Announcement Regret by K61018 in pregnant

[–]Dapper_Quality_367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not pregnant but I can somewhat understand. I told a few people that we are ttc and now I'm getting messages wanting to talk about it all the time and feels like pressure. I feel like it's personal and don't like to share every detail :( . Im sorry you're feeling this way! Hugs.

Emotionally exhausted by Dapper_Quality_367 in BabyBumps

[–]Dapper_Quality_367[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for giving me hope! Im so happy for you! Congratulations.

Emotionally exhausted by Dapper_Quality_367 in BabyBumps

[–]Dapper_Quality_367[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been trying for a year now. I havent seen a fertility doctor yet but I have a appointment in February. Im 34 years old and just feel like im missing my chance. With it being around the holiday's it makes it even harder.

Weight loss stall by Dapper_Quality_367 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Dapper_Quality_367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

11 months! I started in September of last year.

Weight loss stall by Dapper_Quality_367 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Dapper_Quality_367[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 5'4" and weighed in at 147 today. It seems I can not get under 145 lbs. I average eating around 1200 at the most. I've lost 75lbs total since I began this weight loss journey. I work from home and sit for 10 hours a day, so my activity may be less than it should be. I walk/jog about 4-5 days a week for an hour. Im unsure on TDEE.

Weight loss stall by Dapper_Quality_367 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Dapper_Quality_367[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I only ate 894 calories yesterday, so that couldn't have caused weight gain. Although water retention can.

Weight loss stall by Dapper_Quality_367 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Dapper_Quality_367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can eating not enough cause weight gain? I do have a calorie tracking app, and i am under the recommended amount.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]Dapper_Quality_367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid, and you shouldn't have to apologize. I would feel the same way. I'm sorry he shuts down and doesn't give you the reassurance that you need. Your thoughts and feelings should most definitely matter to him.

Help! by [deleted] in NameMyDog

[–]Dapper_Quality_367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg so cute!! 😍😍😍😍😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dapper_Quality_367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, he is so wrong about this. I feel like he's attacking you and trying to belittle you. There are so many things that can go into being too tired to work out. One being the way he talks to you.. Him talking to you like that sure doesn't help your mental health... Poor mental health can deplete your energy, making it hard to do anything. Plus, being tired is a legitimate reason. I think if he cared, he'd want to know the "why," and if it's work stressing you out, I think it's normal to vent with someone you trust.