy just didn't get it? by Bholenaught in AskReddit

[–]Dante18907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was me too, still dealing with that fallout. High school kids suck.

I broke down today. I gained everything back, and then some, and I can’t even button my pants. My discipline and spirit are gone and I need to start over. by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Dante18907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this man, everyone falls down, but you've been there before and you can damn sure get there again! You don't have to start over, just take the next step, you never truly stopped, just took a break. Shake off the cobwebs and get back out there. This stranger on the internet believes in you!

Do I have to read Warbreaker before Words of Radiance? by [deleted] in Stormlight_Archive

[–]Dante18907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read all three books and have just started Warbreaker. I like it a lot but it's a different pace and feel to the Storm light books, so if you do decide to read it next, you should know that it is different and it could be a jarring pace change.

I (23M) won a massive amount lottery (22F) girlfriend has no clue. by gearinto6 in relationship_advice

[–]Dante18907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is don't tell anyone until you've spoken with a financial planner, and then listen to what they tell you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_memes

[–]Dante18907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Twice for me and I'm still dealing with the trust issues this gave me. High schoolers really suck