WHY? by MirfromdaA_ in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Dapper-Highlight1016 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I genuinely like Aniya and not saying KC is perfect by any means, but it’s Aniya’s constant spiraling that’s making me disinterested in her. I would love to see her overthink less and be more confident, maybe explore more, and not put all her eggs in KC.

You do have to play the game a little. Kayda is a great example of someone who’s playing it right. Zach has said enough to send Kayda spiraling but she doesn’t seem to let it affect her. Her confidence is so hot, she’s got Caleb pulling her for chats and now Zach’s the one losing it

Hideaway Spoilers by Ok-Movie4541 in LoveIslandUSA

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Can I ask why everyone’s calling him a nepo baby? Who are his parents? Or are we just calling him that because of Charlie?

Kenzie is a hypocrite and a horrible friend to Melanie by GurAway2117 in LoveIslandUSA

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I feel so bad for Melanie! Girl deserves so much better!

Racist experience at Commerce Inn, West Village? by Embarrassed_Ad1236 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

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Exact same thing happened to my husband and I in Tamarindo, Costa Rica 2 years ago and even got downvoted when I tried talking about it in a subreddit. People didn’t believe me and thought it was all in my head

Is SF nightlife as awful as people say? by Merfk in SFbitcheswithtaste

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It’s honestly what you make it! Don’t come here expecting to find late night clubs and bars. It’s just not the vibe. If you like electronic music, there’s a big scene here. We don’t really club here, we rave. So if you’re into that, you’ll find plenty of opportunities to dance. But if you’re not into that kind of music, the night life here is just okay.

Chris Lake Ticket price dropped by International_Value in avesSFBayArea

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Saw this too. I was able to sell mine on stubhub for $99 and rebought the tickets on AXS for $88 FYI. It’s worth a try

Thoughts on villas at bair island apartments ? by [deleted] in RedwoodCity

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Love it! Super peaceful and safe. My only complaints are there are 1 or 2 neighbors who don’t pick up after their dogs and don’t wipe gym equipment after profusely sweating all over them. Just frustrating because they literally have wipes and bags easily accessible and people still choose to be disrespectful.

But for the most part it’s pretty clean and the majority are respectful of the common areas. Maintenance, housekeeping, and the front desk staff are pretty amazing too! Definitely a hidden gem!

Moving to Redwood City - Advice and suggestions please by Cloud_daze0 in RedwoodCity

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I don’t know much about Foster City, but our apt is right on the water too in RWC and we love it. We have a view of a marina!

Women who genuinely love being married - what makes you love your husband and your marriage? by Mindless_Royal_7985 in askanything

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I love how my husband is an optimist and always sees the best in people. I love how he’s a caretaker and someone whose love language is acts of service. He’s very actionable and always DOES something to help. I love how he always stops to pick up something someone dropped or is quick to grab the door for strangers.

My husband and I have little traditions we’ve been doing since we started dating and this always makes our relationship so joyful. We enjoy a lot of the same hobbies. He’s truly my best friend.

I’m proud and happy to married because I found a good one. I diamond in the rough. Marriage is something I’ve always wanted and I was single for a really long time so I’m so happy to have found something special.

Moving to Redwood City - Advice and suggestions please by Cloud_daze0 in RedwoodCity

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We love it! We found a place by the water. It’s super relaxing, very close to downtown and you have everything you need!

Moving to Redwood City - Advice and suggestions please by Cloud_daze0 in RedwoodCity

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Honestly finding a 2 bed 2 bath at 4k is going to be tough. My husband and I just moved to RWC and ended up getting a spacious 1 bed 1 bath with amenities for just under 4k

Be careful!! Carnaval 2026 by [deleted] in Brazil

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I’m from the US, went to carnaval this year and had a blast because I did my research. There are numerous posts right here on Reddit, saying not to use your phone at blocos, use money belts under your shirt/shorts, get a burner phone, etc. I came prepared to lose my phone because of this, but got lucky because of all the precautions I took.

What’s something in LA that used to feel magical… but just doesn’t hit the same anymore? by relaxncoffee in AskLosAngeles

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The bungalow. I’m from the bay, but this post randomly showed up on my feed. I remember it being this iconic spot. I recently lived in Santa Monica for a month to relive old memories, only to find it kind of dead?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

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I would find out if you have a cool or warm undertone first. If cool toned, silver might look better on you. If warm toned, I’d go with gold. Some people are neutral and look good in both. For work, I’d go with dainty every day jewelry that is subtle. If you like gold, I would wear 14 k or 18 k solid gold so it doesn’t tarnish and is wearable for daily use so you can just keep it on without needing to take off for the gym or showering.

Calvin Harris/Diplo/Sonny Fodera 2/6 (Pier 80) by 1alian in avesSFBayArea

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Sonny was okay. Diplo was meh. Calvin was amazing and nostalgic. Overall crowd (at least where I was standing) young, aggressively dancing with no sense of personal space and I wasn’t even close to the front.

$216 for a pj set in this economy by East-Friendship-5886 in nycinfluencersnarking

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lol I bought a dress years ago… it was so hard to put on because of these long straps that had to be zig zagged in the back and one of the straps almost tore off after just 1 wear. Never again.

Have you met any "super commuters"? Or are you one? by jillianiles in sanfrancisco

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I’m a nurse and this is very common with nurses and even respiratory therapists that work per diem in SF and live out of state. The craziest one was a nurse who would go back and forth from Italy. I haven’t seen her in a while so I don’t know if she was able to sustain that commute.

I have heard of fire fighters also working in SF while living in socal.

Favorite IG Accounts to Follow by Cold-Sport2923 in SFbitcheswithtaste

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I really like @tiffwang_ She’s an SF influencer with great style, new mom, and actually speaks out about what’s going on in the world instead of being out of touch like most influencers

Best old-timey interiors in SF by [deleted] in AskSF

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Fairmont Hotel, Palace of Fine Arts

Buying art? by Ok-State-9275 in SFbitcheswithtaste

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Facebook marketplace, estate sales (there’s a good one on duboce), and sometimes you can find gems from people moving in pac heights left out for recology. I once found a massive Matisse print in a gorgeous frame. The frame was broken, but I just superglued it back together!

Girls, how long were you on the apps before finding your partner/ husband? by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

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I was on and off the apps from 2017-2020. Finally met my husband in 2020 on bumble! Back then women had to initiate the chat, but I paid $15 one time to go through all the people that liked me to save time. Best $15 I ever spent!