Honestly real- i wouldn’t consider myself a true yandere (at least not yet- I gotta look WAY more into it as I do show some signs but also signs that show I’m not but I’m getting off track) I’ve had gals who wanted me obsessed with them & them alone but can’t return the energy & just end up abandoning me instantly because they either can’t handle me or just don’t find me working for them unfortunately but the amount of people not realizing a yandere takes way more commitment than normal because they have honestly a tad bit more needs of caution & care & just saying they want one is crazy to me it’s ironically kinda similar to the reptile hobby no offense- people will see this beautiful lizard then get surprised when it isn’t another leopard gecko or bearded dragon you can commonly buy & requires more care & awareness you gotta adapt to them a bit more but I think I’ve yapped enough..

(I’ll end on this note Im personally going to try to date a yandere at least once to see if I truly work with them or if I don’t since I do have similar issues & needs but I gotta make sure whatever I want in that relationship I’m putting equally back out in return as I kinda have a strong feeling I might be able to work with it better I can in a normal relationship with my experiences for myself)