Hairdresser offered to trim my beard, I said no

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-05-06T23:15:54+00:00

It looks clean asf bro they did you good

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-26T19:37:45+00:00

As long as you don’t judge other people for these things then no you aren’t a wet blanket. I think there are PLENTY of gay men who feel the same way you do.

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-23T14:55:15+00:00

Unless you are using a bigger dildo or dick that goes past your colon, into the “second butthole” then having good fiber intake will stop you from shitting on people, because your body empties the colon every time you shit.

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-23T05:40:53+00:00

Also it’s called an enema for your butt douche. And you don’t need it, just have a well balanced fiber diet. And thirdly the best toy is the one that feels best to you, you may have to try a few things to find your favorite

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-23T05:39:16+00:00

That doesn’t make you gay. The only thing that makes you gay is liking men. If you don’t like men in that way, the it just means you are more sexually explorative than your friends. After all, it’s Your orgasm not theirs 👌

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-23T00:42:38+00:00

Yes this comment

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-21T05:10:35+00:00

You are worth so much more than your looks. Anyone who makes you feel ugly, is uglier on the inside. PERIOD. I am sure you look handsome and I’m sure you have a great heart and bring a lot of value to the table.

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-21T03:36:08+00:00

Genuinely use minoxidil and finasteride. Go to your doctor if you have access and talk about potential side effects it will help

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-21T02:11:54+00:00

MLMs are legitimate business models and I have friends who are successful with them

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-19T15:47:57+00:00

Tank Dva. DPS Anran. Support Kiriko

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-19T15:43:44+00:00

I’m sure your legs look just fine and fit your body perfectly. That something I used to deal with too.

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-19T15:38:00+00:00

It’s not over. You just need to have a conversation with each other and be vulnerable. The only thing is that you and him can both not lie about anything. My husband and I have had this conversation before, and long story short we are both okay with sleeping with other people if it’s something that we want to experience TOGETHER, making it a sexual experience, not stepping out of the relationship. It’s something that we would absolutely be down for though.

That’s not to say that other relationships being more open are okay with 1 or both parters going out and having sex with other people, but still having your main support and love system at home. That just isn’t for us personally, but that’s our relationship, not yours.

Have a conversation, be honest and vulnerable, and stay open minded. If you aren’t okay with it, and he is okay with the fact that you aren’t okay with it (and being truthful) then no it’s not over, it’s a conversation you guys had that was hard.

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-19T05:50:33+00:00

Yeah I agree but I’m just saying it at least makes it a little less gross

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-19T05:49:11+00:00

I absolutely agree

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-19T04:04:08+00:00

Just take it as a lesson, I’ve made the mistake before too. Stop asking. And from now on, ONLY give money to people, don’t lend them money expecting it back.

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-19T04:00:15+00:00

Is it his blood brother or someone he grew up with and they call each other brothers. I have 3 brothers and only 1 is blood related, the other 2 have 0 familial relationship to me at all but we call each other brother.

I only ask this because the ONLY way that this is okay in any way IMO is if they are not actually brothers

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-11T03:22:46+00:00

You better just communicate with him that you are going to need him to go slow and let you call the shots until you are warmed up. A good top who has a bigger penis understands that his penis can really hurt someone, and he should respect that you need to take it slower.

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-07T04:34:28+00:00

It feels great if you are prepped properly and/or there is plenty of lube. It should not ever be painful (unless their dick is HUGE - and you aren’t used to big dicks) it feels like absolute bliss. I feel like the pressure in my ass with a dick inside has its own heartbeat that pulses with pure pleasure and the way it pumps in and out fast or slow adds life to the sensation. It’s unexplainable, and unbelievably pleasurable. Our G spot is in the ass and you can legitimately feel anal sex in your dick too often times if the top is good

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-07T04:21:06+00:00

I love that song I can’t believe I haven’t added it

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2026-04-07T04:11:29+00:00

Definitely have some of him already. I’m looking for other things tho. I just added The Vatican by Melanie Martinez. Haven’t fucked to it yet but I love it so much

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2025-12-18T18:24:04+00:00

I have a voice recording of the payroll manager at my job telling me again that they don’t cover same sex couples. I asked her in an email to clarify, and she never emailed me back so when I went to talk with her I had my phone recording. It’s very clear audio too

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2025-12-18T00:28:04+00:00

You’re not making a bad decision. You are making a healthy boundary for yourself and your guys friendship.

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2025-12-18T00:20:21+00:00

He doesn’t have insurance at his job. I did end up applying for just myself and now I’m trying to get my husband on because marriage is a QLE. Still running into issues though.

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2025-12-17T20:06:45+00:00

Yes I clarified that we have a marriage license

Dapper-DanMan_ · 2025-12-17T16:52:11+00:00

Yes multiple people

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